After going to college, parents will no longer care about college students' falling in love, or the general family will not interfere too much, thinking that it is the freedom of young people, as long as they do not delay their studies, graduate normally, and do not delay work or anything. Maybe the two of them can help each other and get better during college, wouldn't it be even more joyful.
And now after graduating from college, I'm very busy at work, and I don't want to go on a blind date or anything like that, so I don't have to go with the flow from college. If you are graduating from a prestigious school, find your own alumni, both of whom have a degree from a well-known university, and your parents will be more assured.
It's just that in college, there are still some risks among young people. Especially when college students have no emotional experience before this, let them start talking about marriage and want to stay for life, it is easy to cause some misunderstandings or lessons. As a parent, if there is a girl in the family, then you must protect and educate her well, and don't let her sincerity be wrong.
Looking at the Internet, it is simply commonplace for college students to show affection. However, a recent video showing affection overturned fiercely.
In the comment area, 55,000 people turned into detective Sherlock Holmes, and began to judge whether this female college student was really loved or falsely loved from the clues.
Apparently it was a concert, and it was written that it was a class concert at a university in the January 3 class of the class of 2021. A female college student happily held a bouquet of flowers and ran forward to offer it to another boy, it seems that the two should be a couple, and this girl's accompanying text also shows her "love brain": I hope my boyfriend is healthy, handsome, and will always love me alone.
But anyone who watches this video a few times will find it a little weird. When the girl ran forward, her beloved boyfriend took two steps back, showing some reluctance. The female college student enthusiastically handed the flower to the boy, and the boy's expression was as if the girl was forcing it on him, and he reluctantly accepted it.
More detailed netizens also found the direction the boy was looking at. A lot of people in the back were also watching, especially a girl and boy in blue who saw a direction. made a bold guess that what they were looking at might be the boy's real sweetheart. And this girl's sincerity is likely to be wrongly paid.
Although it is not good to speculate about other people's lives at will. The person concerned should be very unhappy, but as a college student, you must admit that your life experience is actually insufficient, and in terms of dealing with people, the deep friendship between people is not sufficient, and you should really listen to the opinions of experienced people.
And some things, such as love and non-love, can actually be distinguished from some feelings and details. College students do not need to feel that the people they meet in school will be the ones who will accompany them for a long time, in order to prevent being deceived, parents should give college students such an education.
There is nothing embarrassing or embarrassing about talking about these things before going to college, just like some physiological knowledge education, which must be put on the agenda.
Their responsibility is not just to supervise academics, but to focus on the child's development in all aspects. First of all, emotional education is crucial. They need to tell college students that college doesn't mean it's forbidden to be in love, but to maintain proper balance in their interpersonal interactions.
In college, the degree of freedom increases, but this does not mean that it is possible to fall in love without constraints. Parents should be kept in communication about their whereabouts and activities they are involved in so that they can feel at ease.
Secondly, financial education is also crucial. Many college students will overspend because of spending after falling in love, resulting in insufficient living expenses. Even single college students should learn to use their living expenses wisely. Although not everyone can increase their income by working part-time, at least learn how to plan their expenses wisely.
This is not only beneficial for college students at this stage of life, but also for independent living after graduation, renting a house and working. Help them grow healthily during their college years and build a strong foundation for independent living in the future.