1. Huang Mengying, who is now 33 years old, has a unique attitude towards marriage that goes with the flow and goes with the flow.
At the crossroads of her 33-year-old life, Huang Mengying's enthusiasm for marriage has faded, replaced by a more intelligent and profound attitude - go with the flow and be at peace with what happens.
She has already understood that forcing is not true love, and only by conforming to her innermost feelings can she find her own happiness.
This change in mentality stems from the fact that she has experienced a deep and painful emotional trough. At the beginning, she seemed to have fallen into the dark abyss of negative energy, her heart was extremely depressed, and her relationship with her boyfriend became precarious.
The already weak-based relationship between them quickly slipped to the brink of breaking up under each other's neglect and disdain.
"It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, and the freshness and beauty of the beginning will show its ugliness and fragility when the relationship lands." Huang Mengying sighed. She deeply realized that she did not have the ability to manage her feelings at that time, and the frequent and fruitless quarrels eventually turned years of love into vain.
From that unforgettable experience, Huang Mengying realized a valuable philosophy of life. "I think it would be a terrible thing for a person to lose himself in the emotional world.
She felt that she didn't want to be in the same predicament again until she truly realized her self-worth, hurting others and hurting herself at the same time.
This spirit of independence and self-confidence is what Huang Mengying has gained after years of tempering and growth. In the past, she often felt lost and confused due to doubts and criticisms from the outside world, for example, after the recent broadcast of "Yi Nian Guan Mountain", some people ridiculed her for "her appearance plummeted and her old age".
However, now she is able to face all this calmly, because she already has a firmer belief in her heart.
Between the judgment of the outside world and the inner monologue, Huang Mengying finally found the path to herself. Her parents have also gradually changed from being stubborn back then to respecting their daughter's choice and giving her a broad space to live independently.
This hard-won right to autonomy is what Huang Mengying has earned step by step with her indomitable perseverance and determination to move forward.
2. Looking back at Huang Mengying when she was 18 years old, she was still an ordinary Chengdu high school student at that time, and her future planning was extremely simple, just wanting to apply for the broadcasting and hosting major.
However, when she told her father about the idea with great anticipation, she was met with strong opposition.
"When I think back to those days, my father's black hair turned gray almost with rage, and for a whole month, he ignored me." Huang Mengying recalled this memory affectionately, and her words revealed a little helplessness.
Her father, who had always admired traditional family values, hoped that Huang Mengying would be admitted to a well-known university and have a decent and stable career in the future, but when Huang Mengying's career plan deviated from his expectations, his reaction was fierce and even angry.
Thankfully, the mother has consistently stood behind her daughter and given her unwavering support. During the time when Huang Mengying was preparing for the college entrance examination, her mother was always by her side and became her most solid spiritual backing.
In the end, Huang Mengying's hard work paid off. With her outstanding performance, she successfully passed the broadcasting and hosting professional examinations of many well-known universities, and could have directly entered a higher level of academic palace, but unexpectedly, she chose a completely different path - the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy, and has since embarked on the challenging journey of being an actor.
This decision completely changed the trajectory of her life, and it also revealed her deep inner passion and strong belief in a career in acting. Although her father couldn't understand it at the time, Huang Mengying proved a young man's persistent pursuit of his dreams with practical actions.
3. Emerging in the junior year, he was introduced by Hawick Lau to meet Yang Mi and signed a contract with Jiaxing Media
In her junior year, Huang Mengying officially stepped into the showbiz with her wonderful performance in the TV series "Midsummer Evening Sunny Day". She has a unique temperament, with a distinct Miss Asia style, and her beautiful appearance is eye-catching, which is reminiscent of Japanese actress Masami Nagasawa and Hong Kong actress Liu Xinyou.
More crucially, the show's producer, Hawick Lau, has also developed a keen interest in the young up-and-coming actor. In the process of contact with Huang Mengying, he was deeply impressed by this little flower who was new to the screen but had unlimited potential, so he did not hesitate to recommend it to his old club Yang Mi.
"When I learned that I was personally selected by Sister Mi and signed a contract with Jiaxing Media, I felt extremely lucky, and even a little trance." Recalling that moment, Huang Mengying is still full of emotion.
For her, who has just stepped into the entertainment industry and is full of confusion about the future, being able to win the favor of first-line superstar Yang Mi is undoubtedly one of the greatest luckies in her life.
Since that glorious moment, Huang Mengying's acting career has been like climbing to a peak, showing a calm and steady pace everywhere. Immediately afterwards, the vicious role "Su Jin" she played in Yang Mi's costume masterpiece "Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms" left a deep imprint in the hearts of the audience like a rocket, making her completely out of the small circle and into the public eye! .
