Man 7 stupid, compare, how many stupid are you?

When I was having a weekend get-together with a few friends, a topic unexpectedly piqued everyone's interest. Li Ming turned on his mobile phone and teased: "Come, take a look at this list, '7 big fools for men', let's compare it and see how many fools you occupy." ”

I half-jokingly took his phone and looked at each item on the list, feeling both amused and embarrassed.

1. Emotional stupidity: always giving blindly and never thinking about whether it is worth it or not.
2. Work stupidity: work to the point of forgetting to sleep and food, ignoring life and family.
3. Financial stupidity: It is hard to earn money, but it is lavish.
4. Stupidity: Always seek help from others in the face of problems, and are unwilling to solve them independently.
5. Self-righteous stupidity: always feel that you are right and never listen to other people's opinions.
6. Life is stupid: life is irregular, diet and rest are chaotic.
7. Emotional stupidity: Serious emotionality, unable to deal with things calmly.

One by one, I began to ask myself, "Am I like this too?" ”

Seeing my serious appearance, Zhang Wei laughed, patted me on the shoulder and said, "Brother, don't take it too seriously, it's just a joke." ”

But I don't think it's just a joke. On my way home, the topic kept lingering in my mind. Yes, some of them are 'silly' and I do show a little bit. In particular, "work silly" made me reflect on my lifestyle and work attitude.

When I got home, I sat down in front of my computer and decided to write an article about the experience. I think that while this list was presented in a humorous way, it really touched me and made me start thinking seriously about how I can make a difference in my life.

I wrote: "In today's gathering, a seemingly humorous list made me begin to examine my own behavior. These 'silliness' are not only a ridicule of men, but also an opportunity for reflection. Each of us has these manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, and what matters is whether we are aware of it and have the courage to change. ”

I would like to conclude this article by encouraging every reader, male or female, to use this list as a mirror to examine their own patterns of life and behavior. True wisdom lies in learning from mistakes and growing in knowledge.

After publishing this article, many readers shared their own "silliness" in the comments and discussed how to improve it. This interaction made me feel that writing is not only an expression of myself, but also a deep communication with others. Through this article, I not only shared my own experience, but also inspired others to think and change, which is an unexpected reward.