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1. True love is to stimulate the light in the other person's heart, so that it can become a shining and unique soul, rather than becoming a vassal and shadow of oneself.
2. Love under control and monitoring is not a kind of excessive protection of the self, and the essence is to hurt the self-esteem and personality of the other party.
3. Too much and excessive attention to the other party is not love, but inner fear and anxiety, and inability to grasp the other party's lack of confidence and anxiety.
4. Sometimes we think that the pruning of the soul is the love for him or her, but in fact, the pruning of the soul should be based on the recognition of the other party.
5. Love is not the hunting of the target, it is not the other party as one's sphere of influence, without the permission of the other party, and rashly entering their private space is an invasion and offense, but also an evil.
6. The basis of love must be respect, there is no love without respect, only with the permission of the other party, the confirmation of the other party, and the favor of the other party, can we talk about love.
7. Love is a two-way attraction, not one party's self-inflicted affection, no matter how much you feel to pay, and the other party does not approve, then this kind of love is going in the wrong direction, or does not understand the other party's heart.
8. Love must learn to introspect, find its own mistakes, understand the other party's heart, and do not entangle people who do not love.
9. To be a person worthy of the love of others, you must know what not to do, not to let yourself go, but to learn to be rational and restrained.
10. Love is the brightest star in the world, and love is the most beautiful flower in the world. Let our minds learn to observe the good in each other and keep drawing on the beneficial energy.
Let love be the joy and happiness of life, not the hurt and pain.
Recognize beauty, explore beauty,
Discover beauty and love beauty
Follow the footsteps of beauty
Live a beautiful life
Liwen Yuexin,
In beautiful words
Delight the mind.
Editor: Ru Liwen,
Lovers of literature
He likes literature and poetry
May life and poetry always accompany each other,
May time and beauty always depend on each other!
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