Fourth, after successfully getting out of the circle, invitations to costume dramas have come one after another, and his career is booming
With the popularity of the role of "Su Jin", Huang Mengying has emerged in many popular costume dramas in the following years, and her career has developed like a bamboo. Whether it is "The Legend of Chu Qiao" starring Zhao Liying or "Drunk Linglong" starring Liu Shishi, she is fortunate to participate in it, and most of the roles are noble "princess" status, and there is no need to audition as hard as when she first entered the industry.
"At that time, I was almost seamless, spending every day in a busy job, and even became a professional 'princess professional' for a time." Huang Mengying recalled that time full of passion and challenge, and her words revealed an unconcealable pride and satisfaction.
This period of time is the critical stage when her acting skills are gradually maturing. Although her characters are often antagonists, she has never paid attention to the malicious attacks and "verbal criticism" on the Internet.
Instead, she sees these negative emotions as the highest praise for the performing arts: "If an actor can interpret the role well, it will naturally cause dissatisfaction from the audience and criticism of the character's own values, which is why it has such a strong response."
Along the way, Huang Mengying was full of gratitude to Yang Mi, her mentor who had a good eye and gave her a chance. Since 2016, every year on her birthday, she will not hesitate to offer her most sincere wishes.
This year, after leaving Jiaxing, she finally ended her master-apprentice relationship with Yang Mi for many years, however, Huang Mengying has always engraved Yang Mi's kindness in her heart.
Although there were brief periods of low ebb along the way, there is always something to look forward to in the future. With her unremitting efforts, Huang Mengying quickly found the upward trajectory of her career.
5. In 2018, he fell into a career trough, and his love life was also troubled
Although his career once reached its peak, the good times were short-lived. At the beginning of 2018, Huang Mengying suddenly felt an unprecedented sense of exhaustion and boredom. "All of a sudden, I felt like I couldn't handle any more pressure, as if I had drained all my energy.
She speculated that this could be due to a lack of adequate rest and recharge due to long periods of intense work.
Therefore, Huang Mengying bravely pressed the pause button of her career and gave herself a vacation to find a new source of inspiration. She embarked on this journey of discovery with great anticipation, but when she returned half a year later, she was surprised to find that she had been forgotten and could no longer be invited to perform in theater.
This caused Huang Mengying to fall into deep confusion, until her agent gave her a slap in the face, which made her suddenly realize. "Because you are not a superstar like Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung, nor are you a legend like Zhang Ziyi or Gong Li.
Without excellent acting skills or extraordinary popularity, actors must constantly improve their self-awareness and make the audience remember their names.
Huang Mengying instantly felt flustered, she tried her best to get back into work, but the result was failure again and again. What's worse is that at this time, the new crown epidemic suddenly broke out, and the entire film and television industry fell into an unprecedented winter, and the road to survival was completely blocked.
Anxiety reached its peak, and Huang Mengying's whole person fell into an unprecedented trough.
The inner turmoil also affected her love life. At that time, her relationship with her boyfriend was already in jeopardy, and both parties were enveloped in negative emotions and had more and more difficulty breathing.
In the case that they no longer cherish each other, the original fragile feelings are quickly exhausted, and finally inevitably come to the end of a breakup.
In a moment of collapse, Huang Mengying's work and life seemed to fall into an endless whirlpool, and her heart was completely hollowed out. However, it was in this darkest moment that a glimmer of life finally broke out of the cocoon.
6. Regain your career trajectory - re-emerge with "Actors Please Be in Place 2".
Just when Huang Mengying was at the lowest point in her life, an unexpected turn ignited the flame of hope for her rebirth. She was invited to participate in the hottest variety show "Actors Please Be in Place 2".
For the invitation to the first season, Huang Mengying once resolutely refused. At that time, she still held the traditional belief that an actor should be hidden behind the role, away from the direct rays of the spotlight.
However, in the second season, her concept has changed drastically, and she accepts this rare opportunity without hesitation.
"I can't afford to miss this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity this year!" Many actor friends around me changed careers to engage in art examination training or short video production at that time, and they were all envious to see her being able to appear on such a high-exposure variety show.
On the stage of "Actors Please Be in Place 2", Huang Mengying deeply realized that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for a new debut. As an entertainer, it is the nature of the profession to go deep into the public's field of vision, and if you can use this platform to show your superb acting skills and unique charm, it will surely attract the attention of many directors and producers in the industry, and will touch the heartstrings of the audience.
Facts have proved that Huang Mengying's judgment is not wrong! With her outstanding performance in "Actors Please Be in Place 2", she has successfully won the enthusiastic popularity of the public, and the number of fans has surged, and at the same time, it has also attracted the attention of many producers who have sought cooperation opportunities.
This show, like a key, successfully opened the door to the audience's memory of her and allowed her to get back on track in life. This new debut undoubtedly once again confirmed Huang Mengying's tenacious quality of independence, self-improvement and courage.
On the road of life, she bravely clenched her fists and opened up a new road for herself.