The way of the world has really changed, well-wishers don't dare to help others easily, and they must take a video to leave evidence before helping, which feels very sad.
Recently, there was a farce of "you didn't knock it down, why do you want to help" on the streets of Nanjing, in the face of the video taken by the guy, the son of the drunk old man said that the video was incomplete, and asked him to pay money if he didn't let the guy leave.
After the guy uploaded the video to the Internet, it instantly caused heated discussions.
That soul torture: You didn't hit it, why did you help it. Also again quoted by the public.
Event recap
On the night of the incident, an old man riding a battery car suddenly fell in the crowd, and there were still quite a lot of people around, both men and women.
After he fell, an eldest sister directly in front of him immediately stepped forward to comfort him, told him not to move, and helped him call 120, and an eldest brother next to him also called the police.
Then the young man who was falsely accused appeared, and after he opened the video to record the scene, he began to inquire about the situation, which shows that he is vigilant.
The guy asked the people present: Did he fall on his own?
The enthusiastic eldest sister said: It was she who fell.
Then the guy told the old man who fell: he needs to go to the hospital, sit for a while and don't move, and the traffic police will fall down after a while.
and called his son after asking for his son's phone number,
During this period, the young man was more alert, and once again asked a big brother riding a battery car at the scene: Master, did he fall by himself?
The eldest brother replied: Yes, yes, yes, he rode too fast.
The young man also told the old man: There are cameras here, it's okay.
It can be seen that the young man is really full of desire to survive, for fear that he will get into trouble because of his careful help, many people may say that it will be too much?
But what happened next proved that the guy was right.
The old man saw that the guy had always cared about him, and the first thing he said was: You knocked me down, right?
The guy hurriedly said: No, no, no, it wasn't me who knocked you down.
Then the traffic police arrived at the scene, because the investigation had not been clear, and asked the young man not to go.
The young man hurriedly said: It's okay, I have monitoring here, and I won't leave.
In the end, the old man's son arrived at the scene, and the traffic police showed him the video, and also informed him of the truth about his father's fall while drinking and driving, and asked him to sign and confirm that the young man left.
But the old man's son insisted on not signing, saying that he would save people first, and he would not let the guy leave, and let him send people to the hospital.
And he also shouted to the police: Is the other party (the guy) looking for a relationship?
Subsequently, the young man argued with the old man's son,
The young man said: I have a video, and I have a witness here, you still don't let me go, and let me pay for it, you have no conscience, you have to apologize to me.
But the old man's son said: The video is incomplete, I don't have a scoundrel for you.
The two sides dragged for a long time, and at the end of the video, they separated, and everyone present was very angry, and even said: Don't help him next time he falls to his death.
The truth was revealed, and the drunken man's son publicly apologized and shook hands with the young man.
On the morning of May 17, the media released a video of the drunken man's son publicly apologizing to the young man, he said: After the father woke up, he recalled that he may have fallen, and it really has nothing to do with you, it is not your responsibility, I am ashamed, I said some excited words at the time, I apologize to you.
The two sides thus shook hands and made peace.
When asked if he would help someone who fell down in the future, the guy said: "You have to help someone who has fallen."
The guy was able to get out this time, which is related to his strong sense of prevention, he recorded a video from the beginning, and there were many witnesses to testify, and finally returned his innocence.
How do netizens think about helping or not helping?
The person involved in the incident said that he would still help him in the future, but this incident will definitely cause him a certain shadow in his heart, and he may become more cautious or even indifferent when encountering this kind of thing in the future.
This is not what we want to see, but the probability that many people choose to be cold and watch in order not to make trouble for themselves is extremely high, and the personal experience of netizens shows this.
Although many people don't say it, the answer has been given by action.
This can't be blamed on the fact that everyone is becoming more and more indifferent, similar incidents have happened not once or twice, there are several cases on the hot search, and there may be more if there is no hot search.
As long as such a thing happens, it will affect the behavior of the people around you, because when you encounter it, you will not only face the loss of money, but also pay a huge amount of time and energy to deal with it and prove your innocence
Nowadays, many people have formed the mentality of "more is better than less", even if they want to help others, they will look forward and backward, and dare not take action for a long time.
This is bad news for people who are really hanging by a thread and need help.
Conclusion:
We never expected that it would become so difficult to help or not.
Good people don't dare to do good deeds.
However, I think good things must be done, just learn to protect yourself,
Like the young man in this case, he is very witty and smart, made a good prediction in advance, and left evidence.
Although it was almost falsely accused, it was finally saved from danger.
What if everyone is not doing good deeds and they need help?
It is not normal for the whole society to become indifferent just because of a few people who are not kind.
We live in the same space, and only by helping each other can this space become harmonious and warm.
What do you think?