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When a father hears that his precious daughter has been kissed, his first reaction is undoubtedly anger and incomprehension. In this era of developed networks, parents are always prone to be overly sensitive and protective of their children's "safety".
There is a reason for the incident, and under the verification of many parties, this seemingly unbelievable "intimate incident" is actually just an unintentional joke between two children.
The story begins with a weekend of neighborhood excursions. The little boy Zhang San and the little girl Li Si went to a nearby park together, accompanied by both parents. Later, Li Si's father left in advance, leaving only the children to play.
After returning home that night, Li Si told his father that he was kissed by Zhang San in the park. These words immediately ignited the anger of Li's father, who thought that it was disrespectful and invasive to his daughter.
Early the next morning, he angrily dragged his daughter to Zhang San's house to ask for an explanation, and questioned Zhang San's parents' attitude towards the matter.
In the face of the aggressive father Li, Zhang San's parents were obviously at a loss. They quickly apologized, saying that they would educate their children well and that such a thing would not happen again.
But Li's father still looked dissatisfied and insisted that the Zhang family "compensate" the matter as a punishment. At this time, the hostess Zhang's mother smiled and joked, "That's it, I'll kiss you too, and we'll be even." ”
This sudden "return salute" startled Father Li. He stared at Zhang's mother with wide eyes, his face was mixed, and he was at a loss for what to do.
At this time, Zhang's mother took another step forward, and she was about to kiss her, which made Li's father take a few steps back. Under the mediation of Zhang's father, Li's father calmed down. Zhang San also sincerely apologized to Li Si on the side, promising that he would not make any more deviant moves.
It can be seen from this story that Li's father's desire to protect is indeed slightly overdone. He immediately saw a joke as a hurt to his daughter, and emotionally found someone to theorize.
In fact, this also reflects the common problem of many parents today - being too sensitive and maintaining the "dignity" of their children. But we need to understand that the world of children is actually very simple and pure, and their interactions with each other are not as complicated as those of adults.
A little joke or slapstick doesn't have to impose too many adult constructs and concepts.
Therefore, Li's father's approach of getting to the bottom of the matter may bring unnecessary embarrassment to the relationship between the two neighbors. Zhang's mother's witty and humorous response resolved the stalemate of the scene and made things develop in a good direction.
This is a reminder for parents - in the face of all kinds of children, staying rational and tolerant can often get better results.
Of course, we can't deny the source of Father Li's anxiety. In this era of information explosion, children do face more factors of insecurity.
As a parent, it is instinctive to protect your children, but being too defensive can be counterproductive. The right way is to communicate with your child so that they know how to protect themselves and face this complex world with optimism.
This seemingly interesting story actually reflects the current situation and problems of family education. It reminds us that as parents, we need to be tolerant, rational and humorous about our children's upbringing.
Instead of doubting what happened to your child, teach them the ability to protect themselves. A sunny and uplifting growth environment will allow children to move towards the future healthily and happily.