Love is an amazing journey that requires us to go through setbacks and difficulties in order to find true love. In this chase, we should be stronger and harder, believing that the final harvest is worth the wait.
Whether it is to pursue love or to maintain it, it is difficult.
Everyone has their own opinion on love. Everyone has a different idea about how to pursue the person they like.
Some people believe that when pursuing the person you like, you should show enthusiasm and take the initiative to be courteous.
Many people's first instinct is to take the initiative to present themselves to attract someone they like, however, one way to do the opposite is to learn to let the person they like take the initiative to pursue you.
It's true, when we really like someone and want to be their other half, we all have the potential to be brave and take risks for love. It's an amazing feeling, and it's beautiful. We should not be afraid to express our feelings and be brave enough to pursue our love. After all, it can be one of the most important experiences of our lives.
Many men find it difficult for men to pursue women, as the saying goes, "Men chase women, and the mountains are separated".
Once you change your mind, you'll be surprised to learn that it's not that hard to get the woman you love to really fall in love with.
In fact, when you are constantly pestering a woman, she may choose to accept your pursuit out of gratitude, but this relationship will not last long. We should respect the wishes of others and not force them to accept our love.
The length of the relationship between two people depends on the other person's love for you, if the love is not deep enough, the touching will not make you persevere. This is a common phenomenon, and only enough love from both parties can support the relationship to go further and longer.
If a woman can be brave enough to pursue you, it means that she loves you very sincerely. She has overcome her introverted and shy to show her brave side. This process shows that she has surpassed herself and is willing to pursue what she desires. This is a very good quality to ponder and cherish.
If you want her to chase you, you have to build on the fact that she likes you very much.
"Prescribe the right medicine" and show your charm
To win a woman's heart, it is essential to attract her charm.
Both liking and love stem from attraction, and the root of attraction lies in a person's charisma. Only if there is certain attraction in you that is able to captivate the other person's heart, his/her love will last. Therefore, making yourself more attractive is the key to winning the hearts and minds of others.
You should learn to show your charm in a targeted way to achieve better results. First of all, you need to understand the other person's mate selection criteria, that is, what type of person the other person prefers. In this way, you can show your strengths in a targeted manner according to the preferences of the other person.
For example, if the person you like likes is mature and talented, then you should focus on showing your trustworthy and stable personality traits in the process of getting along with her.
If you act too childish and careless, it will be difficult for her to have a crush on you and may even be disgusted with you. When interacting with women, it is necessary to show maturity and conscientiousness so that it is possible to make her interested.
Remember, attracting her is a crucial step in pursuing her heart, and the way to do that is to show your charm.
"Hot and cold alternately", first active and then flat
When men and women get along, if they can properly use the strategy of "wanting to catch and indulge", they will reap unexpected results. And "hot and cold" is a way to get away with it – to take positive action and then fade it away. This method can lead to better emotional recognition and acceptance.
The method is designed to get people used to you, while suddenly making it difficult for them to grasp you, thus motivating them to take the initiative to approach you. It's a simple and effective way to attract others.
When you have a crush on a woman, always be there for her and show sincerity and kindness. Let her gradually adapt and rely on you so that your relationship can grow.
Of course, in the process, you must not confess to her. Please remain calm and sensible so as not to affect the friendship and mood.
As you develop a deep relationship, you can appropriately withdraw from her life and keep it moderately bland.
With the help of the "hot and cold" strategy, you can get her attention and spark her interest in you, which will prompt her to pursue you. However, you need to be measured and measured so that you don't go overboard or not push too hard.
Create a sense of crisis and make her jealous
To "trap" a woman's heart, you first need to understand her psychology.
Taking the initiative can be tricky for many women, especially those who are introverted and conservative.
The current situation may require you to be proactive, and you can increase her attention to you by creating a sense of crisis or making her feel jealous. But be aware that this is not the only way to do this, and there are many things to consider.
Once she perceives a crisis, she will take the initiative to manage her situation.
For example, you can often casually mention other members of the opposite sex in front of her, or tell about how other members of the opposite sex have behaved towards you, so that she will understand that there are many competitors around you, and thus increase her awareness of you.
Women, like men, have a certain desire to possess. They may also start to pursue you out of jealousy.
Conclusion:
In love, both men and women, can only truly cherish each other when they really take action.
In the TV series "Heirloom", Tang Fengwu and Yi Zhongyu are a good example. At first, Tang Fengwu pursued Yi Zhongyu very hard, but later, Yi Zhongyu gradually began to respond to his feelings. This story shows us that a true love is something that requires the dedication and effort of both parties to each other.
During the period when Tang Fengwu pursued Yi Zhongyu, it was obvious that the effect was not very ideal, and the two always seemed to have a good relationship on the surface, but in fact they were a little estranged.
When Yi Zhongyu really fell in love with him, she devoted herself wholeheartedly to him, let go of her past pride and persistence, and began to take the initiative to get close to him. The relationship between the two has also become deeper with the passage of time.
In the process of getting Yi Zhongyu to take the initiative to pursue him, Tang Fengwu's charm deeply attracted her and made her gradually realize her love.
It's important to remember that falling in love requires a certain amount of skill and is not set in stone. When you find the right approach, you'll find that the challenges and management of a relationship become smoother. Remember, and keep exploring what works for you.