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Love needs to be fought for, not waiting for an opportunity. When confronted with a person of the opposite sex, if you don't take action, the results may not match your imagination. We need to actively express our love and care, and create and maintain opportunities for our relationship, rather than being helpless.
If you want to make the opposite sex of your heart like you, you need to learn to be proactive. However, this proactive behavior needs to be targeted and moderately mastered. Don't act blindly, but choose the right method and time to show the other person your charm.
For example, the rhetoric of "false and empty" is often counterproductive and counterproductive.
The touch of a person's heart stems from two emotions: attraction and emotion. When he feels your sincere emotions and warm care, and sees your elegant charm, he will naturally feel that he has a good impression of you. This affection will gradually sublimate into true love, because you have already left a deep and beautiful impression on his heart.
Love is a gradual process that must be cultivated slowly. Just like heartbeat, it takes time and patience. It is very important to grasp the little things in your daily life. Paying attention to each other can help us understand each other better and increase our understanding with each other. Only then will love be so strong and long-lasting.
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Of course, persistence is the key to everything, and learning to persevere is also extremely important. In the pursuit of true love, it may be impossible to achieve immediate results. We must be patient and persistent and keep working hard to succeed in obtaining the love we seek.
In the process, there will inevitably be a sense of frustration and loss. However, perseverance is the key to success. When you repeat something over and over again, you can see no obvious results, but you get something out of it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, there are three important things that need to be repeated over and over again when it comes to getting along with the opposite sex so that they will take a keen interest in you and actively fall in love with you.
Shush him and ask for warmth, and be his support
Get along with the opposite sex, care a lot, listen, and he will naturally be attracted to you.
Everyone needs love and warmth. Both men and women want to have a supporter who can give them spiritual and practical support and comfort in times of need. This is a common desire of human beings and one of the most basic needs of life. We should build more warm relationships around us, support and encourage each other, and let life thrive in love.
When you get along with him, you should be his pillar and give him warm companionship and a sense of dependence.
Frequent greetings and care are indispensable. For example, ask him how he is doing today and if he has eaten well. This kind of friendly exchange deepens the relationship and makes people feel cared for and warm.
Timely comfort and encouragement are key, and your presence can quickly enter his heart when he is emotionally vulnerable.
When he feels sad and upset, your companionship and support will make him feel emotional. It's a way for him to open up to you and open his heart. Therefore, always take care of him, care for him, and walk with him.
When he needs help, you are the first to be the first to help, which gives him a great sense of security. He can easily develop a crush on you. At the same time, it is also a way to make him more dependent on you. After all, the feeling of having someone who will always stand by his side and support him is indescribable.
Frequently ask him to meet and create opportunities
If you want a person of the opposite sex to pursue you, then you need to actively date and create more opportunities for each other to get along. At the same time, you also need to show your strengths as much as possible in these opportunities to get along, so that the other person gradually falls in love with you.
To have feelings, you must have the opportunity to get along, which is the key to enhancing relationships. Sharing life together, exchanging ideas and emotions is the only way to build trust and interaction. Giving each other some time and space and creating more opportunities to spend time with each other will make us more intimate and tacit.
You can also use this opportunity to present yourself. For example, your personal charm, once you get the other person's attention, he/she can easily develop love.
When you are facing others, take every opportunity to show your talents and sense of responsibility to show your charisma. This will allow the other person to get to know you better and make a better impression of you.
A few small details at the time of the meeting are important. You can prepare a small gift, pay attention to the other person's likes and drinks, and keep an eye on their situation. This allows you to get to know each other on a deeper level and makes the meeting more enjoyable.
Elegance and meticulousness are often the most touching, and if you keep working hard, sooner or later his love for you will come as promised.
Be honest and open to each other
Sincerity is something that everyone wants in a relationship. When a person feels your sincerity, he will have a full sense of security for you and be able to perceive your heart.
In this way, you will gradually gain his dependence, trust, and affection. All you need to do is show your truest self and be honest with him.
In order to build a long-term connection, it is necessary to share and communicate frequently with the other person. This allows you to get to know each other and make deep connections.
At the same time, you should always be honest and practice it in your interactions with others.
Such as your requirements when looking for a partner, your relationship experience, your financial situation, and your family and social circle.
When you make him feel that you see him as a close partner, he will naturally treat you with sincerity and repay your love and trust with actions.
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In love, warmth, sincerity, and charm are essential nirvana. Of course, to demonstrate these three qualities, it takes constant practice and experience. Be brave enough to pursue these things and make them a shining point in your love.
is like the character Sang Wuyan in the TV series "It Turns Out That I Love You Very Much", she fell in love with Su Nianshu at first sight, and resolutely took the initiative to attack and launched an offensive. It's a feeling that is unforgettable, but it also needs to be handled carefully so as not to be disappointed.
Initially, Su Nianshu did not interact with her and deliberately distanced herself due to misunderstandings. But she didn't give up and insisted on doing something over and over again to get closer to him.
For example, she took the initiative to care for and help him, she knew that Su Nianshu couldn't see things, so she always tried her best to protect him, such as guiding him, accompanying him to wait for the car, and making an umbrella for him and other small things are not uncommon.
For example, in order to meet him, she will arrange some activities in the welfare home, such as getting along with the children, celebrating Xiaowei's birthday, guiding the children to sing, etc., and invite Su Nianjun to participate with her. Such an excuse seems to be very mundane, but in fact she is constantly trying to get more contact opportunities with him.
Gradually, Su Nianshu began to realize her kindness and sincerity, and also experienced her charm and enthusiasm. Inadvertently, he slowly falls in love with her.
In the process of pursuing someone, we should always remember that it takes time for the other person to be tempted. The more you do, the easier it will be for the other person to be tempted. So, relax your mind, wait patiently, do your job well, and the other party will naturally have a good impression of you.