The ancients said: "People cannot be disguised, and the sea cannot be measured." However, in real life, we have to admit that physical appearance greatly influences the first impression and judgment of others about us.
In ancient Chinese cultural traditions, face reading has always been an esoteric science, where people speculate about a person's character, destiny, and future by observing facial features. Among them, the saying "men are afraid of small mouths, women are afraid of big noses" is widely spread.
So, why is there such a saying that "men are afraid of small mouths, and women are afraid of big noses"? Why is a small mouth considered bad in men? And what kind of social scrutiny and prejudice will women with big noses face?
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Traditionally, men should be masculine and brave, and their temperament should show strength and determination. And the "small mouth" in men is often seen as a characteristic that does not match this masculine image.
It is widely believed that men with small cherry mouths may lack masculinity, appear weak, and even give the impression of not being bold and decisive enough.
In contrast, men with larger mouth contours give a bold, atmospheric feel. They are often considered to be cheerful, straightforward, willing to face challenges, and helpful.
This image is more likely to earn the trust and respect of others, because in the minds of many people, the big-mouthed male shows a symbol of honesty and courage.
The size of the mouth not only affects people's judgment of a man's character, but also shapes people's first impression of them to a certain extent. In social situations, big-mouthed men are often more likely to attract the attention of others because of their unique temperament, and are regarded as having a strong "manly taste".
And those small-mouthed men, although they may also have excellent internal qualities, may not make a distinct and prominent impression because of their physical characteristics.
In addition to this, from a physiognomy point of view, the size of the mouth is also believed to be closely related to the character and fate of men. Traditionally, small-mouthed men may be more selfish, less open-minded, and more likely to pursue pleasure.
On the other hand, men with big mouths are often seen as more open-minded and informal, and they know how to behave in the world more decently, showing a calm and down-to-earth side.
In terms of voice, men with wide mouths tend to have louder and more infectious voices. This sound quality not only gives them an advantage in speeches, performances, etc., but also gives people a sense of confidence and trustworthiness.
In contrast, small-mouthed men may have a smaller, less powerful and less confident voice, a vocal trait that may affect their expressiveness and persuasion in public.
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In the traditional aesthetic concept, women should be gentle and feminine. Therefore, a woman with a wide nose may give the impression of being strong and resolute, which is in stark contrast to the traditional image of women.
However, in modern society, this aesthetic concept is gradually changing, and more and more women are beginning to pursue an independent and autonomous lifestyle.
Still, in some areas where traditional beliefs are still deeply rooted, the saying that "women are afraid of big noses" still has some influence.
It is generally accepted that women with big noses are often more ambitious and ambitious, and they are eager to pursue more space and opportunities, rather than being limited by traditional family roles. This pursuit may be seen in traditional societies as a challenge and a departure from family roles.
However, with the progress of society and the improvement of women's status, more and more women have begun to step out of the family and pursue their careers and dreams. With their talents and efforts, they have proved that women can also achieve excellence in various fields.
Therefore, we should abandon traditional prejudices and stereotypes, and look at each woman's physical characteristics and personality choices with a more open and inclusive mind.
To a certain extent, these perceptions have influenced people's perception and evaluation of male and female images.
However, with the progress of society and the change of attitudes, we have come to realize more and more that a person's value and charm should not be defined by their appearance alone.
Whether male or female, we should respect their individuality and choices and avoid judging people by their appearance or being influenced by stereotypes.
Everyone has their own unique charms and strengths, and these qualities should not be constrained by traditional aesthetic concepts. Let us look at and evaluate others with a more open and inclusive mind, and work together to build an equal, just and pluralistic social environment.