Title: The Enlightenment of "The Golden Wedding": The Influence of Parental Roles in Children's Marriage and Its Countermeasures
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"Golden Wedding" is a work that explores the problems of married life from the perspective of a family. Among them, the failed marriage of three daughters has raised questions about the role of parents in the marriage of their children. This article will analyze the marital life of these three daughters, explore the influence of parental role in children's marriage, and how to improve this role to promote children's marital happiness.
First, let's give a general description of the dilemmas and problems of our three daughters in their married life. The eldest daughter's concept of marriage and love is too traditional, and she married a husband who doesn't know how to cherish her, which leads to a miserable married life; The second daughter pursued free love, but because she was too idealistic, she repeatedly made mistakes and finally fell into marital difficulties; The youngest daughter has an independent personality, but she suffered domestic violence in her marriage. The married life of these three daughters did not go as they wished, and the parental factor should not be ignored.
Next, let's explore the role of parents in influencing their children's marriages, as well as possible over-intervention or inappropriate guidance. In "The Golden Wedding", the role of parents has a strong desire to control and protect, and they try to guide their children's marriage through their own experience, but they often ignore the differences in their children's personalities and the changes of the times. This excessive intervention may lead to the neglect of problems in the child's marriage and even exacerbate the child's marital difficulties.
Further, let's analyze the shaping and restricting role of parents' marriage concepts on children's marriage concepts. In "Golden Wedding", the parents' concept of marriage is conservative and traditional, and they believe that marriage is about finding a stable partner and living a stable life. However, this notion is no longer suitable in today's society. When children are faced with marriage choices, they are often influenced by their parents' concept of marriage, resulting in wrong choices.
On this basis, we will analyze in detail how the behavior of parents affects the married life of their children, as well as the possible negative effects. Excessive parental intervention in a child's marriage may lead to the loss of autonomy in the marriage and dissatisfaction with the married life. At the same time, the overprotection of parents will also make children lack the ability to solve problems independently when facing marital difficulties.
Finally, we summarize the views of the article and put forward relevant suggestions on how to improve the role of parents in children's marriages to promote children's marital happiness. First of all, parents should respect their children's individuality and choices and avoid excessive intervention. Secondly, parents should update their concept of marriage and give their children more support and understanding; Finally, parents themselves should strive to improve the quality of their marriages and set a good example for their children.
In short, the work "Golden Wedding" makes us deeply realize the importance of the role of parents in the marriage of children. We hope that every parent can play a proper role in their children's married life and escort their children's happy marriage.