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In front of the camera, a woman cried to a reporter from Hunan Metropolis Channel:
"My younger brother was almost strangled to death by that woman, and then he was forced to work on the construction site, and when the family was separated, he gave me a bench, and the money was given to the woman!"
The 70-year-old Cai Sicheng on the side did not defend himself, he knew that his little girlfriend did all this. The daughter-in-law hates him so much now that she can't beg her for help with a shy face anymore.
Subsequently, Cai Sicheng took the reporter to a hospital in Changsha to find his adopted daughter for help, but the hospital informed him that there was no such person.
Cai Sicheng, who did not give up, went to a key university in Changsha where his adopted son was studying for graduate school, but his adopted son told reporters on the phone that he would not get involved in his mother and his affairs, and there was no need to talk about meeting him.
Cai Sicheng's eyes were red at this time, he worked hard for his girlfriend for 17 years, and now his little girlfriend has run away, his adopted son and daughter are avoided, and his own son is even like him.
So what kind of person is Cai Sicheng, who can run this family all over the place? How did he end?
Two people who are emotionally unhappy
Cai Sicheng has been the number one person in the village since he was young, and when everyone was still working the farm with their backs to the loess, Cai Sicheng became the four bosses in the mouths of the villagers!
He found that there was a very popular local medicinal herb, and many people would come from thousands of miles to buy it, so why couldn't they sell it themselves, since outsiders were willing to buy it?
So Cai Sicheng changed from an ordinary farmer to a medicinal herb merchant, which allowed him to accumulate a lot of wealth in a short period of time, and he also became one of the first people in the village to build a house.
Life after being rich was boring and boring, but this period of time did not last long, and when Cai Sicheng reached middle age, his wife died, leaving only him and his two sons.
Although when his wife died, the two children were not young, but Cai Sicheng himself inevitably felt lonely from time to time, he was only 50 years old, and the future was still very long, so he couldn't just live by himself, right?
Just when he was thinking about it like this, a woman broke into his field of vision, it was his later little girlfriend Liu Xiaodi.
Liu Xiaodi's relationship status is similar to Cai Sicheng, widowed at a young age, pulling a pair of children alone, her economic conditions are much worse than Cai Sicheng, and she barely makes ends meet by opening a barber shop downstairs in Cai Sicheng.
But in the eyes of the neighbors, these two people are not a good match, because Cai Sicheng is 53 years old, and Liu Xiaodi is only 33 years old, and the difference between the two is 20 years.
It's just that love has always been blind and unreasonable, Liu Xiaodi soon became the person Cai Sicheng thinks about day and night, he always passes by Liu Xiaodi's door intentionally or unintentionally, creating opportunities for chance encounters.
Lang is affectionate, but what about the concubine? Liu Xiaodi has actually been looking for a partner for herself, and her reasons are different from Cai Sicheng's, she doesn't feel uncomfortable.
It's that the financial pressure of raising two children is too great, and if a man can help her, the burden on her shoulders will be much lighter.
Cai Sicheng, who made a fortune by selling medicinal herbs, is certainly a good candidate.
So after the two of them looked at each other for a while, they were close to the last layer of window paper that was not pierced.
In order to win Liu Xiaodi's favor, Cai Sicheng solemnly made a promise that he would give priority to Liu Xiaodi's mother and son in everything, and let them eat first if they had food.
got Cai Sicheng's promise, Liu Xiaodi moved into Cai Sicheng's house with his 5-year-old daughter and 3-year-old son.
But only Cai Sicheng was dealt with, and Liu Xiaodi still couldn't sit back and relax.
Vicious "stepmother"
After entering the door of Cai's house, Liu Xiaodi found that he still had two "passes" to break through, namely Cai Sicheng's two sons.
The two sons did not object to their father's twilight love, the eldest son was already independent, while the younger son was only in elementary school and did not understand what it meant to have a new aunt in the family.
But Liu Xiaodi quickly regarded the brothers as a thorn in his side and a thorn in his flesh.
Why is Liu Xiaodi willing to follow Cai Sicheng, who is 20 years older than him? Tu He is old, Tu He doesn't take a bath? Of course, it's money.
Since it is for money, of course, the more she can get, the better, and Cai Sicheng's two sons have naturally become her opponents in the fight for property.
Especially the eldest son, at the same time that Liu Xiaodi entered Cai Sicheng's house, Cai Sicheng's eldest son was also preparing to get married, and it had reached the point where he wanted to get a bride price.
After Liu Xiaodi learned of this, he immediately began to make trouble, saying that he had fallen for Cai Sicheng. Obviously, he promised to give priority to their mother and son in everything to ensure their lives.
