Love seems to be very unreasonable, sometimes you have given your all, but you just can't catch up with the person you like. But there are people who can be loved and cherished without doing anything.
Some men will think that when chasing a girl, as long as they persist and be good to her, they will definitely succeed.
But all the people you can catch up with are not only because you are romantic and caring, but also because the girls are also interesting to you from the beginning.
Women are willing to be "taken down" by you, so there are these 3 behaviors, men must understand and don't miss the opportunity.
01: Will be very active in interacting with you
As long as a girl doesn't like you, her attitude will become indifferent. For example, if you send a message, she will pretend not to see it, or will not reply after a long time.
It is difficult for a girl who has no feelings for you to be impressed, especially when the other party is not lacking in love, and the economy is independent, no matter how enthusiastic you pursue, you can't get good feedback.
But if she has a crush on you and is willing to be taken down by you, she will take the initiative to communicate and interact with you.
Whatever you say, she will be very active and cooperative, and every time she chats on WeChat, she can chat for hours.
Even if what you say is just a very ordinary ordinary thing, she can be happy for a long time, and she will praise you for knowing everything.
A girl with this behavior is actually in love with you, but she is embarrassed to confess. A really smart man can understand the attitude of a girl and will be brave enough to express his love.
02: Will create opportunities to be alone with you
No matter how shy a girl is, she will become brave in front of the boy she likes.
If you've known each other for a while, every time you ask her to have dinner or watch a movie, but she finds an excuse to refuse, it probably means that she doesn't want to be taken down by you and has no intention of developing with you.
You have paid and persevered, but there is still no result, I advise you to stop entanglement. The more flattering you are, the more you will be hated.
Girls who are really interested in you will have a particularly obvious behavior, which is to take the initiative to create opportunities to be alone with you.
She won't deliberately ask you out, but will find something for you to help out, and as long as she has the opportunity to be alone with you, she won't let it go easily.
Shanting (pseudonym) and her boyfriend are colleagues, their personalities are very similar, and they also have common hobbies.
When they first met, Shanting felt that her boyfriend was her favorite type, but she wasn't sure if he had a good impression of her.
There are not many single girls in the company, and if she doesn't take the initiative under the conditions of her boyfriend, she must have no chance.
Therefore, when the other party does not ask herself, Shanting will find a way to create an opportunity to be alone.
For example, if the computer is broken, she will trouble her boyfriend to check it for her, or if the printer at home fails, she will also contact the other party to help.
Slowly, they got to know each other better, and her boyfriend probably knew that Shanting was interesting to him, and the two ended up together naturally.
03: Will show real vulnerability in front of boys
Now there are many girls who are very strong and work hard in their careers, and they don't treat themselves as women at all. But as long as you meet a man you like, you will become in a different state.
A woman who is willing to be taken down by you will show her true vulnerability in front of you, because she trusts you enough, so she will not be defensive and disguised.
When you are in a bad mood, or when you are anxious and fearful, she will call you, let you know how you feel at the moment, and hope that you can comfort herself.
This kind of behavior is actually to love you and need you very much.