Text/Mo Ran
In the world of feelings, true love will not be entangled, but more fulfillment, and I hope you are happy.
Lin Huiyin once said: "Most of the people who are entangled with you don't really love you deeply, and the people who really love you can't be entangled repeatedly, because a person who values you will never put you in a situation that may lead to losing you." ”
In fact, this has been said very clearly, people who really love you are willing to hurt you repeatedly.
The first time the injury may be unintentional, then the second time is intentional.
In a relationship, whether a person is sincere or false, can be felt with the heart.
When everyone is young, there may be suitors, and it is common to see some men stalking and ending up with girls.
But the results are often not as people want, and they will not cherish it too much after getting it.
But most of the people who stalk you don't really love you deeply, they're just racing against themselves.
People who really love you can't be stalked, because self-esteem doesn't allow it. Someone who truly loves you will respect you and will love you in the way you like.
True love should be based on mutual respect and equality, and will not entangle you too much, but will give you space to think and choose.
Those who try to pursue a person through this stalker are undoubtedly a form of kidnapping.
The more you love, the more you have to take care of each other's feelings, and you have to leave dignity and a bottom line for yourself.
That kind of unprincipled love is actually very terrible, and it will ultimately harm others and oneself.
True love should be a trickle. It is not about the instantaneous blood boiling, but about long-term companionship and tolerance.
It is not about asking the other person to accept and obey unconditionally, but to respect the other person's feelings and choices.
When we love someone deeply, we give for them, but at the same time, we respect their choice.
When they choose to leave, we may be sad, we may be sad, but we will smile and bless them, because self-esteem does not allow us to force it.
Whether it is love, friendship, or family affection, people who are destined to be perfunctory are passers-by after all.
Only by treating a person with sincerity can you get a corresponding response.
True love is never entanglement, not force, and not harm.
Now that fate has come to an end, politely leaving the scene is to give yourself the last decency.
Let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, and return others to others, so that you can return yourself to yourself.
The person who really loves you will definitely empathize and understand your embarrassment, and he will not continue to entangle but give you time and space to think.
In the face of people who are pestering you, learn to stay away.
In life, we must learn to protect ourselves, and at the same time, we must learn to distinguish the true heart, and not be easily deceived by rhetoric.
Good love should not be a tool for both parties to hurt and control each other, but a force to support and grow each other.
The attitude of stalking is often nothing more than self-satisfaction, and people do it mainly to satisfy their own desire to be loved and needed, rather than really for the other person.
The best appearance of a person is that he can afford to love and let go.
The person who can respect you is the person who is worthy of your love and trust, and love should be for the other party to choose, not to force.
Summary:
Only people who truly know how to respect and love themselves can truly understand the true meaning of love.
In love, we must learn to respect ourselves, others, and love itself.
Only in this way can we find true happiness and fulfillment on the path of love.