Now that they have just entered the house, the family's money will be used as a bride price for the eldest son, how can they ensure their livelihood?
The implication is to force Cai Sicheng to choose between his eldest son and Liu Xiaodi. This is not a difficult choice, this intimate relationship is clear to discerning people.
But Cai Sicheng was really blinded by "love", he felt that it was not so simple for him to find a 20-year-old wife younger than him, once he disobeyed Liu Xiaodi, how could he have a chance to hold a beauty in the future?
So in order to appease Liu Xiaodi's emotions, Cai Sicheng really didn't care about his eldest son, not only did he not give the bride price, but he also had to separate from his eldest son.
said that it was a separation, but in fact, it was to drive the eldest son out, and the furniture was only given to him a small bench.
Cai Sicheng used this extreme way to show loyalty to Liu Xiaodi, for you, I even drove out my own son, is the sincerity enough?
Is that enough? It's not enough.
The eldest son who was about to start a family was driven away, and Liu Xiaodi was still not at ease, because Cai Sicheng's youngest son was still a hidden danger.
Cai Sicheng's youngest son is very smart, his grades have always been at the top of his class, and he is about to graduate from primary school, so he can go to a key junior high school if nothing else.
Liu Xiaodi knows that the cost of a child's education is a bottomless pit, and the more a child becomes a talent, the more he has to invest money in him. What's more, what parent doesn't like a child with good grades?
If Cai Sicheng's youngest son is allowed to continue studying, the educational resources of his two children will definitely be divided in the future, and it will even directly threaten the status of their mother and son in Cai Sicheng's family.
Now Cai Sicheng is obedient because he thinks that Liu Xiaodi is young, and after a few years, Liu Xiaodi's age will also come up, can he still guarantee that he is so obedient?
In order to prevent future troubles, Liu Xiaodi forced Cai Sicheng to let his youngest son drop out of school and go to work on the construction site.
If it is the first time, it is because the eldest son is an adult and does not need his father to take responsibility. This time, it really doesn't make sense to let the youngest son who is still in the compulsory education stage drop out of school.
But Cai Sicheng can't turn back, he has already "sacrificed" his eldest son, and now let him give up Liu Xiaodi, isn't it a chicken and an egg? He has only one way to go to the dark, to bet that Liu Xiaodi will always accompany him, and Liu Xiaodi's two children can also repay their kindness.
As a result, the childish youngest son was also forced to leave the campus, went out early, and went to make a living on his own.
The second half of the life of the wrong payment
How ruthless Cai Sicheng is to his two own sons, how good he is to his pair of stepsons and stepdaughters.
The reason why Cai Sicheng treated the two children so hard was not only for Liu Xiaodi's face, but also because when he came to this family, his stepdaughter was only 5 years old and his stepson was only 3 years old, and he felt that as long as he was good enough to them, they would treat him as their biological father.
The four of them will be able to form a new family of harmony and beauty.
Of course, all this is nothing more than Cai Sicheng's own wishful thinking.
Liu Xiaodi's two children are also very competitive, and their grades have always been very good. The child's grades are good, the heavier the burden on Cai Sicheng's shoulders. The most important thing is that the two children are growing up day by day, and Cai Sicheng is also aging day by day.
In terms of generation, Cai Sicheng is the stepfather of two children, but in terms of age, he is more than enough to be the grandfather of two children.
The medicinal herb business is not as good as in previous years, and Cai Sicheng can only pay twice as much to maintain the family.
So Cai Sicheng's dedication is rewarded?
Liu Xiaodi's two children are not close to Cai Sicheng, they almost never call him "Dad", and Liu Xiaodi has no intention of guiding them.
Every time Cai Sicheng got news from them, he asked him for money, today it was tuition and miscellaneous fees, and tomorrow it was tutoring. The more children learn, the more they learn, and Cai Sicheng's family background is getting thinner and thinner.
It's normal for children to be rebellious when they're older, not to mention that they're not biological, even if they're biological, the relationship with their parents isn't necessarily good when they reach adolescence.
The child can't count on it, so what about Liu Xiaodi?
Cai Sicheng has been with Liu Xiaodi for a total of 17 years, and he has always been "famous", and he has also proposed to Liu Xiaodi many times to get a marriage certificate in the past, but Liu Xiaodi has refused every time for various reasons.
Liu Xiaodi told Cai Sicheng that as long as the hearts of two people are together, is it important to have that certificate or not?
Of course, it is important to Cai Sicheng, but the huge price paid in the early stage makes him unable to leave Liu Xiaodi, whether he gets the certificate or not, he can't get out.
Liu Xiaodi, the woman he has always called "wife" in front of people, has never really belonged to him.
