Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
Love is like an ethereal morning mist, which is elusive.
It always seems to come at the most unexpected moment, catch people off guard, and then dissipate in an instant, leaving endless reverie.
It makes people confused, confused, and even feel like an unattainable dream on the way to true love.
In fact, true love is not far away, it may be hidden in those seemingly ordinary words.
A casual "are you cold" is a meticulous concern for you; A gentle "I'm waiting for you here" is an unwavering wait for you; A faint "Do you miss me" is a deep miss for you.
These simple words, although not gorgeous, contain deep love. It is like a warm lamp that leads us to find our own happiness.
If a man has said the following four words to you, then please cherish him. Because his feelings for you may be true love that goes deep into the bone marrow.
01
"You are all good, I like them all"
When a man says to you, "I like you all," it's not just a sweet remark.
Behind this sentence is his unconditional acceptance and appreciation for you.
In his eyes, you are unique, whether you are without makeup or heavy makeup, whether you lose your temper or are coquettish, he will accept it all, because he loves you so much.
As Shakespeare said, "True love is based on understanding and respect." ”
He understands your strengths and weaknesses and knows how to respect your choices and feelings. His love is not blind, but a well-thought-out and firm choice.
If you are with a man, he will often say this to you, especially if you are stressed at work, or in a bad mood.
He always patiently comforts her and tells you that no matter how you are, he likes it.
This unconditional support and understanding is a deep love for you.
02
"Don't worry, I'm here"
"Don't worry, I'm here" sounds simple, but sometimes it hides great power.
When a man says this to you when you are in trouble or discouraged, it often means that he is willing to be your support from the bottom of his heart and is willing to shelter you.
This kind of man is usually responsible and responsible.
He understands that life is not easy, and he knows that life will not always be smooth sailing, but he is willing to stand by your side and give you warmth and support when you need it.
His love is not just a nice sound, but a real action.
As Romain Rolland said, "Love is a force that makes a person brave." ”
With such a man by your side, you will become more relaxed and have the courage to face all kinds of things in life.
03
"I want to have a future with you"
When a man says to you, "I want to have a future with you," it often means that he has included you in his life.
In his heart, he not only wants to talk about love with you, but also wants to move forward hand in hand with you and have more future.
Such a man, he has a long-term plan for you, not just for a short time.
He wants to go on with you for a long time, and is willing to move forward side by side with you to have a sweet and beautiful future.
His love is not a short-term burning of passion, but a long stream of companionship and perseverance.
Mianmian's boyfriend said this to her when he proposed to her. In addition to expressing his deep love, he also planned his future life with Mianmian in detail.
At that moment, in addition to being moved, Mianmian was relieved, and she knew that she had found someone worthy of entrusting her life.
04
"I was wrong, I'm sorry"
In a relationship, there will inevitably be friction and quarrels. But when a man apologizes to you after an argument and says to you "I was wrong, I'm sorry".
Then it is enough to prove that deep down he is willing to cherish you and is not willing to let you suffer any grievances.
Such a man, he knows how to introspect and compromise. He knows that in love, there is no right or wrong, only whether he is willing to put down his body and face for the sake of the other party.
And his love is not a charity from above, but equal respect and tolerance.
As Tolstoy said, "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes." ”
A man who is willing to take the initiative to apologize after an argument, he knows better how to manage and maintain a relationship. With such a man, you will feel more happiness and warmth.
Generally speaking, the man who has said these four words to you has sincere and deep feelings for you.
He knows how to appreciate you, support you, he is willing to have a future with you, and he is more willing to give in for you.
Such a man is worth cherishing and having. After all, true love is hard to find, and if you miss it, you may never get it back.