When you encounter an elderly person who has fallen, do you want to help him?
In the past, this matter would only be regarded as a moral issue, and most elementary school students, middle school students, and even college students, were full of enthusiasm in their hearts, and they were also well taught by their teachers that it was appropriate to help the elderly.
But reality is also a mirror. Realistic education has made more adults rational and thoughtful. A choice that even elementary school students would not hesitate to make, but it was repeatedly weighed by adults.
Such a change is emotional, but can you say that it is wrong for adults to weigh the pros and cons? If you are the person concerned, you may not be able to be so calm.
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This time, a man also encountered something similar. He kindly helped the drunk old man up, but was mistaken by the old man's family for causing the old man's injury.
Fortunately, the ending of this incident was gratifying, and the old man's family finally apologized and thanked him, and the good man got a good ending, which can be regarded as a happy ending.
But if in the end, the old man did not tell his child, it was not the fault of the well-wisher, if the old man's family had been misunderstood and only willing to believe the facts they saw, would the well-wisher feel tired?
After the incident, many netizens expressed their feelings. Some people also said that if they hadn't made a move, the man would not have encountered this incident, let alone worry about being framed.
Such an idea is actually understandable, after all, people are afraid of trouble, and the impact of this kind of incident is not only trouble, if the process is not clarified, the man will not only be misunderstood by the family, but also may be slandered by uninformed netizens.
However, the truth is also the confidence of men. He chose to help because of his kindness, and he was not the culprit of the incident. It's just that when good people need to prove for themselves and find a way to make it clear that it's not their fault, their hearts will always get tired.
The discussion of netizens is the most basic feeling of human nature, you can't deny the cognition of others because of this, and you can't just say how cold-blooded someone is. After all, the premise of wanting everyone to be enthusiastic should also protect the rights and interests of this part of the people, at least not let the good people be wronged, and not let the good people feel that they have been wronged, which is what we should strive for.
The result of this incident was relatively satisfactory, after all, the old man was reasonable, even if he was drunk and not sober enough, he still told his child and gave the kind man justice.
But the frequent occurrence of such incidents also makes people think about whether people can be more cautious before arguing who is right and who is wrong if there is no evidence in verbal evidence.
Although this time the man said that he would choose to take action when he encountered similar things in the future, this incident made other spectators sigh somewhat. A good person can continue to choose to be a good person because he is a good person himself, but human nature is complex and should be guided by kindness.
If other people who originally had the idea of wanting to help others saw this happening, would they still stand up for what they believed in? Will their family and friends make them stand up for what they believe in?
A good belief can make the world a better place, and a group of people have a beautiful belief that can sometimes even create something extraordinary, so we should still think about how to make doing good deeds without cost and not hurt!