No matter how stupid Cai Sicheng is, after so many years, he has figured out what it means behind not getting a certificate.
He understands that Liu Xiaodi is leaving a way back for himself, but he can only suppress this idea in his heart, and can only hope that Liu Xiaodi still has a conscience.
The reason why wishful thinking is wishful thinking is because such ideas can always be frustrated.
Just after Cai Sicheng lived with Liu Xiaodi for 17 years, Liu Xiaodi suddenly disappeared.
A bleak end
Cai Sicheng returned home after a busy day, and found that the building was empty, and the only 6,000 yuan left in the drawer was also taken away.
He called Liu Xiaodi, and the other party just coldly told him that the two of them should break up, on the grounds that Cai Sicheng could no longer afford the promised living expenses of 500 yuan per month.
After that, Cai Sicheng called again, or he was hung up after just saying a few words, and no one answered after calling again.
Cai Sicheng sat at home dumbfounded, at this time he was facing a problem even more serious than being lonely and old, that is, he was almost penniless.
Over the years, he has either given the hard-earned money and hard-earned money to Liu Xiaodi, or used it as the education expenses of his stepdaughter and stepson, and he has not been able to keep the money at all.
Now that Liu Xiaodi is gone, he is likely to face starvation.
In desperation, he hoped that the reporter could help and begged his two biological sons to help.
In fact, after Cai Sicheng separated from his eldest son, the eldest son lived next door, but the eldest son said that he was sick and had no contact for many years.
The youngest son worked in other places and never came back for many years.
Seeing his eldest daughter-in-law playing cards at the entrance of the village, he stepped forward to ask for help, but the eldest daughter-in-law poured bitter water on the reporter.
Seeing this scene, he also understood that he had done too much back then, and he had no face to continue talking.
It is not a solution to sit alone at home, Cai Sicheng decided to find a way from his stepdaughter. At this time, Cai Sicheng's stepdaughter had graduated from graduate school, and as far as he knew, her stepdaughter was now working in a hospital in Changsha.
But when Cai Sicheng came to the hospital and explained his intentions, the hospital staff told him that there was no such person in the hospital at all.
That is, the stepdaughter gave him a fake address, and what's more, the phone number left for him was also fake. In other words, the stepdaughter completely lost contact after being pulled by him and going to work.
Cai Sicheng was sad and angry, and then he contacted his stepson, who was still in graduate school.
This time the phone was connected, but the stepson made it clear on the other end of the phone that he had nothing to do with Cai Sicheng, and he and his mother Liu Xiaodi did not get a certificate, and he would not care about Cai Sicheng's pension problem.
After touching a circle of walls, the program team had to come to Liu Xiaodi's hometown and find Liu Xiaodi himself.
The stepdaughter lost contact, the stepson cleared the relationship, and when Liu Xiaodi arrived, he was directly beaten up.
Liu Xiaodi and her family think that they don't owe Cai Sicheng anything, and Cai Sicheng has spent a lot of money for their mother and son over the years.
Didn't Liu Xiaodi give his youth for Cai Sicheng?
Cai Sicheng is young and Liu Xiaodi is young, Liu Xiaodi is rich in Cai Sicheng, and the two are mutually beneficial. Now that Cai Sicheng has finished "consuming" Liu Xiaodi's youth, and wants Liu Xiaodi to provide for him, isn't Liu Xiaodi "empty of people and money" and has become a big wrongdoer?
Liu Xiaodi's family's set of rhetoric really made people stunned.
Although the media intervened in this matter, Cai Sicheng did not get a satisfactory result in the end.
Liu Xiaodi refused to change his mind, the two children who were raised by Cai Sicheng were completely white-eyed wolves, and his own two biological sons also hated their confused father.
trained two other people's children to become graduate students, and his two sons, one of them left the house, and the other failed to complete compulsory education.
Cai Sicheng's old age is indeed miserable, but it is difficult for people to sympathize with him, and the bitter fruit that Cai Sicheng swallowed today is also the cause he planted back then.
There is a knife on the head of the color word, it is Cai Sicheng himself who abandoned his family affection in order to bring back his 20-year-old wife, and when he needed to be taken care of by his relatives in his later years, he ended up alone, which is really nothing to complain about.
Middle-aged men, especially middle-aged men with successful careers, must not have this illusion, feel that they are still very marketable among young girls, and young girls will only want your money and house.
And you yourself are just a "price" that they have to endure in order to get these good material things, and when they don't have to put up with you one day, they will kick you away.
Resources:
The official account of the Hunan metropolis "Looking for Love" program: A 53-year-old man, with a 33-year-old woman, raised her children, but said goodbye after 17 years