In the bustling city, I, Li Mei, a 34-year-old single woman, are experiencing an unprecedented blind date.
I was born in an ordinary family, and my parents were hard-working and simple workers, who raised me with hard work. Since I was a child, I was taught to be independent and self-reliant, so after graduating from university, I chose to stay in the city and work hard to build my career.
Today, I have a stable job and a good income in a middle management position in a well-known company. Emotionally, however, I have never been able to find a home. I was a little anxious when my friends and family were getting married and having children, but I was always single.
This blind date was introduced by my mother. The other party is a 37-year-old man named Wang Gang, who is said to be a successful businessman. Although I was a little resistant to a blind date, I decided to meet them considering my age and my family's expectations.
On the day of the blind date, I dressed up and put on an elegant dress and light makeup. When I walked into the agreed restaurant, I saw Wang Gang sitting in the corner at a glance. He wears a suit and glasses, and looks polite. After we introduced each other, we started chatting.
Wang Gang is very talkative, and he told me about his entrepreneurial experience and family background. He said that he was once a poor boy, and it was with his hard work and luck that he achieved a place in the business world. As I listened to his story, I couldn't help but feel admiration for him.
However, when the conversation turned to emotional, I felt a little embarrassed. Wang Gang asked me why I didn't get married, and I said hesitantly, "Maybe it's because I'm too busy with work." He smiled and said, "I understand that women are very independent nowadays and are not as dependent on men as they used to be." ”
Hearing him say that, I felt a little uncomfortable. I felt like he was implying that I was a "leftover girl", which made me feel very uncomfortable. I retorted, "Actually, I don't think there's anything wrong with being single. It's just that my family and friends want me to find a home sooner rather than later. ”
Wang Gang listened to my words, was silent for a while, and then said, "Actually, I have also had several relationship experiences. However, in the end, none of them came together. Maybe it's because I'm too busy with my career to manage my relationships. ”
As I listened to his words, I couldn't help but feel some sympathy in my heart. I think we may all be forced by life to face such a reality. So, I decided to let go of the mustard in my heart and be honest with him.
We talked a lot, from work to life, from ideals to reality. I found that Wang Gang is actually a very thoughtful person, and he has unique insights and perceptions of life. The atmosphere between us has gradually become more relaxed.
However, when the dinner was about to end, Wang Gang suddenly said: "Li Mei, I think you are a very good girl, but I don't think I am worthy of you." ”
When I heard this, my heart suddenly cooled. I don't know why he said that, is it because he thinks I'm too old? Or is it because he feels that our backgrounds don't match?
I tried to stay calm and asked him, "Why do you say that?" We haven't gotten to know each other yet. ”
Wang Gang sighed and said, "Actually, I am a very traditional person. I think that a woman should be married and raised at home, instead of working hard outside like you. Moreover, your conditions are so good, you should be able to find a better home. ”
I listened to him and felt a pang of anger in my heart. I feel like he's judging me with traditional ideas, which is disrespectful to me. I retorted, "Everyone has their own way of life and values. I don't think women should be at home with their husbands and children. Also, I don't think we know each other well enough that you can't dismiss me just because of something superficial. ”
Wang Gang listened to my words, was silent for a while, and then said, "Maybe you are right. However, I don't think we're a good fit. I don't want to delay your time, and I don't want you to have hope for me. ”
When I heard this, I knew what he meant. He was actually politely rejecting me. Although I felt a little lost in my heart, I also understood his thoughts. After all, emotional matters cannot be forced.
So, I smiled and said, "It's okay, we can be friends." Thank you for your company today. ”
Wang Gang also smiled and said, "Okay, we can contact more in the future." ”