The blind date bride price caused a storm
In today's society, blind dates have become a common way of marriage and love. Recently, Heze City, Shandong Province staged a farce caused by a blind date bride price. The protagonists of this farce are Mr. Wei and Ms. Ma, and their stories have become the focus of widespread attention in society. Mr. Wei, who fell in love with Ms. Ma in Yuncheng County, Shandong Province on a blind date, and the two parties fell in love and got engaged in March 2023, but then faced the huge cost of 340,000 yuan in bride price, but encountered unprecedented challenges.
The delivery of the bride price and the attitude have changed dramatically
As one of the traditional Chinese marriage customs, the bride price carries the man's respect and sincerity for the woman's family, and also represents the man's sincerity and the strength of the family. However, in Mr. Wei's view, this bride price is not only an expression, but also a long annoyance. At Ms. Ma's request, he paid a bride price of 340,000 yuan. However, things didn't go as smoothly as he had imagined. After the bride price was delivered, Ms. Ma's attitude suddenly changed, from gentle and considerate to cold and violent, and even verbal abuse became commonplace, and Ms. Ma's attitude changed incredible. What was even more unacceptable to Mr. Wei was that Ms. Ma actually asked to buy a vehicle worth more than 200,000 yuan, otherwise she refused to continue the marriage.
Judicial means to resolve disputes
Faced with such a sudden challenge, Mr. Wei did not hesitate to choose to solve the problem through judicial means. He hopes to protect his rights and interests through the power of the law, and also find a reasonable solution to the bride price issue. After mediation by the court, Ms. Ma was required to return the gold jewellery and return the bride price of 300,000 yuan in instalments. This judgment not only safeguarded Mr. Wei's legitimate rights and interests, but also provided a strong legal basis for the settlement of marital disputes.
Recovery of bride price and gold ornaments
However, the story doesn't end there. Ms. Ma's detention for 15 days is undoubtedly a warning and a wake-up call. After the family felt the pressure, they took the initiative to contact Mr. Wei and offered to return the 300,000 yuan bride price and gold jewelry. This change not only brought Mr. Wei economic comfort, but also respect for the law and understanding of human feelings. For Ms. Ma, it may also be a reflection and wake-up call.
Loss and eventual return of gold jewellery
In this dispute, the loss of gold jewellery became a problem. Ms. Ma had claimed that two pieces of gold jewellery were missing, and tried to refuse to return them on that ground. As for the loss of gold ornaments, the gold ornaments were converted into cash at the current price, and a total of more than 30,000 yuan was returned to Mr. Wei. This change is not only a respect for the law, but also an awakening of human nature and mutual understanding and consideration. This action not only solved the problem of gold jewellery loss, but also drew a successful end to the whole incident.
Social buzz and bride price pressure
This blind date bride price incident has sparked widespread heated discussions in the society, and also reflects the widespread bride price problem and related pressures in the marriage market. As a continuation of traditional culture, the bride price should be a way to express love, rather than an exchange of interests in a marital relationship. In the bride price dispute, it is not only a dispute over money, but also a lack of mutual respect and understanding. It is hoped that through this incident, more people will think about the marriage system and the impact of bride price culture on individuals, families and society. It also provides a clearer path to the harmony of the marital relationship.
epilogue
The blind date bride price incident may be only a small part of many marital disputes, but the story behind it is worth pondering. The bride price should not be a stumbling block to marriage, it should not be a transaction of money, but an embellishment of love, mutual commitment and respect. The occurrence of the blind date bride price incident is not only a challenge to traditional culture, but also a reflection on human nature. May every marriage be beautiful because of true love and eternal because of respect.