The junior with a relatively high rank fights with men in psychological warfare, and they are easy to find the missing part of a man's heart, giving the man enough emotional value, so that the man feels that he is particularly important in the eyes of the junior.
In this way, a man's sense of self-worth is greatly improved. Men will feel that when they are with Xiao San, their body, mind and spirit are satisfied.
Sometimes I wonder if an original partner can know how to hold a man's heart like a mistress, will many marriages not be broken in the first place?
What kind of psychic manipulation techniques do juniors usually use to make men smesmerized?
01
Gentle but flirtatious
When many wives get along with their husbands, they can't let go and are very reserved and traditional. But when Xiao San gets along with men, her mouth is sweet and her body is sweet, and she will make men realize that she is needed by her.
At first, the junior would not say to the man at all: "Brother, I like you so much." "Instead, use behavior to tease the man and test the man's reaction.
For example, Xiao San bought a cup of milk tea, and after taking a sip, she had to let the man taste it, Xiao San knew the man's married status, but she still did it, which is a hint.
If the man blushes and tastes Xiao San's milk tea, Xiao San can immediately perceive: This man can take it, and he can also move it.
When almost all mistresses seduce men, they will first use ambiguous behaviors to do a "difficulty test", if men don't know how to refuse some small ambiguous behaviors at first, then mistresses can almost take them down.
The original partners always feel that they are sitting firmly on the Diaoyutai and rarely use this way to flirt with men. If the wife says to a man every day:
"You didn't kiss me today, and I'm not happy for a day."
Or send a WeChat message to a man at 10 o'clock in the morning, saying:
"I always felt that something was wrong today, I just remembered after breakfast, and I forgot to kiss you when I went out today."
Then I posted a cute emoji that I regretted very much. Believe it or not, men definitely eat this set.
Even if the original partner can flirt with a man like a junior, the man will definitely be pinched to death by you. But the problem is that many original partners are not willing to do such things.
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Inspire value
When I did anonymous interviews before, many men told me that they were refreshed and felt that the world was a better place after being with the mistress.
After some men have a junior, they not only start to perm their hair and pick clothes, but also take the initiative to go to the gym to exercise, full of vitality for life, as if this extramarital affair has inspired all his passion.
In fact, what Xiao San inspires is not a man's hormones and passions, but a sense of value that is valued and needs to be cared for.
Many wives become more and more like their mothers after they get married, and their wives have to take care of the children, wipe the table, and do the laundry, and they want to break 24 hours into 72 hours a day. As for men, sitting on the sofa and scrolling through Tik Tok, they see a particularly funny point of view, and when they share it with their wives, their wives will only feel irritable.
And the junior is different, the man casually says a funny point, she will laugh with the man, and there will be a few words of praise for the man by the way. When the man feels satisfied in his heart after praising him, Xiao San will instruct the man to do this and that, pay for himself, and let the man continue to pay sunk costs to her.
When a man does things for the mistress, the man doesn't feel tired, because he is satisfied in his heart, and he finds a sense of value in the mistress.
You see, most juniors prioritize providing emotional value and then coaxing men to work for themselves. In this way, Xiao San is not tired, she still gets a lot, and the man is willing to work to pay, and he feels that he has found his lost self in Xiao San.
Many times, our wives are too honest and blindly pay in marriage, but they refuse to pay attention to the other half's thoughts. As a result, other women who have not worked hard have taken advantage of the loopholes.