introduction
"The lack of family education will not only make children unable to distinguish between right and wrong, but also make them unscrupulous in society to hurt others. A child who lacks upbringing and respect is not only a sorrow for the family, but also a hidden danger for society. ”
In addition to their natural personality, many children may become lawless due to lack of discipline or over-pampering, and sometimes even follow their parents' temperament. Recently, there was an angry "nosy" incident in Nanjing, let's take a look at what's going on!
Details
The incident happened on May 16 in Nanjing, Jiangsu. A woman went to play with a friend and parked her electric car in a public parking shed in the community.
Unexpectedly, a little boy and his mother suddenly rushed out, accusing her of occupying the driveway indiscriminately, and even escalated to a physical attack.
They made a lot of noise and insulted the women. The little boy said even more arrogantly: "I'll kill you!" Anyway, I'm under 16 years old, so I can't be sentenced to death, and it's worth it for my life for the lives of two of you. The woman tried to persuade her, saying, "Have I moved you?" Did I hit you? ”
The editor was really creepy when he heard this sentence, are the children now so lawless?
The boy's mother persuaded her son on the sidelines, and the child's mother said to the child: "They don't have the quality (only the girl who only parks), don't you have the quality?" And shouted at the child, "Don't move, don't move." ”
This angered the little boy, and the son angrily retorted: "You don't control me, you don't control me"
The little boy dragged the woman's electric car out of the carport even more frantically, saying in his mouth, "You crane", and then slammed the car to the ground, still spat on the electric car, and held a stick in his hand, and hit the electric car that fell to the ground.
Eyewitness accounts
Witnesses were shocked and outraged when they saw this scene. One witness said: "Just because the car is parked in the public carport, the child comes up and constantly inflicts violence on the girl, spitting and insulting, which is so immoral!" What's even more terrifying is that he also threatens to go to the house and kill people! If you don't study well at a young age, you learn some messy things all day long! ”
The boy also claimed that the woman often parked there, but when the woman asked him to produce evidence, he could not produce it, and his speech was slurred and slurred. The video is already very understated, and the situation at that time was worse than in the video! , and even hit the woman with a stick, it's really lawless!
In the face of other people's videos, the little boy bluntly said: "You are recording, you are violating my portrait rights." "This kind of behavior is really speechless. You may not be bothered by older people, but what if you meet your peers? Peers who came up directly were beaten fat, and they didn't talk big or small, which was really infuriating!
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Reflection and discussion
This incident really made the editor speechless, looking at the little boy's appearance, he should be almost 16 years old, and he actually spoke wildly! Although there may not be a heavy penalty under the law for children under the age of 16, such children really need to be educated well.
16 years old should be the age of high school or junior high school, how can I feel like a child who has not grown up when I talk and act! You say he didn't grow up, he still knows a little bit about the law.
The behaviour of the little ones reflects the educational problems of the family. In this case, the little boy's actions are not only his personal problem, but also his mother's educational dereliction.
Not only did she not stop her son's excesses in time, but she attacked the woman with her son, which only made the child more lawless. In the future, the child's mother will surely regret that he did not give the child the education he deserved at the right time.
Netizens are hotly discussed
Netizens said that this child's situation should be reported to the school and let him withdraw from school.
Some netizens thought of the cruel incident of three junior high school students in Handan some time ago, and they were also worried about whether more children would follow suit in the future, hoping that the country would pay attention to it.
Some netizens suggested that the Civil Code could be changed to the Law on the Protection of Minors under the age of 13, and children who went to junior high school already understood everything they should know at this age!
Indeed, if all the children in the family learn from this child, I am afraid that they will not be able to stay in this campus in the future.
We need to think about:
- What went wrong with homeschooling?
- Why does a 16-year-old have such a tendency to violence?
- Are there any deficiencies in the moral education of children in society and school?
Finally, I would like to say
The editor would like to analyze why this child became like this from several aspects:
1. Lack of family education
First of all, the 16-year-old's behavior exposed a serious lack of family education. A normal child, at this age, should know what is right and what is wrong.
However, from his actions and words, it can be seen that his parents are really failing in discipline. Instead of stopping their son's excesses, the parents made things worse. This type of education only makes children more lawless.
2. Socio-environmental influences
Secondly, the influence of the social environment on children cannot be ignored. In an environment where there is a lack of legal and moral constraints, it is easy for children to learn some bad behaviors. Parents usually do not have the right guidance
The fact that the child attacks others in public without hesitation, and even arrogantly says that "the death penalty cannot be imposed" shows that he is ignorant of laws and social norms.
3. Lack of legal awareness
Moreover, the child's statement that "I am under the age of 16 and cannot be sentenced to death" exposes his ignorance and use of the law.
The law on the protection of minors is designed to protect their legitimate rights and interests, not an excuse for them to act arbitrarily.
Legal education should start from an early age, so that children know that the law not only protects them, but also restricts their behavior.
4. Responsibility of all sectors of society
Finally, it reminds us that all sectors of society have a responsibility to help children grow up healthy. Schools, communities and governments should work together to strengthen legal and moral education for minors.
It's really heart-wrenching. A child's out-of-control behavior not only hurts innocent people, but also unsettles society as a whole. It is the responsibility of each of us to reflect on our own education methods and social environment, and try our best to provide a good environment for children to grow up. Only with the participation of the whole society can we create a healthy and safe environment for growth.
What do you think of this incident? How do you think such children should be educated? What role should family, school, and society play in a child's development? Feel free to share your views and suggestions in the comment section.