Today, "Unmarried women can't use sperm banks to donate sperm to go to their fathers and keep their children" rushed to the hot search.
The cause of the incident is said to have been that the Guangdong Provincial Reproductive Hospital has recently received many calls from unmarried women who want to apply for sperm from a sperm bank to have children.
However, according to the current laws and regulations in mainland China, assisted reproductive technology is only carried out for legal couples.
In other words, unmarried women cannot apply to use a human sperm bank to donate semen to conceive and have children.
For this regulation, the opinions of netizens can be roughly divided into three types.
1. I don't think it matters, and I don't plan to give birth anyway;
2. The conditions of sperm donors are so low that they don't spend money to buy inferior sperm;
3. It's unfair, why can a man ask anyone to have a child if he wants to have a child, and a woman must get married if she wants to have a child?
Different points of view, based on different positions, and different experiences, it is difficult to judge right from wrong.
However, I personally think that this regulation is actually a good thing.
Why do many women now want to leave their fathers and children?
Essentially, it is because women sacrifice too much in marriage, their happiness is too low, and their rights and interests are too insecure.
For example, after a man gets married, his main responsibility may be to earn money to support his family, and the rest is based on his conscience.
But women are different, many people have to work to make money, but also have to get pregnant and have children.
After the birth of a child, the proportion of women who take care of them is also much higher than that of men.
But despite this, for those men who cheat in marriage, or even during their wife's pregnancy, they basically do not need to bear any responsibility except for moral condemnation, and the law will not even approve the request to let them out of the house.
As a result, many women have partners, but they are basically widowed.
In this comparison, women with conditions will feel that instead of finding a man to come back and be angry with themselves, it is better to go directly to the father and keep the son, and bear everything by themselves anyway.
Under such a premise, if laws and regulations support unmarried women to use sperm banks for sperm donation, it actually avoids the essential reason why women want to leave their fathers and children.
Although the fertility rate is declining, the real problem that should be solved is how to make more men take on the responsibilities they should assume as husbands and fathers, and improve women's marital happiness.
If you can find a partner who is in the same boat, treats each other sincerely, and supports each other, which woman would choose to go to her father and keep her son?
The so-called going to the father and leaving the son is just a helpless choice for a man after despair.
If it becomes the norm to leave the father and the child, on the one hand, it means that men are less responsible.
On the other hand, it means that the function of men is getting weaker and weaker, and finally it becomes women who take on everything, and the essential problem is still not solved.
In addition, one of the problems that needs to be faced by removing the father and leaving the child is that the child's future upbringing, if there is no male participation, then it is actually not conducive to the child's growth.
The healthiest way to raise children is for parents to work together, so that children will know how to respect the opposite sex, and our society will be more harmonious.
Therefore, instead of supporting unmarried women to use sperm banks to donate sperm to remove their fathers and children, I think experts and relevant departments should think more about how to let men learn to take responsibility and how to help women get rid of the difficulties they face in marriage.
It's easy to run away from a problem, but it doesn't make any sense to solve it.
I really don't want more and more antagonism between men and women, and the real happiness is the union of men and women, not men or women who bear everything alone!