Many women, when watching TV series, may think that it is a breeze to get love like the hero and heroine.
Many readers can't help but wonder why the female protagonist has never done anything to the male protagonist, and she is not perfect, why did the male protagonist effortlessly convince her?
In many cases, not only the male protagonist will be attracted to the female protagonist, but even the second and third male protagonists will be impressed by her charm.
is like in the classic idol drama "Meteor Garden", starring big S Xu Xiyuan and Yan Chengxu, the heroine Shancai is pursued by five men. With its popular plot and nuanced character development, this drama has attracted countless viewers.
The five male protagonists in the play are all deeply attracted to Shancai and pursue her.
Some people believe that the so-called "Mary Sue plot" is impossible to appear in real life. However, as political science says, "art comes from life", any plot can happen all around us.
Idol TV series are derived from real life, and have been adapted and innovated to bring the audience a kind of beauty in the virtual world. In the play, the character Shancai conquered many excellent, handsome and good men, and there is an important factor behind this, which is her own personality charm. This charm encompasses attractive temperament, inner beauty, and wisdom. The confidence and self-esteem it brings make Shancai full of self-confidence and courage, and continue to move forward on the road of pursuing love.
If you want a man to be willful to you, then you need to be an attractive woman. Let men involuntarily be attracted to you and feel very comfortable with you. It's an attraction that makes you extremely attractive in the eyes of men.
As the saying goes, "Fight a snake and hit seven inches", and seven inches are used to depict the key points, weaknesses and key points of things, that is, the location of the "heart".
When a woman wants to attract a man, she needs to show the following three personality charms to occupy his mind and make him happy with you.
Give men a certain amount of freedom in time and space
We often use the word "love" as an excuse to express our concern and consideration for others, but in reality we are only satisfying our own possessiveness and control. This kind of behavior is suffocating and requires reflection.
In fact, all people have a desire to have and to be in control. When someone is in control and has a sense of control, that feeling can make anyone happy and even cause some small feelings of complacency.
Please understand that your happiness should not come at the expense of the suffering of others, and this is a code of ethics that we should all live by.
If you always don't give the other person a little space when you get along, and always try to control and discipline him, then he will eventually leave you. This is an important creed that should be kept in mind. As long as you give each other enough freedom and respect, your relationship can develop healthily for a long time.
Men generally yearn for freedom, and although they need love, they must not allow it to become a shackle to freedom. This applies not only to everyone, but also to the general truth.
If you want to conquer a man, it is important to understand his needs and give him enough space and freedom. It is important for him to feel respected and understood. In this way, you will increase his trust and respect for you, which will deepen your relationship.
Smart women know how to get along with men and don't act like mothers-in-law or are particularly dependent on each other. On the contrary, they are hot and cold in their appetite for male curiosity and conquest. The above text is intended to convey this to the general audience.
Remember, if you want to attract a man's attention, it's best not to keep them alone or leash them, and the best way to get them interested in you is the best way to do it.
Give him enough face in front of outsiders
Men are very self-conscious.
When spending time with him or attending a party, be sure to give him enough respect and attention and don't make him feel unwelcome or lost. Creating a good social atmosphere for him and giving him full face will make him feel welcome and respected. It is a light-hearted but important social etiquette.
Especially when you first get to know each other, your relationship may not be very close. If you embarrass him at this time, then there is a high probability that he will become more and more alienated from you. Be careful with your relationship so as not to affect the future development.
He thinks that you are not emotionally intelligent and decent, so he will not feel comfortable.
In the past and in the present, he may be unhappy with you for many different reasons. Even if you give him a lot, he may still be able to strengthen his defenses inside.
When interacting with others, we must give men enough face. Face is very important for men, equivalent to their seven inches. Once we hurt this sensitive part of them, their affection for us is completely gone. We should be gentle, attentive, and show respect and courtesy to men. Not only does this deepen our affection for each other, but it also helps us to behave in social situations.
How? You have to learn to be the little woman beside him, even to help him create and maintain his image, and to show your adoration for him in your daily interactions.
Don't blame him for small mistakes
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and true love is not only about focusing on the strengths, but also about being able to accept the shortcomings. While loving someone, being able to face his shortcomings calmly is true love. Only by being able to accept each other sincerely can we establish a sincere relationship.
When we were growing up, our parents rarely praised us directly. They often use repressive education, believing that it will allow us to grow better. However, this type of education often casts a shadow on our psyche. We should have more positive encouragement and rewards to boost our self-confidence and motivation.
After going through a rigorous education, we as adults may unconsciously point out the small mistakes of the man we love when facing him.
This will lead to an imbalance between our input and return.
In fact, women's expectations are for men to be better, better, and more perfect.
However, for men, a woman who always criticizes and blames the other person is often seen as prejudiced against others, and it is difficult to be satisfied with his overall performance.
Often, men get impatient and bored with those pestering women and are therefore unable to get along for long periods of time. The consequences of this situation are self-evident.
In order to make a man submit to you, don't blindly accuse him of small mistakes.
Conclusion:
Many women want men to give in to them, and identifying their weaknesses is key.
Women should know that men are eternal teenagers even at the end of their lives. No matter how old men are, their hearts always yearn for freedom but also for a belonging. Their hearts are full of passion and debauchery, and at the same time they yearn for the warmth of family and love.
When dealing with men, we should give them the freedom of space and time, respect their personal privacy, and not interfere easily in their lives and daily activities. Also, in public, give them enough face and respect, and don't publicly accuse them of their mistakes, which will make them feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. On the contrary, we should be equal to men, tolerate and understand each other, and build relationships of trust and friendship.
I believe that you will be able to handle these key points skillfully and become a charismatic woman who will make him fall in love with you more and more.