May 16, Shenzhen, Guangdong
Some netizens said that they were on the side of the road
I received a brochure from a community women's federation
The content makes them feel uncomfortable
The netizen said that he was a resident of the community, and the first page of the brochure showed taking care of mental health, and the inner page read, "No matter how unreasonable your mother-in-law is, don't quarrel with her", "If you live with your mother-in-law, don't run back to your mother's house because you are angry", "Always stand on your mother-in-law's side like loving your mother, but don't base it on return". The netizen questioned that it was not appropriate for these statements to appear in the brochure.
Yesterday (May 16) afternoon
The reporter contacted the Women's Federation of the community
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A staff member said that the original intention of this brochure is to care about the mental health of community residents, and informed community residents that a psychological counseling room has been opened in the community, and if there are some conflicts or problems in the family, they can go to the community for help. The content of the brochure is not a code, but only a recommendation.
Subsequently, the person in charge of the women's federation of the community called back to the reporter and said that this batch of brochures was printed in 2019, and some words were inappropriate and did not notice, and this batch of leaflets has been removed from the shelves, and those that have been distributed will be recycled at home, and the leaflets will be re-produced.
According to China News Weekly, community workers responded to reporters that the original intention of the release was to pay attention to family relationships, and if there are problems, they can come to psychological counseling. Among them, "no matter how unreasonable the mother-in-law is, don't quarrel with her", the original intention is to express that there is a better way to communicate than quarreling, and has not received feedback from residents about related problems before, and if this leads to misunderstanding by residents, it will be improved.
Netizens are hotly discussed
For this matter
Netizens talked a lot
Someone thinks
"It should be a matter of fact
and not blindly on one side"
"Be communicative"
@肥蒜头LEO: This is the content edited by my husband and mother-in-law overnight.
@知道知识: How is it possible to stand on which side blindly, and it's not a child's house, it must be a matter of facts, whoever does something wrong apologizes, this is not something that should be learned in elementary school.
@微笑的先知: Do not be dogmatic in everything, think and do it with your conscience.
@理法求是: Communicate with the wind and drizzle, and never quarrel.
Some people think that the content is too outrageous
This is not good for the daughter-in-law's mental health
@梨子味儿的小仙女: My daughter-in-law can't be mentally healthy.
@因风风风风皱面: Do you only care about the mental health of the man's mother, do you care about the mental health of the woman's mother? Does the son-in-law say good morning every day, and does he talk back?
@我的名字叫有个朋友: It's... The daughter-in-law felt even more uncomfortable and aggrieved, and felt that home was never her own home.
@别让我担心: Everything is on the mother-in-law's side, and the daughter-in-law is not a doll? Do you only think about your mother-in-law and not your daughter-in-law?
@记忆的空白: I think it's outrageous when I look at a man.
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Source: Xiaoxiang Morning News (reporter Wang Qian), China News Weekly, News Morning Post, netizen comments, etc
Editor: Sheng Li (trainee)
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