Chi Li wrote in "Green Water Flows":
"Everyone has a word to describe a person or something at every stage.
At this stage of being a middle-aged person, one word that I particularly appreciate for a person's affection is comfort. ”
When people get along with each other, the first thing they see is often what they are wearing.
Then look at the appearance, demeanor, and expression.
So as to judge his character, preferences and mood.
Dressing up can show how a person approaches life.
In addition, it can also show the inner world.
A person, how he dresses, is what kind of life.
On the road of life, people will always show their psychological state through clothing and other external expressions, and in those details, you can see what your life is.
It is difficult for a person who dresses sloppily to live a decent life
The Psychology of First Impressions writes:
"There is no such thing as the 'right' first impression or the 'right' way of communicating.
A good first impression comes when you show your authentic self. ”
People who don't have requirements for themselves will always dress sloppily and find it difficult to live a decent life.
Bao Yifan, the "little bag boss" in "Ode to Joy", was dressed very exaggerated when he first met Andy.
Although it is flamboyant, it has no sense of beauty, which makes Andy frown directly.
If his first impression of Andy is mature and steady, Andy will not be prejudiced and rejected by him.
Later, when Bao Yifan met with Andy, he dressed more formally and respected Andy.
also because he has a high emotional intelligence, Andy saw the cuteness and sincerity of Mr. Bao, and he no longer rejected the communication with each other.
When people get along with each other, first impressions are important.
If, when you meet for the first time, you can make a good impression on the other person if you dress decently.
Then the subsequent interactions and getting along will increase some goodwill, so that there will be a deeper understanding of each other.
If you dress sloppily and exaggeratedly, it will leave an offensive first impression on the other person.
If they want to have more dealings with each other in the future, the other party will first subconsciously resist.
People who dress sloppily and inappropriately often find it difficult to gain high-quality connections and gain the sincerity of others.
At the same time, it means that it is difficult to get connections and opportunities.
A person's clothing affects his connections
Psychologist Goleman said:
"How comfortable you are determines how high you can get."
On the road of life, what kind of personality people will attract.
When people interact with each other, you can see a person's occupation, cultivation and preferences from their clothing.
For example: gatherings, bringing together people who have never known each other.
People who wear sportswear give people the impression that they love sports, and chatting with them can subconsciously start with the topic of fitness.
If the other party is wearing a suit and leather shoes, they will guess that the other party is working for a certain company.
There is a lot of entertainment, and you can talk about the market of the industry during the chat, so that it will not be too abrupt.
At the same time, you can also understand his preferences and social status by looking at the other person's clothing, accessories, etc.
A person's clothing subtly guides his connections.
In terms of dressing, similar preferences are often easier to get close to each other quickly.
People, at the right time and place, choose the right dress, is to give yourself a sense of dignity, but also to give the people around you a comfort.
If a person dresses too differently, it will give people an uncomfortable feeling, and there will be a gap between each other, which will affect the communication of each other's feelings.
A person who is well-dressed and elegant will have a high impression score.
It is often easier to get twice the result with half the effort when cooperating in the later stage.
People who live exquisitely, dress decently
On the road of life, people who have requirements for themselves will also have requirements for dress.
They always take every meeting seriously and give themselves and each other a deep sense of respect.
On the road of struggling life, people who dress exquisitely make themselves live with spirit by making their clothes comfortable and clean.
No matter what kind of situation people have, they can dress themselves up cleanly and decently, which is also a manifestation of their love for life.
People who live delicately will always dress decently, and when meeting others, there will be no wrinkles in their clothes, and their shoes will be polished brightly.
The newness of the clothes does not mean that they have a high level of decency.
And wearing a clean, tidy, and suitable aura for yourself is to live out your own style.
There are many hardships and sufferings on the road of life, and people who live a decent life will always keep themselves clean and tidy, maintain a good mental temperament, and laugh at life.
Clothes are limited, but there are always infinite miracles in life.
People who can wear good clothes can always strive to live a better life with limited resources.
Even if the cards in your hand are not good, you must play your own momentum and live your own wonderful.
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Life is like a blank sheet of paper, waiting for us to paint colors.
Maintaining a good dress every day is a matter of respect for others and self-respect.
A person, dressed neatly and brightly, will also enhance their self-confidence.
On specific occasions, having a proper attire and being calm will leave a good impression on the people around you.
When we meet again, the memory will be fresh, and it will also increase the probability of cooperation.
On the road of life, when you live a little more delicately, it is not only to cheer for yourself, but also to allow yourself to meet new opportunities in a better state.
As long as we don't give up on ourselves, we won't fail.
No matter how hard you fall, tidy up your clothes, and pat off the dust on your body, you can still stride forward and have a brighter future.