Most of the distant marriages are for love, otherwise which girl is willing to leave her parents and her familiar life circle?
However, when it comes to marrying far away, the past and the young girl always have different views. When I was young, I was willing to give up everything for love, including leaving home and going to my hometown, and I would not be afraid to come to a strange city, thinking that the other party was my own world. But too many realities have also given young girls a warning, it turns out that marrying far away is not as beautiful as imagined.
The protagonist this time is also a girl who marries far away, but back then, presumably she would not have expected such a day. If she could have imagined the daily life of her later marriage, would she still be willing to marry far away? Will she regret it?
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The answer to this question is impossible for us to know, but judging by how she behaved after the quarrel with her husband at that time, how could a girl have the guts to spend the night outside alone if she was not really sad? Young women go forward and succeed each other for love, and the seniors who marry far away bear the grievances because of love.
So love, is there something wrong? Is it because you see the wrong person, or has love changed its flavor in the trials and tribulations of life?
The girl in the story quarreled with her husband and hurried out, and the moment she left home barefoot, she must have been sad and angry at the same time. But in the face of the reality that his wife walked out without even having time to put on her shoes, why didn't the man, who was the husband, chase him out?
Maybe the boy is also angry, but when he can't understand his wife, his anger is somewhat emotional, a man should not be angry with his wife no matter what, not to mention that since she chooses to marry far away, you should know that she has no other relatives in the local area, and she has nowhere to go if she is wronged.
However, he left his wife out for the night. The girl climbed barefoot on the tree and sat on the tree, and the girl's sister-in-law said that she thought that her sister-in-law would be fine for a while, but she did not expect that she was still in the tree the next day.
This sentence seems to be caring, but in fact it is precisely the expression of indifference. If a family lives together, how can they not know who has not yet returned home? If a family member doesn't come home late at night, won't the family show concern? Didn't you rush out to find it in the first place?
What's more, it's just a girl who is! She didn't wear the details of going out with her shoes on, didn't anyone care?
If the girl's biological mother saw it, she would be very distressed! After all, people worked hard to raise the child, not to let her go to another family to suffer!
It is really not easy to marry far away, if the girl's maiden family is also in the same city, then the girl can go home if she is wronged, and her mother's family will also find a son-in-law to help the young couple reconcile the conflict. But the girl is in an environment where everyone around her is the man's family, I believe that even if many people recognize the identity of the girl, their selfishness is more acknowledging the identity of the man's family, which is human nature and a helpless fact.
If the girl does not marry far away, then she can complain to her family after a quarrel, and it is better to vent it than to think deeply there alone. Did the girl climb the tree and sit in order to see her hometown in the distance? As far as the eye can see, it's all sad!
She may still be looking forward to her husband coming to look for her, after all, if the sister-in-law did not find out the trace of her sister-in-law, she would not say that she thought she was hanging out in the tree for a while, since the sister-in-law already knew where the sister-in-law was, then the husband of the woman, the brother of the sister-in-law, must also know where his wife is!
So, why didn't the man, the girl's husband, go home late at night to find his wife who was married far away? She married far away for him, but a man wants to let his wife bear the grievances and spend the night outside?
It can only be said that marrying far away can't afford to gamble on human nature, but marrying far away should just make people understand human nature early, otherwise in the rest of your life, you will appreciate the true appearance of human nature, ups and downs.