You should learn to be independent, and no matter what age you are, you can't expect too much from others. The greater the hope between people, the greater the disappointment.
When people live to a certain age, they will gradually understand that the only person they can rely on in this life is themselves.
When you were a child, you still had parents who could shelter you, and when you grow up, your parents will grow old, and you will have to rely on yourself, and there is even a high probability that there will be many people around you who will rely on you.
Everyone is an independent individual, and it is not impossible to rely on others, but it must be recognized that people will lose themselves after choosing to rely on others.
But all individuals have their own will and choice, and only when they are strong can everything about themselves develop steadily according to their hearts.
Regarding reliance, as the old saying goes, rely on the mountains to fall, and rely on everyone to run. Until the last step, no one knows who in this world is really reliable.
Too many people are always in a naïve state, thinking that as long as they are good enough for someone, the other person will definitely reciprocate. And in fact, there is a huge characteristic of human nature, and that is habit. When a person is accustomed to being good to him, he will not cherish it, and he will not do his best to repay the other party.
There is an interesting phenomenon between people, that is, the people who have helped you in the past are likely to help you again, while the people you have helped in the past may not necessarily lend a helping hand in times of crisis.
There are too many people in this world who have no conscience. Not only will they not see what you are doing, but they will also show an insatiable face when you hesitate a little.
People are always blindly optimistic that bad things won't happen to them. However, there are too many cases in life, which prove again and again that the feelings between people are destined to be unequal.
Whether you put your hopes in your children or your partner, you will most likely be disappointed in the end.
A person's greatest sobriety is to give without asking for anything in return. Sweet words do bring some emotional value, but almost all of them can't really fulfill them.
People should live a little more selfishly and soberly. Love yourself before loving others, if a person cannot put his own interests first, but constantly engage in self-sacrifice, he will unknowingly carry out emotional kidnapping of others.
But in all relationships, what people hate the most is being threatened and kidnapped. If you want to maintain a good relationship, you must understand how to balance interests.
Overdraft is sometimes not really good, and some things are meaningless if the other person doesn't feel it.
Many times when a person believes in what he is, he will become. We can't change our minds, we can't kidnap each other's lives, and not having hope for others is not cold-blooded, but sober.
A good economic foundation is a prerequisite for a person's good old age. Don't leave a hole card at any time that may disappoint you, in this world you really can't rely on anyone but yourself.
Sometimes we encounter something that causes us to feel extremely depressed, but that feeling will most likely not be understood, no matter how good the relationship is, no matter how close the family members are, they can't empathize. Everyone has their own feelings, and empathy is never possible.
As a result, we gradually saw in the disappointment again and again that we can only rely on ourselves when we encounter things in this world, and no one really understands you except ourselves, and even sometimes, we are entangled.
There are too many things in this world that can not be completed by hard work, and slowly seeing that giving up slowly is the truth of life.
The so-called practice is nothing more than the process of gradually numbing oneself, telling oneself over and over again that this is life, and then slowly accepting that there is no need for luxury, and finally returning to peace.
In fact, it is not necessary to understand that life does not really have to wait until old age, more often than not, all we need is to stay sober.
Destiny is neither something that is predestined by God, nor something that can be changed by struggle alone.
Life is your own, live for yourself. No one can be with anyone forever, and no one can really shelter anyone. You can only bear the hardships on the road of life, don't expect others to really care about you, and don't let your happiness depend on the approval or comfort of others.
Some people say that the harder you work, the luckier you are, and that's because he really hasn't suffered an unfortunate blow after trying his best. But even so, we should keep working hard to prepare for the luck that may come.
Don't completely pin your hopes on others at any time, if you have to pinn your hopes on it, it's not impossible, but you must leave a glimmer of possibility in yourself, after all, after the day is really dark, even the shadow will disappear.
Understand the truth as soon as possible, the only person who can be relied on in this life is yourself.