Text by Kusushiba
How can we tie a man's heart?
You may think that a man is a wild horse, and if he doesn't know how to control it, then he will often run away.
So, what kind of entertainment do you have every day? What's the itinerary for each day? I want you to ask about everything.
And you have to take the initiative to report, if you don't take the initiative, then you have a ghost in your heart, and you don't love yourself.
Thinking all day long, suspicious all day long, in the end, the more unable to tie the man's heart, and the man gradually drifted away.
Therefore, tying a man's heart sometimes tests not only a woman's wisdom, sometimes it tests a woman's emotions, and sometimes it tests a woman's ability.
Loving someone, isn't it that the tighter you grasp, the more the other person loves you, just like the sand between your fingers, it will run out in the end.
And a woman who knows how to tie a man's heart is often wise, often happy, and often a winner in life.
It is true that the best way to tie a man's heart: three don't ask three and don't care.
One, three don't ask.
If you want to tie a man's heart, then you have to ask three questions, what are three don't ask?
1. Don't ask why? Second, don't ask what embarrasses him, and third, don't ask what he doesn't want to say
What men are most afraid of is to break the casserole and ask to the end, and women are still happy to do it, asking one question after another, and in the end they get angry and break up unhappily.
In fact, women should look more attentively, not just with their eyes and ears, sometimes what you see is not necessarily the truth, and sometimes what you hear is not necessarily true.
So, when a man is in a bad mood, don't ask why again and again? When a man wants to change jobs, instead of repeatedly asking why? Instead, agree first, and wait for the other party to automatically open the conversation.
What men need is affirmation, so it's good to give each other affirmation.
Sometimes it's obvious that this matter is a man's sore spot, and you are still talking in front of your friends, you don't notice that the man's face is getting more and more ugly, full of embarrassment, and he wants to find a hole to get into.
Therefore, to save a man's face, a man will really let you into his heart.
Sometimes a man just doesn't want to say it, and sometimes you misunderstand him and other female colleagues, but he just doesn't want to explain too much.
And you are skeptical, so what to do? Then it's better not to say it, and when he wants to say it, he will naturally tell you.
There is also a saying that if you really have changed your mind, after all, paper can't hold the fire.
Therefore, if you want to tie a man's heart and do these three things, the first is understanding, the second is respect, and the third is considerate.
Of course, don't do it blindly, women should not forget to improve themselves at any time, don't forget, only if you are dazzling enough, you can protect your happiness.
Of course, for some exceptions, we can't control them, so we accept them calmly, and finally believe that those who love me will cherish them.
Two or three don't care.
How can a woman not care about it in order to be able to tie a man's heart?
1. What time do you go home? 2. No matter how much money you make? 3. Regardless of socializing.
Teacher Void Ji said such an example, one of his friends annoyed her husband every day when she was not at home, Teacher Void Ji told him to leave it alone, ignore it, and after a few days, her husband got rid of his problem and went home on time every night.
So you might as well learn from the friend of the Void Teacher, the more you take care of the man, the more rebellious and resistant, the more you don't care, but obediently let you take care of it.
No matter how much money you make? Don't always compare your man with other people's men, a person's self-motivation is incomparable.
If your man is motivated and diligent, in fact, his life will not be much worse, at least he will have no worries about food and clothing.
Smart women don't care about men's entertainment, is men's entertainment effective or ineffective? Often, only men decide for themselves.
If he really wants to go, you can't stop him, and if he doesn't want to go, he will naturally stay at home with you.
In fact, to put it bluntly, men don't need to manage too much, you take too much care of men, spend too much energy and time, and often ignore yourself.
The time that should be talking with friends, the time when shopping with friends, the time when spending time with parents, and the time that should belong to one's own private space have all been lost.
There are only men in your world, and you don't care about the second person except him.
This is very scary, and when you love someone to the point of obsession, you will often get hurt.
So be sensible, it's better to let a man automatically put his heart into your hands and be willingly tied to you.
Instead of having time to fight against the man's world, it is better to cultivate yourself in your own world and enhance your charm, so that men can stay at home willingly.
Therefore, the best way to tie a man's heart is to don't ask, don't care, I wish you an epiphany, happiness, and love for a hundred years.
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