Hey, these celebrity families look infinitely beautiful, but the parents in private are short, and the door is clear. A few days ago, a friend sent me a video of Ye Yiqian and her daughter Sendie, and after I finished reading that paragraph, I wanted to say, don't say anything, there are a lot of problems in this family!
Family worries have surfaced
In the video, Ye Yiqian talked about the relationship between her daughter Sendie and her son Xiaoliangzai on a family variety show. Ye Yiqian said that Xiao Liangzai once complained that "Mom and Dad love my sister more than him." Seriously, I felt something was wrong when I heard this.
What's even more exaggerated is that Ye Yiqian also said that Sen Die felt that his younger brother was "the most scheming person in the world". When I saw this, I wanted to ask, did you say that a little bit? After all, that's your own son!
didn't say a complete sentence, but netizens blew up. There was a lot of scolding on the Internet, basically condemning Ye Yiqian for having the idea of "patriarchy". Although it is indeed an incorrect way of education for parents to be eccentric, it is really unreasonable for Ye Yiqian to publicly expose the inner world of her children in front of the TV.
Regarding netizens' questions, Ye Yiqian quickly responded on social media. She posted a large text, claiming that she and her husband Tian Liang have never had the idea of "patriarchy", and their two children have always been their treasures.
Ye Yiqian also explained that about changing her daughter's name, she was not to cater to her son, but to give the children a new name to bring more possibilities.
Seeing this, I was a little confused. What is the possibility of changing the name? But then I checked the information, and it turned out that Ye Yiqian did change her eldest daughter from Tian Xinyi to Tian Yucheng. As for why it was changed, she didn't explain it clearly.
The next is even more interesting, Ye Yiqian's husband Tian Liang also joined this family struggle. He called his wife Ye Yiqian social platforms, saying that Ye Yiqian is the most considerate mother of her children, and there is no problem of eccentricity.
I looked at these two people, and I saw through it a little bit. It is said that this kind of family ugliness should not be publicized, that is, it is just a private chat, but these two people have to come out on the Internet, what are their intentions?
Some people say that this is to make a name for themselves in the field of public opinion, and some people say that this is just an opportunity to hype up a new variety show. I think there is some truth to both of them, anyway, these two just have to find a reliable reason to convince everyone.
In addition to the accusation of "patriarchy", netizens also seem to have opinions on some of Ye Yiqian's educational concepts. For example, some people feel that Ye Yiqian and her husband set their daughter and son against each other, which can easily cause conflicts and confrontation among the children.
What's more serious is that some people think that Ye Yiqian's practice of publicly speaking out her daughter's inner thoughts will greatly hurt her daughter's self-esteem and trust. Tell me, isn't this too much for parents?
I'll just say, giving children a good family environment and educational philosophy is the most important thing. I don't know what Ye Yiqian and his wife think, they made a fuss about this matter, but it really smeared a lot of black on the celebrity family.
After counting it carefully, this is really not the first time that Ye Yiqian's family has publicized this kind of family ugliness. I have the impression that she was scolded for some of her son's practices two years ago, and netizens were very angry at her "patriarchal" tendencies at that time.
What do you think, as a half-star, it's easy to talk about it in an interview, but this time she directly said her daughter's inner thoughts on the show, it's too much, right? Furthermore, how can a mother so openly belittle her biological daughter?
Some netizens said that Ye Yiqian's approach completely put her daughter's inner world in the public eye, how can she hurt her child's self-esteem so much as a mother? Not to mention the fact that children may be bullied at school in the future.
Sending a long article afterwards can't save it
In order to suppress the public opinion storm on the Internet, Ye Yiqian had to issue a large text statement overnight, denying that she had a tendency to "favor sons over women". The key is that she also promised that she would be more cautious in her words and actions in the future to avoid causing harm to her family.
But after I read her statement, I felt like a student who was reprimanded by a teacher and wrote an examination, and she couldn't help it. In the final analysis, she publicly exposed her daughter's inner world, which is undoubtedly hurting her daughter's feelings. An apology statement alone can't save this kind of damage.
You think that's all there is to it? Not really! Netizens are very sympathetic to this girl named Sendie. Everyone thinks she is the most innocent one, as an older sister, not only was she neglected by her parents, but even her mother counted herself down on stage in front of the whole world.
I just want to ask Ye Yiqian, have you ever thought about what kind of mood your daughter will feel when others know these inner thoughts? Netizens comforted Sen Die in the post one by one, asking her not to be too sad, and everyone understood her situation as a sister.
Looking at these comments, I feel that Sendie is more popular than Ye Yiqian. After all, if a simple child has suffered such harm from her mother, netizens will naturally sympathize with and support her
The family is not human inside and out
Seeing netizens supporting Sendie so strongly, I was thinking, Ye Yiqian wouldn't really treat her daughter as an outsider, right? After all, as a mother, how can she be so disappointed and blamed for her own daughter?
Looking back on the whole incident, I feel that Ye Yiqian is really laughable. She shouldn't have exposed her daughter's inner thoughts so openly on the show in the first place, it would simply hurt the child. After the Internet blew up, she posted the seemingly sincere apology statement again, but netizens still didn't buy it.
In fact, from the very beginning, Ye Yiqian made a big deal about it. As a parent, if you find that your children have conflicts and generation gaps, you should not put them on the table, but communicate and solve them in private. But it was too unwise for her to mention it again and again on the show.
What's even more outrageous is that Ye Yiqian also set her daughter and son against her, and directly commented that her daughter "hated her son to the core". I really want to ask her, is this trying to add fuel to the fire? The children's contradictions are getting deeper and deeper, and it's better for you as a parent to stand aside and watch the excitement!
Although Ye Yiqian's approach is really enough for Meng Lang, I still have to say that her husband Tian Liang's support for her is really amazing. Obviously, it was Ye Yiqian who caused such a catastrophe, but Tian Liang couldn't cover for his wife, I really don't know if he was lost by his wife or had ulterior motives.
Some netizens said that the reason why Tian Liang is so protective is probably because he is afraid of affecting the ratings of the new variety show of the two of them. You think, if Tian Liang also followed netizens to scold his wife, their family would be completely stinky. When the time comes, who will still watch their variety shows?
But after thinking about it, Ye Yiqian's matter is too big. It's obviously a family ugly, but she has to get it in front of the people of the whole country. I feel so sorry for her daughter, and if it were me, my mother would be belittled in front of the whole country, and I would have no self-esteem.
As a celebrity family, Ye Yiqian really takes herself too seriously. I wondered, what did she think, she actually brought this kind of family ugliness to the people of the whole country? If it is an ordinary family's housework, who would go out of their way to expose the conflicts and privacy in their own family?
I'll just say, celebrities just get too much attention, and there are always some people who regard themselves as treasures, and they have to write about everything in a big way. In fact, after I watched this, my impression of Ye Yiqian was also shocked. As a mother, how can you hurt your child's self-esteem in public? It's like pushing my daughter into the fire pit!
It is natural for netizens to condemn this. As parents, of course, we must educate our children to be equal and fair, and there must be no favoritism or differential treatment. You can't belittle children so much in public, that's simply a negative teaching material for education.
Some people say that celebrities are just to attract attention, so Ye Yiqian broke the jar and broke it, and it was natural to make a big deal about it. I don't think so. As a mother, she should first respect her children and cherish her family, rather than hurting her relatives for the sake of attention. This kind of educational concept is really thought-provoking.