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Oversharing consumes your energy.

author:Ding is Ding

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Oversharing consumes your energy.

1

The happiest thing in life. It's either illegal, it's moral, or it's easy to get fat.

——Kotaro Isaka

2

Love is something that can be met but not sought, and the probability of real passionate love is not high. Even so, the probability of friendship happening is much higher than that of love. The conditions under which it occurs are not as harsh as love, you don't have to be together all the time, you don't have to have physical contact, just some deed and resonance on the soul, and it can be established.

- Li Yinhe

3

Oversharing consumes your energy.

True wisdom lies in keeping your personal life private and not oversharing.

Even when others don't understand your lifestyle and portray you as a villain in their story, you don't need superfluous explanations.

4

You have to jump out of yourself before you can find yourself again.

You have to stop staring at yourself before you can see yourself clearly.

——Walsch

5

Pleasing yourself isn't saying "put me first," it's just saying "we're all the same."

– Emma Reed Trier

6

Barclays' three elements of happiness are: hope, something to do, and the ability to love others.

Russell's three elements of happiness are: the pursuit of knowledge, the desire for love, and the unquenchable compassion for human suffering.

And Flaubert's three elements of happiness are: stupidity, selfishness, and health.

I like Flaubert's three elements the most, because he emphasizes that if you don't have stupidity, all happiness is lost.

- Goddess Tsigka

7

There is an interesting trend in the second-hand month of April:

Young people are saving the old and the young.

Since the beginning of the year, the total price of more than 3 million yuan in Shanghai has been gratifying.

In Shanghai, 8,486 houses below 3 million were sold in January.

In March, 11,349 units were transacted, an increase of nearly 33%.

In April, 9,385 units were sold, and the transaction volume continued to be high.

At the moment of the general decline of 20%, the old and small ones below 3 million have fallen even more, and some over-falling houses are becoming the sweets of the market.

The old and small with a low total price have become a super good financial management artifact in the eyes of young people.

This trend is not only joined by young people in Shanghai.

There are still many local tyrants in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen who smell and copy the breath of the bottom.

For example, in Hangzhou in April, the old and small with low total prices are accelerating transactions.

Some people even went directly to Hangzhou to copy 10 sets of old and broken ones at one time.

- Magic Capital Wealth

8

I'm often bored enough to count money in excel.

If a person spends $200,000 a year (typical middle class), compound interest of 6% on a long-term sound investment, and a long-term inflation rate of 3%, 40 years from now, how much does it cost?

The answer is 4.8 million.

Coupled with 500,000 critical illness insurance, 200,000 spare cash, 1 million useless hedging funds, and 6.5 million cash for a bachelor with a house to achieve middle-class financial freedom.

If a family of three spends 400,000 yuan a year (or a typical middle class), and the child is independent after 20 years, and the couple spends 300,000 yuan a year, and the other calculation factors are the same as above, 40 years from now on, how much does it cost?

The answer is 8.8 million.

The calculation formula is the same as above, and a family of three with a house has 12 million cash to reach the middle class financial freedom.

So if the middle class is reduced to ordinary middle class consumption, the annual expenditure of one person is 100,000 yuan, the annual expenditure of the couple is 150,000 yuan, and the annual expenditure of a family of three is 200,000 yuan?

40 years from now.

A bachelor with a house 3.6 million 👉 ordinary middle-class financial freedom.

A family of three with a house of 6.6 million 👉 ordinary middle-class financial freedom.

What if after 40 years, seventy or eighty years old are not dead, and the money has already been spent?

First of all, you can receive national pension insurance after retirement age, secondly, you can sell your house and live in a nursing home, and finally, you don't earn a penny in these 40 years, but you can freely choose the way to make money, and save it for longevity risks.

- Sterling silver

9

The golden sentence I heard from a friend today is given to all those who have wronged themselves because they are too kind: someone criticizes you for being selfish, and you can really start taking care of yourself.

- Chen Octopus

10

From the "Meditations", 30 life suggestions from the Stoic philosophers are summarized:

1) Do everything by yourself and don't care about other people's affairs.

2) Don't waste the rest of your life dreaming about other people's things.

3) Accept the favor of friends, and do not lose self-esteem because of this, and do not take it for granted.

4) Enjoy without exceeding, forbid without suffering.

5) Take a break in your busy life to learn some good things, and don't be messed around with external objects.

6) Respect your ability to form opinions.

7) Abandon everything else and hold on to these alone, even though there are only a few.

8) Sincere, courageous, calm, and single-minded.

9) Not to peek into the darkness of others' hearts, but to "go straight to the goal without squinting".

10) Cherish the skill you have learned, no matter how lowly it may be.

11) Don't waste your mind too much on minor things.

12) Take the shortest path. The shortest path is the way of nature, which leads to the most secure words and deeds.

13) If a word or action is beneficial, don't think you don't deserve it.

14) Even though others have their own ideas, you must not look away and go straight ahead.

15) What you think is what your heart is like, because the soul is tainted by thoughts.

16) When your environment seems to force you to be troubled and uneasy, quickly reflect on it and don't stay in that discordant state unnecessarily.

17) Not excited, not paralyzed, not hypocritical.

18) Adapt to your destined environment, love the people you are destined to encounter, and love with all your heart.

19) The best way to retaliate is not to follow the example of the enemy.

20) Don't worry about the future. If you have to go to the future, you will do so for the same reasons you did in the present tense.

21) The so-called lucky person is the lucky person who arranges for himself; Good motivation, good behavior.

22) There is always a little leisure in life.

23) Accept without arrogance, give up without hesitation.

24) Look inside and don't ignore the qualities or values of any thing.

25) You can start a new life, as long as you look at things again as you did before, and a new life is in it.

26) The wrongdoing of others should be dealt with by himself.

27) Be a person of integrity. If you are not born upright, then strive to be upright.

28) The closer a person is to serenity, the closer to strength.

29) I don't get anything out of my learning, but I have to hold on to it.

30) You are a little soul with a body.

Oversharing consumes your energy.
Oversharing consumes your energy.
Oversharing consumes your energy.

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