#头条创作挑战赛#
As the old saying goes: "A good wife prospers the third generation." ”
Here, women are seen as key to the well-being of the family.
For men, the measure of success is relatively simple: the brilliance of the career is often seen as the majority of the measure.
However, women's success criteria are diverse and profound.
They not only need to make achievements in the workplace, but also need to carefully nurture the tree of marriage and water the soil for their children's growth.
Only by being comfortable in these multiple roles can we weave a complete picture of life.
At her 40s, if a woman possesses the following three qualities, she is blessed enough to lead a family to happiness:
Such a woman is really a treasure of the family, and her happiness is enough to pry the joy and prosperity of the whole family.
Confidence engraved in the bones
When discussing the true meaning of self-confidence, a high-praise insight on Zhihu is concise and profound: "You are good, and I am not bad." ”
This phrase speaks to the core of self-confidence – not to compete with others, but to accept oneself and appreciate the light of others.
Comparison is often a burden on the soul, although the victory is happy for a while, the defeat is easy to worry for a long time.
A truly confident person can sincerely praise "you are very good", and this open-mindedness comes from the abundance and strength of the heart; And "I'm not bad" is a self-confidence deeply rooted in the heart, and I can be stable and self-reliant without external recognition.
Marriage, as an important chapter in life, reflects the face of personal self-confidence.
Confident women know what they want, take the initiative to steer the wheel of happiness, do not rely on the gifts of others, and do not entrust their future in the hands of others.
On the other hand, treating marriage as a tool of gambling and attempting to tie up the partner with terms will only breed endless troubles and make happiness drift away.
The shackles of lack of self-confidence have made the marriage lose its warm undertone.
In the workplace, the brilliance of self-confidence is equally dazzling.
These women embrace challenges and see each challenge as an opportunity to grow.
For them, challenges and opportunities come hand in hand, and every obstacle is a ladder to success.
It is this tenacity and perseverance that opens the door to the aura and attracts good fortune.
The old saying repeats that "self-confidence is the key to success", revealing the irreplaceability of self-confidence on the road to pursuing dreams.
People with self-confidence can fully engage in life, no matter where they are, and pursue their goals with an immersive attitude.
Self-confidence, like an invisible business card, makes people walk in the world more calmly and radiantly.
In short, self-confidence is not only a strength of the heart, but also a bridge to happiness and success.
Poetry and the nourishment of distance
Poetry and distance are the homecoming of the heart, and the double melody that runs through life: one is the daily fireworks that are close at hand, and the other is the poetic dream that is out of reach.
"Seven things to open the door" - firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, they constitute the basic tone of life, whether the family is poor or rich, they all need to face this ordinary and real triviality.
Fireworks in the world are the warmest comfort, and at the same time, they are also a place of troubles, which both warms the stomach and disturbs the heart.
Gu Shiyun: "The front door is like a mess of debts, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea." I didn't care about him, turned around and looked for Mei's back door. It's a subtle portrayal of escaping distractions and finding peace of mind.
Under the pressure of life, timely withdrawal becomes necessary.
Lulu, a writer who bravely pursues her dreams, has waved goodbye to the workplace for two years and devoted herself to the world of words.
Her daily life, far from the hustle and bustle, is regular and self-sufficient: she wakes up at 6 o'clock in the morning, revises old texts, and immediately devotes herself to writing new ones after breakfast.
When inspiration runs out, take a stroll through the market and pick up your midday ingredients. Take a nap in the afternoon, practice yoga and take care of your residence.
Dinner is simple, a riverside walk is the prelude to the night, and the return is immersed in the sea of books. Life is simple and orderly, and you can enjoy yourself.
She travels far every year, refuses to be bound by the team, plans her own journey, stops while walking, and explores the new meaning of life beyond the scenery.
In a period of relaxation, she not only reaped the fruits of literature, but also enjoyed the endless joy of life.
Lao She said: "Life is short, and if you are bored, you will be old." ”
Life is not a monotonous straight line, sometimes the wind and the moon are boundless, and sometimes the water is melodious.
In the face of the same proposition, attitude determines everything.
Some people turn life into an immutable formula, and although they have thousands of family fortunes, they lose the joy of life.
Although some people are not rich, they are well versed in the joy of life, the years are long, the gray hair is pale, the heart is still innocent, and the soul is always young.
If you want to stay young, you must first create your own poems and distances.
Open-mindedness regardless of gains and losses
Gains and losses are not antagonistic but symbiotic, like the sun and shadow, intertwined and interdependent.
Yesterday's loss is actually the door of today's arrival, and life flows endlessly between gains and losses.
The ancient Greek philosopher said, "One shall not set foot in the same river twice." ”
Everything in the world is always changing and developing, even if the mind is not changed, the fruit of action will be different.
Indulge in the past, happiness is hard to find; The joy of life lies in moving forward bravely.
Moving forward means that hope is in sight, no matter whether the youth is just right or the years are passing, as long as the thinking is always new and the pulse of the times is grasped, we can keep pace with the times.
If you don't abandon the old, how can the new come? If you live on your laurels, your troubles will only come and go.
Those who feel suffocated in life really do not understand the reason for abandonment.
Those who look down on the losers, have an open heart, embrace every turn of life, refine wisdom in failure, and eventually welcome the gift of fate.
"Late bloomer, big voice."
Sediment depths, hidden infinite possibilities.
Mistakes and failures pave the way to success; Be open-minded and regard gains and losses as valuable experience. Experience is priceless, and it only depends on how much you value it.
"Between giving, give first and then get."
Don't be overjoyed when you get it, don't lose your soul when you lose it, and hold a calm attitude in the gains and losses to ensure that your life is not deviated from the right track due to short-term setbacks.
The mentality of treating gains and losses outlines the trajectory of life.
Goethe's wise words say: "The core of the well-being of the individual lies in the satisfaction and pleasure of the soul." ”
A woman who is full of happiness is undoubtedly a person who has a deep understanding of life.
She may come from an ordinary background, but she can bloom with extraordinary charm, bright and attractive.
Their self-confidence is deeply rooted in the bone marrow, and their hearts are full of poetry and yearning for the vast world.
In the face of gains and losses, they are calm and broad-minded, showing a rare and commendable open-mindedness.
Such women are treasures in the world, people who are deeply blessed, and their lives are better because of them.