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Xiaowen, a 32-year-old bank clerk, was unfortunately diagnosed with uterine fibroids last year and had to undergo a total hysterectomy.
Although she recovered well after surgery, Xiaowen was always nervous in her heart: "If I lose my uterus, will I lose all of being a woman?"
After a check-up, she finally mustered up the courage to raise her doubts with the attending doctor.
"Doctor, I have a very personal question for you." Xiaowen said.
"Just ask, I'll do my best." The doctor was smiling and friendly.
"I had a hysterectomy due to illness, will I completely lose my ...... in the future" Xiaowen's voice became quieter and quieter, and it seemed difficult to speak.
The doctor understood and quickly comforted: "It's okay, you can say it directly." Our doctors are trained to look at these issues in a correct and rational manner. "
"Is it just the loss of sex?" Xiaowen finally mustered up the courage to ask this question that had bothered her for a long time.
The doctor smiled and shook his head, "Of course not." Having a hysterectomy does not mean that you lose all the ability to have sex.
In fact, even if the uterus is removed, the woman's other reproductive organs such as the vagina and ovaries are still there, and sexual life can be carried out normally. "
Xiaowen breathed a sigh of relief and looked at the doctor gratefully.
"Removal of the uterus will only affect fertility and make it impossible to conceive and have children."
The doctor patiently explained, "But for the sex life itself, as long as both parties cooperate tacitly and through reasonable methods, you can get a good quality sexual experience." "
"Doesn't that mean that the quality of sex doesn't diminish because I lose my uterus?" Xiaowen asked in surprise.
"To be precise, whether you have a high-quality sex life depends more on the psychological state and skills of both parties than on the presence or absence of the uterus."
"As long as you have the right understanding, don't stereotype, keep an open and optimistic mind, and use it in the right way, the quality of sexual life is completely satisfying." "
This is indeed a problem that many female friends need to face. It is generally accepted that a hysterectomy is a loss of "femininity", and this is largely due to the lack of sex education.
In fact, the quality of a woman's sex life does not depend entirely on the uterus, but more importantly, the psychological state, the use of skills and the attempt at posture of both parties.
Even if the uterus is lost, the woman's vagina, clitoris, ovaries and other vital organs are still there, as long as both parties understand, respect and understand each other, and through the right way, the quality of sexual life can be guaranteed.
We should not be overly judgmental or biased about surgical patients. On the contrary, they need our understanding and support to help them establish a correct concept of health, so that they can regain their confidence and courage in life.
Hysterectomy only affects fertility and does not mean "loss of femininity". The quality of a woman's sexual life depends more on the psychological state, skill mastery and tacit understanding of both parties.
As long as you keep an open and optimistic mind and use the right and reasonable methods, even if you lose your uterus, the quality of sexual life can be satisfactory.
Through the right sex education and guidance, we can help these female friends regain their confidence in their sex life and have a happy and fulfilling life.
Experts point out that an important way to ensure a high quality of sex is for both parties to communicate and respect each other.
Women should take the initiative to communicate honestly with their partners about their physical condition, while men should be understanding and considerate to achieve a win-win situation through reasonable methods and postures.
At the same time, both parties should also take the initiative to learn relevant knowledge, understand different skills and positions, and continue to innovate and try, so as to obtain great physical and mental satisfaction.
Finally, maintaining good lifestyle habits is also key to ensuring a secure quality of life. Maintaining moderate exercise can strengthen your physical fitness, and avoiding bad habits such as staying up late and drinking too much is also beneficial to your physical and mental health.
Only by cultivating both internally and externally can we experience the highest happiness and joy in a simple and pure sex life.
In short, having a hysterectomy does not mean that you lose your "femininity". As long as you follow the right way, you can still maximize the quality of your sexual life.
We should give these female friends enough understanding and support to help them establish a correct view of health and embrace a high-quality life.
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[This content is a fictional short story, and any name, place name, or other aspects involved in the text have nothing to do with reality (without any implications). If there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please read it rationally. 】