1. The cost of an inappropriate statement
In the spring of 2020, a sudden new crown epidemic enveloped the whole country. This is a moment when the country and the nation are facing a common crisis, and the whole Chinese people are firmly united, united as one, and cheering for Wuhan in different ways.
In this special and critical period, the majority of medical staff took the initiative to come forward and bravely embarked on the road of fighting the epidemic on the front line. The shocking scenes made the whole country moved.
People's hearts are deeply inspired by this heroic spirit that is not afraid of life and death.
As soon as Aqiu's words came out, they immediately caused an uproar on the Internet. The majority of proud Chinese sons and daughters have condemned his remarks, believing that as a Chinese citizen and a CCTV host, he should stand up and protect the flag of the country when the country is attacked from the outside, instead of joining the enemy and laughing at the world.
There was an uproar on the Internet, and the continuous fermentation of public opinion finally attracted the attention of CCTV. After in-depth internal investigation and research, CCTV made a decision to severely punish Aqiu - to completely ban Aqiu and take all the programs he hosted offline for rectification.
Since then, Aqiu's career has suffered a heavy blow, and he has fallen from the altar abruptly.
For a while, people speculated about whether there was any hidden reason and motive behind Aqiu's radical remarks? In fact, he once revealed that his grandfather mysteriously disappeared when he was 5 years old, which left an indelible shadow on his psyche.
And the motive behind his remarks is inextricably linked to this shadow.
Second, the shadow of my grandfather's ill-fated life
It turned out that Aqiu's grandfather had crossed the ocean when he was young and went to Malaysia to work hard to get rich. In the beginning, he was just an unknown ordinary rubber plantation worker, and he quickly made a lot of money through hard work.
But this wealth also brought him some banes - jealousy, suspicion, covetousness, and soon he was targeted by a group of armed local warlords.
One night, when Aqiu was only 5 years old, an armed group suddenly broke into their home. Aqiu's mother was so frightened that her face turned bloodless and trembled.
Soon, the gang tied up his grandfather and grandmother, and despite their pleading, they were invariably pushed and struck mercilessly. In this way, Aqiu watched his grandparents be kidnapped by these brutal creatures, and since then, they have never returned.
For a 5-year-old child, this is undoubtedly too shocking shadow. In the years of Aqiu's growing years, he repeatedly asked his mother about the whereabouts of his grandparents, but his mother always avoided the important and kept silent about the past with a look of concealment and pain, as if she could not let go of it.
Aqiu could only bury his doubts deep in his heart, full of doubts about what happened to his grandparents.
This incident left an indelible psychological wound on Aqiu. In his impression, his grandfather was a hardworking, kind, and unpretentious person, but he was treated so unfairly.
At a young age, he was already aware of the cruel reality of injustice in this world.
This shadow haunted Aqiu's heart and continued into his adolescence. Since then, Aqiu has become more and more reticent, losing his childhood liveliness and innocence, and no longer keen to talk to people.
It was also during that special period that he developed the habit of liking to watch TV, and whenever he saw those eloquent and angular hosts, he had a strong yearning in his heart, dreaming that one day he would be able to stand on that stage and fully show himself.
3. The career of the CCTV host is unlimited
After unremitting hard work, Aqiu finally got his wish and entered the coveted stage of CCTV. In 2003, with his outstanding eloquence and steady hosting style, he quickly emerged from obscurity in CCTV, a place where talents are abundant, and successively hosted popular programs such as "Social Record", "People New Weekly", and "Daily Story Collection", becoming one of the hottest hosts of CCTV at that time.
On the palace-level stage of CCTV, Aqiu's unique and humorous hosting style made him stand out and was widely praised by the audience. Whether it is his witty and humorous language skills, or his ability to respond wittily on the spot, or his delicate emotional rendering when interacting with guests, Aqiu embodies the professionalism of an excellent host everywhere.
He has always maintained a diligent and studious attitude, humility and courtesy, and humbly asked for advice, which has won unanimous praise and respect from his colleagues. What do his colleagues say about him?" Aqiu is meticulous in his work, and will repeatedly study and prepare for each program" "He is the most polite colleague I have ever met, sincere and humble" "Aqiu is a workaholic and an example for me to learn".
From these evaluations, we can clearly see that Aqiu has won the affirmation of his peers with practical actions.
In this way, Aqiu became an instant hit, and his career and family had a bumper harvest. In the summer of 2004, he met Xu Huanyu, a beautiful and moving lady, at an event, and the two fell in love at first sight, saw each other and soon got married.
At first, Xu Huanyu's parents were not very supportive of this relationship, thinking that Aqiu's family background and education level could not match their daughter.
But Aqiu was not discouraged, but impressed his father-in-law and mother-in-law with more persistent efforts. Through practical actions, he used his values and personality strength to change the prejudices of the two elders, and finally won their blessings.
Soon after the newlywed, a couple ushered in the crystallization of love - a lovely child was born.
For a time, Aqiu lived an extremely happy and contented life. During the day, he scolded Fang Xuan and was active on the stage of CCTV, and he was admired everywhere; At night, I happily returned to my warm little home, accompanied by a virtuous and beautiful wife and lovely children, which can be described as a double harvest for career and family.
Looking at Aqiu's demeanor, I'm afraid few people would have thought that the first half of his life would leave such a deep psychological shadow.
Fourth, the crisis of family and marriage
In order to calm public opinion, Aqiu personally clarified and explained the matter, denying the rumors of his cheating. At the same time, his wife Xu Huanyu temporarily chose to forgive and forgive out out of consideration for her children.
However, the efforts of the husband and wife have not been able to prevent more cruel facts from coming to light.
It didn't take long for an even more shocking scene to happen - Aqiu was exposed to cheating again, and this time the object of cheating turned out to be his ex-girlfriend! Faced with the double blow of the facts, Xu Huanyu finally couldn't tolerate and tolerate anymore, and made up his mind to divorce Aqiu, thus ending this painful marriage.
For a while, people suddenly realized that the previous rumors about Aqiu's derailment were not groundless. As a once high-profile public figure, Aqiu's scandalous exposure undoubtedly brought a huge blow to his reputation, and he fell step by step from being a popular host to the altar, and finally gradually faded out of the public eye.
And Aqiu seems to be aware of his mistakes, and since then he has rarely said anything about the outside world, and his life has become more low-key and secluded. It is suspected that perhaps the shadow on his heart has not been removed, which led him to make some disappointing decisions and actions.