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Gong Li, a well-known actor who has always kept a low profile in his private life, was directly asked sharply by the host during an interview session on a public TV program - about whether she already has a child of her own.
This question was like a sharp knife, deeply stabbing Gong Li's heart, making her fall silent in an instant, as if touching those indescribable memories in her heart.
The atmosphere at the scene instantly became tense, silent, as if the air was frozen. Just when everyone thought that Gong Li would skillfully avoid this sensitive topic as before, she suddenly took a deep breath, her eyes were firm and dark, and she replied slowly but forcefully: "That's right, I do have a son who is an adult and has successfully been admitted to the university of his dreams.
As soon as these words came out, the scene immediately set off an uproar! Everyone was stunned by this sudden news, only to see Gong Li's eyes flashing with tears, it seems that behind the birth of this child, there is a life experience full of hardships, which makes it difficult for her to speak.
Naturally, the media and fans were full of interest in this matter, and they tried to ask who the child's biological father was. After all, Gong Li has never disclosed her marital status, so she is known as the "divorce wrongdoer".
Could it be that this child was really born to her ex-husband Huang Hexiang? However, this speculation was quickly dismissed, because according to the timeline, Gong Li had married Huang Hexiang as early as 1996, and the son she said had already entered college seemed to be too old.
As a result, more and more people began to wonder if this child originated from the eight-year fiery love affair between Gong Li and the famous director Zhang Yimou? If this is the case, then why did they choose to break up back then, in addition to the difference in marriage concepts, is there any other unknown inside story? For a while, various speculations spread quickly on the Internet.
In the face of discussions from the outside world, Gong Li always maintained a firm attitude, she did not disclose more details, but silently shed a few tears.
This silence adds a sense of mystery to the child's life experience, making the audience more eager to know the truth of this secret relationship.
In 1987, when Gong Li, who was only 23 years old, first joined the crew of "Red Sorghum", he met Zhang Yimou, a 38-year-old director who was already famous at that time. The love at first sight between the two burned like a flame, starting an 8-year relationship entanglement.
At that time, Gong Li was fresh and refined, with bright eyes and bright teeth, with a little girlish immaturity and shyness. She successfully attracted Zhang Yimou's attention on the first day of the crew.
The experienced director has developed a strong interest in Gong Li, often guides her personally in her work, and cares for this young girl outside the camera.
At first, Gong Li admired and was more curious about Zhang Yimou, a director with a unique artistic temperament and personality charm. However, as the filming deepened, the relationship between the two became closer and closer, and the friendship at first sight gradually deteriorated and sublimated into ambiguous love.
Behind the scenes on the set, Zhang Yimou often invited Gong Li to have a few drinks and chat about trivial matters in life. Sometimes they discuss artistic ideas, sometimes they play and laugh.
In this way, they unwittingly crossed that insurmountable red line.
Until "Red Sorghum" was successfully completed and released, this film not only made Gong Li the crown of the Golden Bear Queen, but also made Zhang Yimou famous.
Their career cooperation is a match made in heaven, however, this cooperation is too close, and the private relationship is becoming more and more intense, and it is difficult to control itself.
In the end, in order to be able to stay with Gong Li openly, Zhang Yimou made a decisive decision - he decided to divorce! So, this influential director in the film industry, in order to stay with Gong Li, a post-90s girl who is 15 years younger than him, did not hesitate to divorce his wife Xiao Hua, and since then they have parted ways.
Since then, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li's underground romance has lasted for 8 years. This undoubtedly became the most eye-catching and sensational scandal in the entertainment industry that year.
Despite the strong condemnation from all walks of life, they still stood firmly by each other's side and turned a blind eye to the gossip.
In 2000, it has been 5 years since he broke up with Zhang Yimou. During this low period of emotional trauma, Gong Li regained her spirits and devoted herself to the filming of the movie "Pretty Mother".
It seemed that everything was back on track, but fate opened a completely new and unknown chapter in her life.
On the set, an inconspicuous small role attracted Gong Li's strong attention. It was a deaf boy named Gao Xin, who was born with a disability, but his talent in acting was unparalleled.
Whenever he devotes himself to rehearsals, his dedication and devotion often win high praise from directors.
At first, Gong Li was only attracted by this child's outstanding performance, and during the break, she would always unconsciously observe his every move.
Gao Xin's optimistic and positive attitude towards life bravely and with a disability gave Gong Li, a person who was physically and mentally exhausted, great encouragement and strength.
When the filming came to an end, Gong Li took the initiative to ask the director for information about Gao Xin's family background. Knowing that his family was poor and that his mother was just an ordinary cleaner, relying on a meager salary to support the family, Gong Li's heart was full of sympathy and pity.
She was able to deeply appreciate the hard work of Gao Xin's mother, and at the same time, she was deeply moved by this bright, optimistic and life-loving child.
So, Gong Li decided to make a desperate bet and personally visited Gao Xin's parents, and solemnly expressed her wish to adopt Gao Xin. At first, Gao's parents were skeptical about the matter, after all, it was difficult to feel at ease to leave their children to be raised by strangers.
However, seeing Gong Li's sincere and sincere gaze, they finally let go of the worries in their hearts, hoping that Gao Xin could live a more superior life under the care of this star.
In this way, the fate of the deaf-mute child Gao Xin had an unexpected intersection with Gong Li's life script. Although taking care of a special child became a huge challenge in the early days, Gong Li did not flinch, and with her carefulness and patience, she gradually narrowed the distance between them.
