Hello everyone, I am the eldest sister in the north, a 90-year workplace mother, this is my 128th article, after a year of persistence, will I thank me for persisting now, continue to work for 54 days, resolutely will not break the change, no matter how difficult this road is, I will continue to walk.
I don't know if you have ever been disliked by your husband, I can say for sure that I have been disliked, and it is not very good to be raised by others, so I can work or try to work, which is why I am so afraid of losing my job.
I was unemployed during the epidemic, and then I was 30 years old, I just got married, and it was not easy to find a job at all, I was turned away.
At that time, my husband was more than 10,000 yuan a month, and I gave my mother-in-law a total of 3,000 yuan per month after deducting the mortgage of 2,700 yuan plus water and electricity bills, and my mother-in-law was watching the children at my eldest sister's house at that time, so we didn't have to pay living expenses, my husband gave me 4,000 yuan a month, and the rest was used for his expenses, he drove to work every day, and I didn't work at that time, so I relied on me to make some money by shooting videos, which was barely enough for a person's living expenses.
At that time, I paid social security with flexible employment, and it was also a small 1,000 per month, which was also a fixed expense. In addition, it cost more than 10,000 yuan to give birth to a child in the future, and the child used it, drinking milk powder, diapers, etc., began to spend more, and my husband began to become a nose that was not a nose, and began to change the topic to say you, he earns money to support our mother.
For example, if I say you buy a piece of clothing, people will say that you can buy enough clothes to wear, and you can save some money if you can earn money.
I said I'll buy a set of skin care products, after giving birth, you see that your skin is not good, and you are old, watching your child stay up late.
My husband said, if you don't go out, what skin care products are applied, and no one cares about you if you don't wash your face.
Or I said, you buy me a mobile phone, you see that my mobile phone is not good, the card does not move, he said that you know that you want this to be so do you know how much pressure I have to make money alone?
I remember, my son cried, I coaxed myself, held the child in the middle of the night, fed by myself, poured milk powder by myself, I thought about him going to work, it was very hard during the day, so I came by myself.
Or maybe he'll ask me how much money I have left every month, and I say I still have 1,000, and he'll say where I spent it? Why don't you live like that, how much money is given to you and how much money is spent, you really can't live?
It's really hard to have your palms up, especially when you ask him for money, he will talk coldly and sometimes lose his temper with you.
When my son was 10 months old, he said why don't I look for a job, you are not looking for a job, I asked our mother to take care of the children for our sister, you can bring it yourself at home, right? You don't want to go to work anyway?
In fact, full-time mothers are very tired, not only taking care of their children, buying groceries, cooking, cleaning, but nothing is a good job, and a day at home is not as easy as going to work.
Why don't I want to go to work, I'm afraid to go to the interview, I'm afraid that no one wants me, I'm afraid to face people, fortunately, I interviewed two companies, I interviewed both, so sometimes I think about it, women have to earn their own money, spend it to have a sense of security, don't believe in men's words, I can support you, I support you, this kind of words, only if you have money in your hands, don't panic.
No one is your backer, on the contrary, you are your child and your parents' backer, earn your own money, and keep it yourself, so I don't want his money now, I work hard to make money by myself, and I want to save money while I have a job.
You can't rely on anyone, you have to rely on yourself!
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