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"I'm going to marry him, even if he's 35 years older than me!"
In 2013, a 26-year-old girl in Hunan insisted on marrying a 71-year-old man despite her family's opposition, and didn't care that the other party's youngest son was 16 years older than her.
After the two were together, the young woman became pregnant and gave birth to a son for her "grandfather's husband", but this love that abandoned the world lasted only ten years before her husband died.
At only 36 years old, with a child who is only 10 years old, will she regret her decision? What is the current situation of the mother and son?
Love across ages
Presumably, many people were surprised by what happened to them, not only in terms of age, but also curious that this 71-year-old man was still able to have children, and doubted the real relationship between him and his son.
The villagers who live with them have the most say in this. Villagers said that the child is definitely biological, not only because of the strong relationship between them, but also because the child looks like his father, Wen Changlin.
Information source: Phoenix Satellite TV - "The 72-year-old man is happy with his precious son, and the villagers say that it is definitely his own child" (2014.1.17)
At that time, when Zhang Feng decided to marry Wen Changlin, her parents naturally disagreed, not to mention that the man's wife died and brought four children, and the most important thing was age, which was even older than her parents.
If there is a difference of a few years and teens, there can still be a care for each other, this old man is over seventy, and it is when he needs others to take care of him, Zhang Feng has to suffer a lot when he marries. Parents feel sorry for their children.
Although some people say that they are "flowers on cow dung", and the parents are unwilling, they firmly choose each other, and in the end, the parents also obey their daughter, respect her choice, as long as they do not regret it.
After Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin dated for three years, Zhang Feng became pregnant unexpectedly. The arrival of the child made everyone in the family nervous and full of anticipation. At that time, although the two had already gotten along as husband and wife, they had not yet received a marriage certificate.
The two were not in a hurry before, the child suddenly came to their side, in order for the child to be able to go to school smoothly and go to school normally in the future, the sister-in-law proposed that the two hurry up to apply for a marriage certificate.
Even if they have a legal relationship and the two have their own children, the controversy around them is still constant. In the midst of these gossips, the two of them took each other's hands tightly and strode forward.
They don't care about the remarks of outsiders, they are more worried about the child's incomprehension of them, worried that the child will be confused by rumors when he grows up, Wen Changlin left a lot of handwritten letters for the child when he could still write.
In the letter, he said that loving his mother is in line with policies and laws and regulations, they are happy with each other, don't listen to those slanderous gossip outside, respect your mother, love your mother, and thank your mother.
Wen Changlin may be himself, with his age and physical condition, it is difficult to see his son grow up, so he wrote down his teachings and hopes for his son in the letter, not to be disloyal and unfilial, not to be gracious and hateful, and not to be ungrateful.
In addition to the letters he wrote to his son, he also wrote a love letter to his wife. On the paper, he affectionately called his wife "Feng Mei's good wife", and he praised his wife as a person who did not seek fame and profit.
In 2022, Wen Changlin, who is already old, could not escape the ravages and torture of the years and passed away due to illness. In this happy and warm family, only Zhang Feng and his ten-year-old child are left.
In the previous letter, Wen Changlin instructed Zhang Feng to educate his children well and have a long and happy life with his children. For the sake of her son's future and to complete her husband's explanation, Zhang Feng must live strongly, even if she is grief-stricken.
She began to learn what young people look like, recorded their daily lives, posted them online, and used traffic to earn more money to support herself and her children.
Occasionally, she will also live broadcast and bring goods, although she doesn't earn much, but this extra income is very important to their mother and son.
Information source: Purple Cow News - "Ten years ago, a 26-year-old woman in Hunan married a 71-year-old man, and her husband has recently passed away, "I will make good money to raise children next" (2022.9.30)
Although they have obtained a certificate, are legal husband and wife, and live in harmony, there are still some people who do not understand this woman's original choice, why did she choose a "barefoot doctor" who is 35 years older than her when she could choose the right man to marry?
It's a reward, but also true love
Zhang Feng was born in a large family with two older brothers and two sisters. At that time, family planning was tightened, and she was an overbirther, and she had to pay a fine when she was born. Her arrival was an accident, and it was fateful to be able to come to this world.
When they learned that they were pregnant, their parents deliberately knocked out the child in their womb and went to the hospital to take medicine, thinking that they had lost it, but they didn't expect that they were pregnant with twins, and it was Zhang Feng who stayed. This is also the reason why Zhang Feng is not in good health.
Since the child should stay, the parents didn't think about beating her anymore, just to keep her, they paid a fine of more than 4,000. In 1980, more than 4,000 yuan, which is undoubtedly a huge amount of money for an ordinary family.
She and her husband met because of her father. My father was often sick, and he was worried that his father would suddenly fall ill and not be able to call a doctor in time, so Wen Changlin stayed at her house and would take care of her when she was sick.
At that time, the relationship between the two was that of a doctor and that of a child in the patient's family. Children in their fifties and elementary school would never have imagined that they would become legally permissible families in the future.
Because when Zhang Feng was born, her grandmother passed away, and cows and pigs died in the family one after another, because she was regarded as "unlucky", her family didn't like her very much. Her childhood was filled with quarrels. That's why she craves security.
Zhang Feng said that when she was young, she fantasized about finding someone who could give her a sense of security in the future, no matter whether he had money or not, he didn't care about age, as long as he trusted each other, ordinary life was also a kind of romance.
At home, everyone is busy with their own things, few people care about Zhang Feng, out of pity, Wen Changlin often takes her to play. She said that she had never eaten a cake, so he bought her a birthday cake for her birthday. At this time, Zhang Feng felt warm.
When she was 23 years old, she was in love with an ignorant girl, and finally realized that there was a man living in her heart, a man thirty or forty years older than her, the man who felt kind at first sight when she was four or five years old.
Wen Changlin felt Zhang Feng's fiery feelings, he didn't dare to contact her anymore and left her house. He chose to hide, and he couldn't bear that Zhang Feng was a bold and enthusiastic girl.
After several initiatives, he gradually developed a good impression of this girl. The two confronted this relationship head-on and decided to join hands to fight slander.
Write at the end
Maybe Zhang Feng now often misses her husband and remembers the happy life she used to have with her husband. This marriage, although everyone was not optimistic about it at the time, but after marriage, the two respected each other like guests, loved and harmonious, which many couples longed for but did not have.
"In the ten years we have been married, we have lived a harmonious life, and we have basically never quarreled much, and I have never regretted marrying him."
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