Last night, I saw a message from a super red old watch on WeChat, and I thought that I hadn't been in touch for a long time, so I made a voice call and chatted a few words, but I didn't think about the last sentence: Old watch, do you know? Xiao Yumin passed away in my village?
"Wouldn't it? When did it happen? ＂
"I heard that it was a heart attack, and I just entered the soil the day before yesterday? ＂
Just a few words, but like a thunderbolt from the sky, hit me instantly, everything came too suddenly, I really can't believe it, and it's hard to accept, who would have thought that my best buddy Xiao Yumin (Ji Yumin) died of a sudden heart attack.
He and I are not only coal friends, but also chess friends and theater friends, and our common hobby makes us always have a lot of endless topics to talk about. But now, it's really unacceptable that your friend is gone, but the reality is so cruel that you can't believe it. Although melancholy and helpless, but helpless, the reincarnation of heaven, but who can escape the arrangement of fate?
I met him at the Baicun Coal Plant in Luoyang, and his first impression to me was that he was flat-headed, square-faced, sword-eyed, medium-sized, slightly fat, wearing a yellow-green tweed Zhongshan shirt, not smiling, not angry and arrogant, and living off the image of a "triad boss", which was daunting. I secretly guessed in my heart that this person might not be easy to get along with, and it would be better to deal with less in the future.
As time goes by, I have more contact, only to find that the first impression of the original person is not reliable. Later, through small talk, I learned that we were originally from the same village, his father and I belonged to the Anpo brigade, and now it is called the village committee. In this way, the two of us can be regarded as members of the same village, and the natural relationship is much closer all of a sudden.
Later, I found out that we also have many common hobbies: we like to read idle books, love to play chess, and hum a few opera tunes behind closed doors to entertain ourselves. I remember that one of his best scenes is "Li Shimin's Praise to the Dragon Throne", every time he gets out of the car in the morning or loads the car at night, he always has to say two sentences, which has almost become his Zen language. It's a lot of Tang School master's singing voice and charm, but it's a pity that I can't hear it anymore? Love house and Wu, we have become friends who talk about everything, because I am a few years older, he called me brother, although there is no Taoyuan righteousness, but the heart has already recognized him as a brother.
Brother Yumin is actually a hard-working person, due to special reasons, his father has been away from home for more than ten years, it can be said that his mother single-handedly pulled him up, so the mother-son relationship is very deep, after the mother unfortunately died of illness, he thought that he could not fulfill the filial piety, which became a piece of his heart, for which he often lingered. Therefore, every Qingming season, no matter where you are, no matter how far away, no matter how busy, you always have to take the time to go back, go back to your mother's grave in person, go to the grave, press paper, and send some pocket money...... For more than ten years, rain or shine, never uninterrupted, commendable. This is one of the reasons why I have always admired him, and invisibly, his image in my heart is much taller.
His filial piety is good, comparable to the ancients, just such a good person, why can't he live a long life? What a blessing or a curse, alas!
Later, due to the widespread popularization of electrification, most people have rarely used briquettes for cooking and heating, so the line of pulling coal and sending coal has also lost the market, I have to carry my bags again, with the army of workers wandering around, only he is still struggling to insist, the reason is that the children are going to school in Luoyang, high school, university, heavy tasks, heavy burden, can not tolerate a little leisure, I heard that the first few years are still do, the past two years have been sluggish, winter, by selling briquettes for a living, usually find a little odd job. Fortunately, with his persistent and continuous efforts, the second daughter was finally admitted to college, his son also went to high school, and the eldest daughter got married again last year, and everything is developing in a good direction, but who knows that fate played a big joke on him? Instantly took away all his hopes and dreams, including life, is this the so-called Heavenly Dao?
Although we are not often together, but the annual opportunity to meet, can still be squeezed out, we set this precious time in the Spring Festival, no matter how busy we are, we will always take a time, meet in the riverside park, or slow chat, or Changting Lakeside, listen to the fans singing, commenting, and having a play. They are happy, and the sun is approaching, so they are reluctant to give up and cherish each other. Everything seems to be yesterday, but in the blink of an eye, things are wrong. It's true that the people who listen to the qin are still here, and the people who touch the qin are destined to return to the yin!
On the fifth day of the Spring Festival this year, I made an appointment with Ling Zhi and Yumin to meet in Riverside Park, who knew that the weather was good in the morning, and it suddenly became cold in the afternoon.
During this time, we had a lot of family routines, and I found that his face had darkened again, and his body had become blessed again. I once said that we are forty or fifty years old, old, young, responsibility, the slightest sloppiness, it is good to say, fat is not a good phenomenon, you have to pay attention to the body, we work outside all the year round is better, everywhere you have to pay attention, because I heard that after forty, people are in a sub-health state, many diseases are like invisible killers, invisible and intangible, but often can give people a fatal blow, catch you off guard?
Unexpectedly, you smiled and said a foul word: "Ball, you can eat and drink, what are you afraid of with two bowls at a meal?" The key is that we don't have that spare money, and if we have that money, it's better to cut some meat to eat, it's affordable! "In the end, I still don't want to give up those two money. At that time, it was just a matter of facts, and no one thought that this parting was permanent.
If my brother could listen to a word of advice and go for a check-up at the first time when he felt unwell, he would not have today, no one would have thought that the disease would come so suddenly, it seems that some things are indeed careless. I know that you are reluctant, there are high halls that do not respect the elderly, and there are children who are minors, but there is no if in life, and you will not start again. I wish my brothers all the way!
Brother, after the Huangquan Road, it is the Nai He Bridge, drink Meng Po soup, I don't remember the past, naturally forget everything, and after the Lechuan River, I will enter the six reincarnations, I think with your filial piety, kindness, you will be able to be a good person in the next life.
Farewell, brother, go all the way.
About author:Yang Jiantao, a native of Anpo, Jiankou Township, Luoning, has a dull life, working to make a living, and loves opera and graffiti.
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