Looking back on 1995, the relationship between Gong Li and Zhang Yimou has reached an impasse. Zhang Yimou turned a deaf ear to Gong Li's desire to enter the marriage hall for many years, and always adhered to the concept that "marriage is just a contract, and there is no need to be bound by it".
Although Gong Li loved this man deeply, she couldn't bear it anymore, and sometime in 1995, she made up her mind and sent Zhang Yimou an invitation to marry for the last time.
However, what is unexpected is that Zhang Yimou politely declined again this time, clearly expressing his resolute position not to enter the marriage hall! In the face of this tough man's stubbornness, Gong Li's heart was full of helplessness and sadness, and in the end, she learned from the pain and resolutely announced the end of her eight-year emotional entanglement.
This breakup undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Gong Li. After years of obsessive waiting, in the end, she was exchanged for endless disappointment, and she seemed to have fallen into a low point in her life.
However, at this darkest moment, a warm ray of sunshine sprinkled into Gong Li's life, that is, the arrival of the deaf and mute child Gao Xin.
At first, taking care of Gao Xin's daily life became a huge challenge, after all, Gong Li had no experience of marriage and childbirth, and she also lacked professional knowledge in special education.
But she firmly chose to persevere, carefully and patiently caring for this child who could not hear the voice.
As time passed, Gao Xin gradually adapted to Gong Li's company, and the relationship between the two became increasingly intimate, establishing a deep mother-son relationship.
Under Gong Li's hard work, Gao Xin thrived, he not only mastered the basic life skills, but also excelled in academics, and the spirit of diligence and hard work made Gong Li often proud.
Years of patience paid off, and under Gong Li's careful guidance, Gao Xin was successfully admitted to his ideal university, opening the door to a broader future.
All of this stems from Gong Li's bold choice back then. It is precisely because of her deep love for this child that Gao Xin can get out of the predicament and welcome the sunshine in life.
The main reason why Gao Xin's life experience has been hidden for many years is that Gong Li has always been concerned about the doubts and criticisms of the outside world. After all, a child born with a disability is often hurt and criticized by strange glances from others.
In order to protect Gao Xin from the criticism of the outside world, Gong Li could only hide the truth deep in her heart and claim that she had never had the experience of marriage and childbirth.
This confidential work continued until Gao Xin was successfully admitted to university. At this time, Gong Li was over half a hundred years old, and in a public TV interview, she finally mustered up the courage to resolutely reveal the secret that had been hidden in her heart for 30 years.
"Yes, I did have an heir, and now he has grown into a mature young man, and he is in the ...... of college," Gong Li said in a firm tone, but tears were already quietly welling up in her eyes.
The long-term secrecy and restraint have made this hidden fact public, and for her, it is like removing a heavy burden.
The news was like a bolt from the blue, causing a deep shock to the audience. Immediately afterwards, she did not hesitate to confess that she had broken up peacefully with her ex-husband Huang Hexiang many years ago.
Their divorce process was as quiet as the original wedding, quietly starting and ending quietly.
After the divorce, Gong Li has always been busy with her career and Gao Xin's life. Until 2017, time flies, time flies, and she bravely plunged into the arms of love again at the age of more than half a hundred, choosing to marry Michel, a French gentleman who is nearly 20 years older than herself.
This move has undoubtedly aroused widespread concern from all walks of life. After all, for a woman entering her old age, talking about love may seem a little awkward.
However, Gong Li showed her unique understanding of love and life with practical actions.
She never pays attention to the gaze and evaluation of others, but just follows her inner voice. It is this courage and independent spirit that supports her to seek a balance between love, career, and family, and shapes a "wild" woman's independent and free attitude towards life.
Now, Gong Li, who is over fifty years old, finally no longer needs to hide her true colors. She bravely faced all doubts and blames, unreservedly showed the purest emotions in her heart to everyone, and lived a "wild" woman who was independent and free and loved life.
Looking back on her magnificent life journey, we can't help but be moved. From following Zhang Yimou without hesitation when he was young, to raising Gao Xin alone, and then to the twists and turns of the last few marriages, Gong Li interprets her unique views on love and life with her own actions.
She once gave up everything for love and gave up her originally stable future; She was also lonely and helpless in the shadow of a breakup, but she never gave up her enthusiasm for life.
In order to allow Gao Xin to bathe in the sun, she did her best to give the child endless care and care.
Even after two lightning-short married lives, Gong Li still showed the ambition and pride to move forward in defiance of the world's vision.
For a woman who has entered her old age, it may be shy and awkward to talk about love again, but she is not afraid to plunge into a new married life, boldly chasing love and the endless freedom of life.
It is precisely because of this fiery love for life that Gong Li has always maintained a young and energetic heart in the face of the baptism of time.
Although she has suffered countless setbacks and disappointments, she still cherishes life, cherishes the present, firmly follows her inner voice, and bravely shows the most free and wonderful life style.
This independent and passionate attitude to life is undoubtedly a powerful source of motivation to support Gong Li through those difficult years. She is not swayed by the gaze of any other person, but only obeys the purest call of her heart, so that the whole world becomes more free and open, more inclusive and diverse.
Today's Gong Li has long since faded away from the reserve and restraint of his youth, broke free from all the shackles of the past, and was finally able to show himself without scruples and release the most unique light in his heart.
This freedom, this fearlessness, this attitude to life and independent personality are the distinctive signs and praises of women in the new era.