#你有对自己进行过人生规划吗? #
In the arena of life, once upon a time, people pursued the philosophy of result first - "no matter whether it is a black cat or a white cat, if you catch a mouse, you are a good cat". However, as time passed, this one-way way of thinking gradually revealed its limitations, and people began to re-examine the importance of the process and realized that "the details make or fail". The same applies to our life planning.
Jingjing, a typical good child in the eyes of everyone, she is obedient and has excellent grades. Her mother always told her, "You just have to concentrate on your studies, and we'll take care of the rest." Jingjing lived up to her expectations and was admitted to a top university in China. But when she left her parents' shelter and faced life on her own, she found herself unable to adapt to independent living, and her relationships became tricky, and she soon fell into a whirlpool of low self-esteem, anxiety and depression. Due to the lack of timely psychological counseling, Jingjing had to drop out of school and began to receive systematic treatment. Such cases are not uncommon, and some even do not know how to be grateful because of their excellent grades, and they dislike their parents. These are all mistakes caused by parents focusing too much on the results and ignoring the process.
In fact, it is the physical and mental health of the child that is the foundation. In the process of learning, if you can develop good study habits, master effective learning methods, achieve "daily clearance", and solve difficult problems in a timely manner, you will naturally be able to achieve excellent results. At the same time, focusing on cultivating children's independent and helpful character will help them better adapt to the new environment, which is the result of attaching importance to process development.
Before doing things, systematic planning is carried out, and the results are often within the predictable range. Planning is the premise and direction, and the implementation process pays attention to control and feedback, and timely corrections. This is known as the PDCA cycle method in enterprise management, which is applicable to the state, enterprises, families and individuals, reflecting the wisdom of "connecting the avenues".
If we develop a sense of planning early and are able to execute it step by step, most people's lives may go in a different direction. If you had a systematic plan, would you choose a school again to build up your knowledge and skills? Will you choose a career again to achieve your dreams? Will you choose a partner again to walk hand in hand? Will you make new lifestyle choices to ensure quality of life and fun? Suddenly, you will realize that everything you have is your own choice. So, did you plan before making your choice? Have you taken the initiative to make your own choices? Many times, we are influenced by external factors, and many times, we go with the flow and lose the look we want......
If you've been on a life's journey for a long time, you might as well stop, meditate, and ask yourself: Where will you spend the rest of your life? With whom? What to do? How to live? If you're just hitting this path, congratulations. I hope that after reading this text, you can get some inspiration, draw your ideal life blueprint, and work hard for it.
May we all have a life that we all have our own masters......