Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Love has thousands of postures, dazzling, and it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood.
When the heat of love hits, it will quickly burn its own reason and judgment, and be swept into sweetness and romance.
And the thoughtfulness of those subtleties, the thought spent, and the uncomplaining dedication and commitment are the most important things in love.
Men who do the following things for you really love you very much, not fake love.
02. Sincerely for your good, everything is considered for you
In "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm", Zhang Pei was transferred to Chengdu to manage the new company.
Here, she and Xie Yang reunited, and a lot of changes in mentality also occurred.
Xie Yang has always used his relaxation and gentleness to heal Zhang Pei and accompany her to recruit new people. When she is under pressure at work, treat her to delicious food, take her on a trip, and relieve her anxiety.
Xie Yang knew that the relationship between Zhang Pei and his parents was a little stiff, so he tried every means to let her parents see Zhang Pei's shining side, so that they couldn't help but be proud of Zhang Pei.
Because of Zhang Pei's outstanding performance in the new company, he soon received an appointment to return to the head office.
Zhang Pei began to fall into a dilemma between career and love.
Xie Yang, who has never left Chengdu, took the initiative to go to her city for Zhang Pei's sake, determined to start over here.
He really wants Zhang Pei to be good, and he doesn't want her to give up the career she has worked hard for many years and the familiar living environment. I am willing to take a step of accommodation.
A man who truly loves you will stand in your shoes and consider you in everything.
He genuinely acts for your good, and even takes your affairs more important than his own.
A man who thinks about everything for you and always puts your interests and feelings first shows that he truly loves you.
As long as you are doing well, living comfortably, and being able to get closer to your dreams, he is willing to make compromises and concessions.
03. I will always be willing to you, because I think you are worthy
If a man truly loves you, he will become very generous and willing to pay for you unconditionally.
As long as it is your request, he will do his best to meet it.
He may be stingy with himself, but he will always be willing to you, because he feels from the bottom of his heart that you deserve the best of everything.
He is willing to spend money on you, even if he empties his pockets, he wants to fulfill your wishes, and he does not want to see the disappointed expression on your face.
He is obedient to your requests. No matter how much it costs, he won't feel distressed.
He is also willing to spend time with you, in order to accompany you, he can put aside socializing and socializing, and only enjoy the romantic two-person world with you.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "As the years go by, we gradually realize how much we love you, and how much effort I am willing to spend to arrange for you." ”
Men are willing to you, not because they want to get the value and resources they want through you, and they never think about their own efforts in their hearts.
He sees you above all else, more than anyone else, and you deserve all his favor and care.
A man who truly loves you is willing to give everything for you and does not ask for anything in return.
04. He will face your difficulties with you
The mother of a colleague of mine, Xiaoxuan, was seriously ill.
She borrowed money from everywhere to treat her mother's illness and surgery, and half a year later, her mother died. She herself was also saddled with debts.
Her boyfriend knew the pain and hardship in her heart and took the initiative to bear the debt with her.
After the salary and bonus were paid, he transferred it to Xiaoxuan as soon as possible, asking her to pay back part of it first to relieve some of the pressure.
He also found a way to introduce customers to Xiaoxuan, pull business, and let her be surrounded by work, and there was no extra time to think nonsense.
With his company and support, Xiaoxuan slowly walked out of the shadow of life, and paid off the debts she was carrying little by little, and the gentle smile returned to her face.
Xiaoxuan also had a deeper understanding of each other's feelings through what happened during that time, and wanted to cherish this sincerity.
Women, if they want to test a man's sincerity, see what kind of attitude he has when he encounters difficulties.
A man who truly loves you will face your difficulties with you and do his best to accompany you out of it.
In the face of difficulties, hypocrisy will flee. Only a man who truly loves you will be as firm as ever.
He will always be there for you, sheltering you from the wind and rain, and sharing the pressure for you.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
The unexpected thing about love is that what you think is vigorous to death often disappoints you.
And the subtle love that is always overlooked, but it has always been the same, and it has not changed at all.
You must know that true love is not floating above the clouds, but is integrated into the details of life.
A man who truly loves you will definitely put love and care into the details, so that life is full of warmth and brings you a full sense of security.
-END-
About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.