In a person's life, he can be appreciated and supported by nobles, and he can at least avoid ten years of detours.
Career and life can reach unattainable heights.
It's a pity that many people often don't know how to get the support of nobles, and often take detours, offending people don't know.
What kind of person is noble?
Leaders who make you admire and can give you resources;
People who can become your confidence, backing, improve your network resources, and cross circles;
People who can open your eyes, learn knowledge, gain insights, and get poor information and change your life.
All the people who benefit you, give you opportunities, and help you go to the next level in your life and career are noble people in life.
In fact, it is not uncommon for nobles to be the direct boss and leader of your company; Friends around you who are good in character and value righteousness; Your mentor, your sweet lover, etc.
So how can you get the appreciation of the nobles?
In other words, what kind of people do you like to befriend, help and carry the most?
That's it: accept their recommendations, and execute them well, and give feedback seriously.
Have you ever had this experience?
When you are excited to share your good things with your friends, the food you love, and the dramas you love, the other party responds to you very warmly, and really goes to experience your recommendation.
And then with his sense of experience, to give you feedback.
If it is said that sharing feelings is a kind of happiness to vent emotions.
Getting the other person's response and cooperation is the joy of chatting, understanding and being respected.
Then the other party sincerely accepts your Amway, and experiences it in person, and brings sincere feedback, which is simply a sense of happiness!
Why?
This is a recognition of a sense of value, and it is the greatest recognition of your interests, your feelings, and your three views.
The direct emotional value is full, and in an instant, he identifies that the other party is a confidant in this life.
Anything good in the future will be thought of him.
Because he understands you, because he is sincere, and he respects people.
However, the same sharing, if the other party can't get your point, not only will they not respond to you, but they will also feel that your sharing is worthless.
You are like being put in a basin of cold water on your head, dousing all your enthusiasm, and you will not think of each other if you have any good things in the future.
Or the other party pretends to accept it out of etiquette, but after a while you ask him about his experience, you find that he is pretending to approve of you at all.
That feeling of loss, the feeling of not being understood, will make you feel that you are not the same person as the other person, and you will slowly drift away.
The mood of nobles, like ordinary people, is easily hurt and very satisfied.
People who have reached the top of their careers and lives have long since stopped caring about "self-interested socialization", "rewarding contributions", "elegant taste and gorgeous reputation".
People who can succeed and become nobles have long been indifferent and not surprised.
They carry people, like a person, it depends on the eyes and mood.
What kind of people are in line with each other?
It is consistent with your own three views, consistent values, recognition of yourself, and sincerely accept your own Amway, and can also give yourself feedback.
This kind of sincerity and touching is much more advanced than flattery, flattery, and distraction.
You accept his Amway (recommendation) so that he feels that he has found a confidant and someone understands him;
You experience and carry out his recommendations, which makes him feel respected, not perfunctory, and feels that you are sincere;
You take the initiative to give him feedback and talk about how you feel after the experience, so that he feels that you have everything in place and everything is responsive.
Reliable and sincere.
Then any of his experiences in the future will be shared with you, because you have the same values;
Any good deeds and good people will be shared with you, because it is difficult to know yourself in life.
For example, Yu Hua and Li Jian, confidants and friends across fields.
One time when the two attended the same occasion, Yu Hua learned that Li Jian usually likes to read, so out of social etiquette, he shared a few books that he thought were good.
Maybe many people think that this is the other party's social etiquette, just to not be cold, just to find a random topic.
If you think so, you'll lose a precious friend.
Sincere, such as Li Jian, not only enthusiastically expressed his interest in Yu Hua's topic and the books he shared, but also experienced Yu Hua's sharing very seriously.
He spent a while carefully reading all the books recommended by Yu Hua, and wrote a long reading impression to discuss with Yu Hua.
This directly moved and stunned Yu Hua: it turned out that Li Jian really likes to read, not a person.
Not only was he shocked by Li Jian's sincerity, but he was also moved to find a confidant who had a common topic.
So much so that the two of them have now become confidants and friends across fields.
Yu Hua often praised Li Jian in public, so that people in different circles understood Li Jian, fell in love with Li Jian's charm, and gained more good reputation for him.
No matter what field of nobles, there is this common problem:
I have seen a lot of fake skins that are used to make use of them, but they are eager for people who can really recognize themselves, have the same frequency as their own thoughts, and are sincere.
Such a person is the most pleasing to the big guy.
The bigwigs have struggled all their lives, and they have fame, fortune and money, but what they really lack is:
Pure heart and ideological inheritance.
Therefore, if you want the noble bosses to help you and promote you, it is enough to sincerely accept their recommendations, implement them carefully, and give feedback sincerely.
Your reputation and character have been stamped and recognized by nobles since then.
And they will also pull you into their own circle and share more resources with you.
Don't take any more detours, simple sincerity, and be able to overcome all crooked thoughts.