Sixty retired teachers are angry with their partners, just because their aunt refuses to share a bed: they are all at this age, what else do you pay attention to?
In recent years, the marriage and love emotional problems of the elderly have always attracted much attention. A pair of retired teachers living together seems to be the beginning of a happy old age, but as they spend more time together, conflicts and problems will follow.
Li Dashan, a 66-year-old retired teacher, has been living alone years after his wife's death. When the children looked at their father's lonely and lonely figure, they always felt that it was not a good taste. By chance, they introduced their father to an aunt Wang Hongmei, who had also been widowed for many years. The two old men are of the same age, they are both warm-hearted, and they hit it off and decided to live together.
After living together for a period of time, differences in living habits gradually surfaced. Aunt Wang is a straightforward and bold peasant woman, with a loud voice, shouting and shouting in the vegetable market early in the morning. However, Uncle Li is accustomed to the quiet life of a teacher, and it is difficult to adapt for a while.
When eating, Aunt Wang likes to chat while eating, but Uncle Li abides by the ancient adage of "food is not spoken". The personalities and lifestyles of the two are very different, and contradictions are inevitable.
Finally one day, Uncle Li, who had been holding back for a long time, mustered up the courage to ask Aunt Wang to share the same bed. "We're all old people, isn't it good to have someone around to warm the bed?" Unexpectedly, Aunt Wang categorically refused: "Sharing the same bed? You think beautifully! Uncle, how old are we both on, and our bodies and bones are not as good as before, so you don't have to worry about it. Besides, old lady, I am living comfortably now, so I don't have to worry about your bed! ”
Uncle Li was like a deflated ball all of a sudden, and he couldn't hold his face. In a fit of rage, he proposed to break up and never want to be in the same room with Aunt Wang again. Aunt Wang also did not show weakness: "Okay, then disperse!" Save yourself all day being angry about such trivial matters, and I can be quiet for a few years. ”
In today's aging society, the emotional problems of older single seniors are by no means unique. The children are heartbroken for their parents, and they always want them to rely on their old age, but they didn't expect to end up with unhappiness. The elderly should learn to cherish the hard-won relationship, run in with each other's differences in living habits, and not only care about the momentary passion, but also consider the long-term way of getting along.
Emotional and physical needs are not shameful, but they should be individualized and adapted. may seem like a harmless joke to others, but it may hurt the old man's heart. Aunt Wang expressed her thoughts bluntly, which is also admirable. People in their early years should learn to be tolerant and focus on companionship and care, rather than unnecessary care.
Everyone's lifestyle in old age is different, and when children are thinking about their parents' home, in addition to material care, they should also understand the real thoughts of the elderly. Giving the elderly more space to choose and returning to their original hearts in their later years may be the true meaning of happiness.
It is difficult to find an old partner, and it is prudent to show wisdom; The sunset is infinitely good, why force the wind and snow? I hope that the children of the world can use an empathetic heart to understand the emotional needs of their parents in their later years, and give them a comfortable and comfortable rest of their lives.
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