In the eyes of the public, women have always been sensual, and love is paramount.
It is believed that a woman chooses a man, falls in love or gets married, it must be because of love.
I chased a lot of women around me and experienced male friends in love, and after a deep chat, I realized that women are the most pragmatic.
Their ideas are mature, pragmatic, and high-level.
It turns out that what women care about most is not love, but these two words:
Dignity.
You must feel decent, isn't that rich and powerful, not a material woman, a money worshipper.
If you think so, it's low-level.
The ideological height of women has long been not only at the material level, but also has a long-term vision.
01 Decent image
"Falling in love with someone starts with appearance and loyalty to character."
Not only men like good-looking, good-looking women.
Women also like to look good "in image", to be precise, in image decent.
Note: The good-looking facial features do not mean that the image is decent.
The same person, with 100 facial features, but he is unkempt, sloppy and lazy, and has an obscene temperament, such a person's image is very undignified.
And another person, his facial features may only be 60 points, but he is diligent and clean, tasteful, and tidy and neat.
Such a person has a very decent image.
The so-called image is decent, or not decent, and the appearance is the most superficial surface.
If you only choose decency in appearance, it is too easy to disguise.
Every time we meet, I carefully clean up and dress up, but when I come home, I look like a homeless man and is unkempt.
Even before living together, all that was seen was the man's mask of "decency".
Really living together and seeing each other's true faces, this is the tragedy.
Therefore, to see whether a person is really decent or fake decent, it depends on the details:
1. Keep your hair stylish, clean and smelling good at all times;
2. Fresh body odor, fixed aroma. This means that his living environment, which is clean for a long time, will exude a good smell;
3. The nail seams are always clean, and the nails are always neatly trimmed;
4. Shoes are always shiny and clean.
Shoes are the most overlooked detail, and a truly decent person will always double-check whether the shoes are clean before going out.
5. When dating, the other party's small details are used to.
A person who is self-disciplined in daily life and decent is a habit, and it is difficult to disguise small details.
I will check the sanitary environment of the table and the store when I eat, and when I get along, I understand the cleanliness of girls, and I deal with it very clean for female friends in advance.
Excellent facial features do not mean decent, tidying up yourself exquisitely, spiritually, temperamentally, and very cleanly, this is decent.
Women are often tempted by this kind of man with a decent temperament.
02 Live decently
The amount of money is not the same as decency.
The rich second generation is not decent, and a monthly salary of one million does not mean decency.
Just imagine, a multimillionaire, but a man with a fat brain, his job is to accompany wine and socialize, and his private life is chaotic;
To be with you is to be a mouthful of wine and treat women as playthings, is such a man decent?
A rich second generation, spending all day drinking, drunk and obsessed, muttering when things happen, looking for parents when he has no money, and being muddy all his life, is it so decent?
The monthly salary and annual salary are very high, but they nod their heads in front of the leader, stammering flattery, the leader is the first, and the children, family and wife are the last.
When you need it, you can never find it, is it decent to be like this?
Material wealth does not mean a decent life.
What women want is never a cash cow or an ATM.
A really smart woman, a woman who wants to live a sincere life, chooses a man to see whether the man's spiritual world is decent.
A man who lives a decent life, whether he has money or no money, whether he is in trouble or in good times, has arrogance.
I will not have a bottom line for money, and I will not abandon my self-esteem, children, and wife for the sake of being superior.
It will not be because of money, so that they will be drunk with money, destroy human nature, ignore human rights, and play with the people at the bottom.
A man who truly lives a decent life must be rich in spiritual world.
If you have a good family background, you will be humble and low-key, study diligently, fill your brain, let yourself have the ability to keep it, and make virtue worthy of your good life.
If the family background is not good, he will have self-esteem and self-love, self-improvement and diligence, work innocently with his own hands, and work hard to make a career.
In this way, a decent man in the spiritual world can live a decent life.
Only those who respect the bottom and humanity can respect women.
With such a decent man, you will be warm, respected, cherished, and loved for the rest of your life.
Therefore, smart women can rarely be carried away by their appearance, but choose decent men who are sober and transparent.
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