How many ups and downs of life have been moved out of a movie, and how many people have suffered but can't be said about a story.
A character has you in him, you have him, a small point of view, may move out of a life.
The movie "The Elegance of the Hedgehog" has been reminiscent for a long time.
The confusion of the little protagonist Palomar's growth and the mental world of the janitor Renee cause people to think.
The audience couldn't help but feel heartfelt worry about Palomar's thoughts of wanting to commit suicide, and sighed deeply about Renee's fate.
Palomar's spiritual fence
"Palomar, why are you hiding?" Palomar's mom asked. "The pinnacle of my life is to make a movie. Let people see the absurdity of life. Other people's lives, my lives. Although life is meaningless, at least there is spiritual independence. ”
Palomar thought silently. At the beginning of the movie, the audience was stunned by the little girl's brain. Paloma loses interest in life and has a sense of absurdity about life, and she decides to put an end to it all.
A 12-year-old girl who is caught in the fog of self-growth, which has a lot to do with her family.
In Paloma's house, the mother often talks to the flowers, often goes to the doctor, often has insomnia, she can't take care of the child's mental world, what is the child thinking?
What is there to worry about? How do children view self-esteem, death, and life? She didn't know anything about it, and she didn't know the danger hidden in the child. Fathers are busy, and their indifferent hearts cannot meet the needs of their children. The mother was talking to the flowers, and she couldn't even answer the child's "goodbye", and the whole person was immersed in her own world.
Not very interested in the child, the child feels really lonely. Children will imitate the negative behavior of adults, expressing negative emotions with negative emotions: "I grow up, see if I can be like you". And at her age, it is difficult to take responsibility for her feelings. They will even hide themselves and immerse themselves in their own world.
This is a mistake, her psychology can't bear so much pressure, even as an adult, it is difficult to make the right choice. Not to mention that she is still a little girl who has never seen the world. So he couldn't think of a reason, so he wanted to end his life.
Spiritual Redemption of Palomar
In order to break the barriers of Paloma's mind, it is necessary to let the child vent his emotions and carefully understand the child's thoughts. Establish a pleasurable conversation pattern, become a soul catcher, explore the mysteries of life, accompany her when she is sad, and accept her. Not allowing the child to cry or not being able to cry is a big problem.
From transforming emotions to recognizing emotions and then to understanding emotions. In this way, it can not only help the child, but also cultivate the child's self-regulation ability. "Child, we allow you to cry because crying is a strong force." Renee's death in the film is an accident, but it plays a crucial role in Palomar's change in attitude towards life, as she reveals the truth about death.
Renee's mental fence
The first time I met the porter, I saw it in the movie, put the flower pot on the window, turn on the TV, put on the sweater, and deliver the dumpster to the door, this is the janitor Renee, a short and fat lonely woman, she went out and only talked to one person, that is, Jean. Pierre.
At the end, as a reminder let. Pierre's attention to safety and did not take care of her own safety Renee was hit by a car, she was gone forever, and the audience's heart also collapsed, it was the ending and the climax of the story, Renee's soul was sublimated, but the audience was unwilling.
The beauty is gone in an instant, why can't she be happy, if she hadn't been hit by a car, maybe she would have been able to get happiness right away and end the fifteen years of loneliness.
That's why Jean-Pierre was the last person she met. The film echoes back and forth and sticks to the theme.
Renee has a small secret study, there are many books in it, her eyes are deep, and there is a trace of calmness in her decadence, fifteen years after her husband's death, she did not deliberately hide in the porter, but she has been in her own little world for too long, and when she meets Ozugen, it is like a beam of light in the darkness, which makes the thorns in her body soft.
In fact, she could have avoided hiding in her own little world for so long.
Here's what Renee said: "I'm short, ugly, and fit perfectly into the role of a janitor. "Low self-esteem and struggles are intertwined, it is difficult for a person to overcome his weaknesses and constraints, but he cannot lack self-confidence, and poverty makes Renee constantly worry that she will lose her job.
Setting her life like this is both the helplessness of the gatekeeper and her limitations. The more inferiority she had, the more angry she became, and it became a thorn in her body. A noble soul, encased in a hard shell.
Renee's cautious approach to life is another wall of the mind. When Renee puts on her new clothes, she is surprised that no one recognizes her. Ozugran replied, "She doesn't know you." ”
The meaning of this phrase is that they never know your noble soul. If people look at the corners of their own clothes more than the hardships of others, why should you live cautiously, Renee?
Renee's spiritual redemption
After meeting her soulmate, Renee did not give up hope in life and bravely embraced happiness, so that the audience was full of hope for life. When he persuaded Pierre to leave the road, his soul was exalted.
When she introduced herself to Palomar, she saw Paloma as a friend, and in front of her friends, she had no hypocrisy, no pretense, and was honest about herself. In front of Ozugen, he didn't lie, and even the audience was deeply moved by the truth saying "This dress is borrowed" that he was not greedy for wealth.
In our lives, it is sometimes ourselves who trap us, climbing over the spiritual fence and breaking the shackles.
To overcome the anxiety and frustration of life, you must first learn to be your own master.
No matter what kind of setbacks you encounter, as long as you are willing, you have enough strength to stand up, this strength does not lie in the environment, not in whether there is anyone to help you, but in your heart, whether you are really willing to stand up, and firmly and persistently challenge everything that blocks you.