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Recently, I heard many 30+ sisters say that they are very anxious, because they have reached an awkward age, they want to do a lot, but they feel too late, and they always feel a little overwhelmed.
I've had this feeling before, especially when I was just 30 years old, I always felt that I was no longer young, but I didn't feel reconciled.
In fact, if you think about it, what is the difference between a thirty-year-old and a twenty-year-old? I think it's mainly a change in mentality.
Some people feel that their 30-year-old self is stronger and more mature, so they can do more of what they want to do, but some people feel that their 30-year-old self has lost their vitality and has become very hesitant.
You have to know that many things are like this, and how you think will develop, so don't be presumptuous, and cheer yourself up.
You have to tell yourself, I'm only thirty years old, I'm still in time, and it's really just right to work hard.
Of course, it's not enough to just cheer you up, you also need to actually execute it. So, let's do these three things together, I believe that every woman will have a sparkling thirty.
Don't ask for quick success
At the age of thirty, many people will feel that it is too late, so there is a feeling of anxiety and anxiety. But such emotions will not help us succeed, but will also lead us into a vicious circle.
My dear, please think about it, you are only thirty years old now, your life has actually just begun, you have a lot of time to accumulate, so you have to be calm.
The most important thing is not to compare with others, let alone ask for quick success, find your own goals, and work hard, which is the best.
There are a lot of 30-year-old women around me, and they are very persistent in doing one thing, whether it is work, it may be studying, it may be starting a business, it may be fitness, it may be maintenance, but no matter what it is, they are tireless.
You may not see a change for a few months, but after a year, two, or three years, their lives will be different.
They have a good figure, an enviable career, and an ability to be proud of, these are their wealth, and others can't take it away.
And the reason why they get this is because they are long-termists, and they know that as long as they are a little bit better today than they were yesterday, it is worth it.
So my dear, don't be anxious, don't be anxious, we just need to follow our goals and keep moving forward, your life has just begun, and your life will be bright.
Get started now
I've found that many women who are prone to anxiety like to make excuses for themselves. Obviously in a hurry, but he didn't start for a long time, always saying that he wasn't ready.
Yes, not being ready, this is a problem that everyone will face, but how many people in this world can be ready to start again?
Strong women never consume their lives by waiting, they know that everything is difficult at the beginning, and being able to start is more important than anything else.
So, if you are anxious, what you should do is to find a suitable goal, start immediately, don't procrastinate, you will find that as long as you start, you will no longer be anxious.
So, what exactly is to be done? I think it depends on what you need most at this stage. Going for what you want most will make you more motivated.
is like Zhong Xiaoqin in "Thirty Only", after realizing that the life she wants is not what it is now, she changed her image and mentality, divorced, resigned, and started her new life.
You see her, she didn't feel sorry for herself because she was thirty years old, but because she started a different life.
So my dear, if you want to do anything, do it immediately, regardless of whether you can succeed or not, as long as you do it, you have succeeded.
I believe that every woman will become stronger as she moves forward, and she will be more aware of what she wants.
At that time, you will not have time to hesitate and be anxious, you will forget your age and time, bravely pursue a better life, and then meet a better self.
Earn money and save money
What kind of woman doesn't get anxious? I have observed many women around me and found that women who are rich and able to make money are less anxious.
Don't think it's too materialistic, sometimes, money can really solve a lot of problems, even if money can't solve the problem immediately, you can use money to find a solution to the problem.
This world is so realistic, so for women, being able to make money and save money can solve many troubles in life.
If you want to understand this problem, don't talk about what the age of 30 is like, find a way to improve yourself and make more money.
Of course, you have to rely on your own strength to make money, and you must also use appropriate methods, and at the same time, you must also control your desires, and you can't blindly spend money and spend money indiscriminately.
Knowing how to manage money and making money make money is also a very powerful ability. Although money is not saved, but spent, knowing how to save money can really help you gain more freedom.
Now, a lot of women around me are living minimalist lives, which allows them to manage their finances better and gives them more control over their lives.
So my dear, if you are anxious, then hurry up and find a way to make money and save money, this is the best way to help you solve these problems.
Thirty years old is really a great age, you will feel it if you experience it with your heart and experience it well.
Because at this age, we have clearer goals and a stronger ability to achieve them. Because at this age, we can do what we want to do, and we have more power to choose freely.
As for the constraints you feel with your age, it is just a fear and conjecture on your part, change your mentality, and you will have a better life.
I believe that every thirty-year-old woman can live a brilliant life, please believe it too.
Come on.