Don't set yourself goals too high, and don't overestimate your abilities, pressure is a kind of motivation, but when the pressure is beyond the scope of bearing, you will be crushed.
A lot of times, you can't control the outcome and you can't please everyone. Try, try, and that's enough. Just do your best.
You are not a savior, and you can't help everyone. In times of crisis, at the critical juncture, it is incumbent on both sides to stick a knife in both ribs. But the ability is limited, and there will always be times when there is nothing to be done. Don't feel too guilty, you have your life and your days go on. Just do your best.
There are many things that you can't change, everything has its own trajectory, each runs its own way, each is at peace, all you have to do is to conform to it and revere it.
Don't try to change the impossible, the plan is in the sky, how ambitious and ambitious, for all sentient beings, in the end, I have to admit that in addition to changing myself, in this world, in fact, you can't change anything. It's good to adapt.
If you don't force anything, it's mine after all, it's mine, it's not mine, no matter how hard you try, it's not mine; Those who love me will not bear to see me cry, and those who do not love me will be indifferent even if I die for him immediately.
The vigorous is certainly exciting, but the plain also has its own warmth. Cherish what you have, and float away with the wind what you lose. Life is only a hundred years, after all, it is fate, right or wrong does not matter, life is rich and quiet because of experience. Just go with the flow.
Material things can be enough; The gains and losses of fame and fortune can be looked down on.
No matter how big a house is, it can't hold an insatiable heart; No matter how advanced the bed is, it can't make a person with anxiety and insomnia sleep peacefully. It's not easy to live, and no one can make you happy if you're not happy. It's good to be bearish.
There is no perfection in the world, there is a never-ending pursuit. The pursuit of perfection is a realm, in the pursuit of the heart at the same time to understand that there is no perfection, the pursuit of value. There is no absolute standard of perfection, and what is perfect in your eyes may be useless in the eyes of others; What others think is perfect, you may think it is nothing more than that.
Before asking others to be perfect, look at yourself in the mirror, since no one is perfect, and no one is perfect, and regrets are innate. Perfection can be an ideal, but it is not a criterion. It's good to relax.
No man is born wise or learned?
Everyone makes mistakes, and making mistakes is also an important factor in growth. We can often easily forgive others for their mistakes, but it is difficult for us to forgive our own mistakes, as if to forgive our mistakes is to admit failure.
You are just you, an ordinary mortal, don't think of yourself as so great, when you are sad and wronged, you can also cry and cry. Facing your heart and admitting your mistakes and failures is also a must in life. Just face it.
Never complain, don't complain about anyone or anything. The hardships of work are what you have to bear, the troubles of life are what you have to face, and who betrays you is your own choice. Life is not as good as it should be, who is not like this?
Most importantly, complaining not only does not help, but it also blinds you to the light. People are receptive to psychological cues, and how you hint will have the results. Don't be so pessimistic and hopeless, change your perspective and see a different result. It's good to be optimistic.
Don't carry too many things on your back, it's hard to carry a load. Life does not bring death, and in the end, everyone is empty-handed.
No matter how heavy the love is, you have to let go if you don't love it; No matter how deep the hatred is, it will melt away in time; No matter how close a person is, it is difficult to accompany him until he is old; No matter how painful the child is, they have their own world after all. Enjoy it when it's time to enjoy it, and don't wait until you can't walk to think of the scenery in the distance. Just put it down.
Don't get along with yourself, it's not easy for you after so many years. Growing up, you were expected to be high, and many times, you had to live according to other people's expectations.
No matter how hard you try, there is always a distance from their expectations. You're tired, but you're good enough to be worthy of them, and from now on you should think about how you can be worthy of yourself. It's hard to make everyone happy, so let yourself rejoice. In fact, you yourself rejoiced, and everyone rejoiced. Just let it go.
Because life is too complicated, we must live a simple life in the midst of complexity; Because life is suffering, we must live happily in suffering; Because life is too impermanent, we must live optimistically in impermanence; Because there are too many confinements in life, you have to live freely in confinement.
What else is there to do besides life and death?
When the heart is simple, the world is simple, and happiness is simple. It's good to keep it simple.