This life.
What kind of woman will you admire?
Obviously!
A woman who can give people a thumbs up and show admiration.
Most of them are not weak and deceitful.
Rather, a woman who has independent thinking and can influence the direction of her life.
Especially many middle-aged women.
Everyone's thinking exudes the charm of wisdom, and their words and deeds exude independence and elegance.
Therefore, such a middle-aged woman will give people a feeling of "very powerful".
Do you realize it?
"Powerful" middle-aged women often have 4 traits that even men will look up to.
01
Faith is tenacious
I have a female friend.
When she was middle-aged, she was still struggling to start a business.
At the insistence of this friend.
Finally ushered in a change, the company's orders increased, and it grew stronger day by day.
At the moment, this friend has turned into a leader in the industry.
Every time I think of a middle-aged woman who started a business, her shadow will involuntarily pop up in my mind.
What kind of middle-aged woman can be called "powerful"?
In fact, we don't need to define a person by how much money is made, or how successful something is.
If you have perseverance in your body.
This kind of perseverance and belief can lead us to continue to overcome difficulties and lead to success.
If a middle-aged woman has such qualities, it will really be admirable.
02
Personality is independent and autonomous
Do you know?
"Awesome" middle-aged woman, usually independent.
Even if everyone is already married and has children.
But they are not completely dependent on men.
As the writer Beauvoir said in The Second Sex:
"A woman's independence is not born, but become."
A woman with an independent mind will not be bound by tradition, she has her own thoughts, and she has a personal way of living.
For example, Ms. Li is such a person.
In middle age, she gave up her secure job and founded a law firm.
Ms. Lee's independent personality and quality service have earned her respect in the industry.
The reason why she gives people a very powerful feeling.
It is because Ms. Li is able to take charge of herself and not rely on others at work.
03
Wisdom and insight
In this world.
There is too much confusion, and it is easy for people to lose themselves.
A middle-aged woman standing awesomely.
In their bodies, there is already the precipitation of life, so that everyone has enough insight.
As Socrates said:
"When a woman can keep a clear head, then she will not take a detour."
It can be seen that when a woman reaches middle age, she has become powerful.
It is precisely because everyone has a lot less sensibility and more wisdom.
Whether it is work or life, such a woman can find her own positioning and direction and choose the right decision.
Unconsciously, they have become a woman who can control their own lives.
04
Empathetic skills
In the Bird Collection.
Rabindranath Tagore wrote:
"Love is another name for understanding."
In interpersonal relationships, the ability to empathize is really important.
This kind of ability will allow everyone to win good popularity.
Even in love, if a person has such ability, he can empathize, understand and tolerate his lover.
The power of a middle-aged woman is precisely that:
They have empathy and are able to consider others, so such women often have no shortage of interpersonal support.
A person's abilities are often limited.
Especially middle-aged women, if they have the ability to empathize, then everyone is more likely to get recognition and support.
Because of interpersonal luck, such a woman can also go smoothly everywhere and win more praise.
Emotionally original, warm words. From the perspective of psychology, I analyze the thousands of emotions and hope that my article can bring you a different feeling. Thank you for your continued attention, and having you by your side on the creative road is the biggest motivation.