Marriage is a long journey for two people to spend together, but in this journey, there are always moments that will make a man's heart ripple and even lead to betrayal.
Below, we will explore the moments when men are most likely to betray their marriage, and the reasons behind them.
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The peak of his career: the temptation of power and the expansion of his heart
When men are at the pinnacle of their careers, with a lot of power in their hands, and surrounded by temptations, it's easy for them to lose themselves.
At this time, they may feel that they can do anything, and they may begin to question their responsibilities and commitments in marriage. Coupled with the fact that there is no shortage of people of the opposite sex who take the initiative to throw themselves into their arms, it is easy for a man to betray his marriage driven by power and vanity.
Mr. Li is the CEO of a large corporation with a successful career and a happy family. However, at the peak of his career, he and his friends frequently went out in various social situations and met many young and beautiful friends of the opposite sex.
Gradually, he felt that the gap between him and his wife was widening, and he began to seek new thrills and satisfactions.
Eventually, he betrays his marriage and has a relationship with a young woman. But instead of bringing him true happiness, the relationship plunged him into deep self-blame and pain.
02
The period when the wife is pregnant and gives birth: emotional emptiness and physical needs
During the period when a wife is pregnant and has a child, it is the time when men are most likely to feel lonely and empty.
During this period, the wife's attention is mainly focused on the children, and the man may feel neglected and left out. At the same time, due to unmet physical needs, men are prone to the urge to seek comfort and satisfaction.
Mr. Zhang and his wife have been married for many years and have always had a good relationship. However, during his wife's pregnancy and childbirth, Mr. Zhang began to work overtime and travel frequently, and he had less and less time to communicate with his wife.
Later, as he felt more and more lonely and empty, he began to look for emotional solace online.
Soon, he got acquainted with a netizen, and the two chatted very speculatively. Gradually, they developed into a romantic relationship. But the relationship ended up causing great damage to Mr. Zhang's family.
Eventually, his wife found out about his betrayal and filed for divorce from him.
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The low point of life: seeking solace and escapism
At a low point in life, men may face various difficulties such as unemployment, bankruptcy, and illness.
At this time, their hearts are full of anxiety, frustration and despair. In search of solace and escapism, they may choose to betray their marriage in search of new excitement and satisfaction.
Mr. Wang used to be a successful businessman, but he went bankrupt overnight due to a failed investment. Faced with tremendous financial pressure and family responsibilities, he felt powerless.
In order to escape reality and seek solace, he began to frequent bars, nightclubs and other places, where he met many friends of the opposite sex.
Eventually, he betrayed his marriage and rented a house with a divorced woman to live together. But instead of bringing him real redemption, the relationship has left him in a deeper predicament.
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After the child becomes independent: the emptiness of life and the search for new passions
When a child becomes independent, a man may feel that life becomes empty and boring. They begin to miss the passion and romance of their youth, eager to find new thrills and satisfactions. At this point, they may have thoughts of betraying their marriage and seeking a new romance or affair.
Mr. Zhao and his wife have been married for many years and have been living an ordinary life. When their children became independent, Mr. Zhao felt that life had become boring and empty.
In search of new passions and fulfillments, he began to participate in various social events frequently, and it was during these social events that his feelings also shifted.
Eventually, he betrays his marriage and falls in love with a young woman. But this relationship did not bring him real happiness, but made him lose his original family and happiness.
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Marriage is a relationship that needs to be managed and maintained together, and wives also need to pay more attention to the man's emotional needs and mental health during the four periods when men are most likely to betray their marriage.
Teacher Bao Shishan once said:
"Love is not eternal at all, it will change with the changes in the spiritual level of both parties, with the changes in the appearance and figure of both parties, and with the problems, contradictions and situations faced by both parties."
Therefore, no matter how beautiful love is, it also needs to be persevered in paying and operating, otherwise, starting from a good one, it may end in tragedy.