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I am an ordinary phoenix man, born in an ordinary family in a small city, nothing special. My name is Li Hao, and I have been taught since I was a child to work hard and gain a foothold in society. I don't have a family business to inherit, and I don't have any special skills, so I have to work hard with my own hands.
My wife, now the daughter of my parents-in-law, met when we were in college. She is a gentle and kind girl who always gives a sense of affection. We fell in love, didn't go through too many twists and turns, and entered the palace of marriage smoothly.
However, a happy marriage didn't make my life easy. Like many phoenix men, I faced criticism and doubts from my parents-in-law. They thought I didn't have enough family background and financial strength and were worried that I wouldn't be able to bring happiness to their daughter. Every time I go to my parents-in-law's house, I can feel their coldness and alienation from me, which makes me feel very uncomfortable.
I worked hard to prove my abilities and sincerity, but my parents-in-law always seemed to find out the good in my work and often found fault with me. This left me feeling depressed and worried about the future of my marriage.
However, what disturbed me the most was not the attitude of my parents-in-law towards me, but the fact that I found out that my wife was secretly transferring a large amount of money to her parents every month. At first I thought it was her personal expenses, but then I realized that the amount of money was not used to cover daily expenses at all.
I tried to ask her, but each time she digressed or gave me some cryptic reason. I was feeling more and more confused and anxious, not knowing what exactly my wife was doing or how to deal with it. I felt like I was stuck in a predicament from which I could not extricate myself.
I decided to talk to my wife about this again, I needed to know what the hell she was doing. So, one weekend evening, we sat quietly in the living room, and I struggled to keep myself calm and started the conversation.
"Honey, I'd like to talk to you." I spoke tentatively.
She looked up, glanced at me, and frowned slightly. "What's the matter?" There was a hint of confusion in her voice.
"I found out that you transfer money to your parents every month." I said bluntly, "It's a lot of money, and I'm starting to feel like something isn't right." ”
Her face changed slightly, but she quickly regained her composure. "This ...... It's a little bit of my own savings, and I want to give some subsidies to my parents, who are now retired and have a lot of money to live on. She explained lightly.
"But it's too much money." I still find it a little incredible, "How can you have so much savings when we have a lot of living expenses right now?" ”
She sighed, as if thinking about what to say. "Actually...... I have a job that you don't know about. She finally confessed, "Every month I give a part of it to my parents." ”
I was shocked, I never thought she would have such a secret. I tried to understand her thoughts, but I still felt a sense of loss in my heart. "Why didn't you tell me?" I asked, somewhat angrily, "We are husband and wife and should trust each other and share everything." ”
She bit her lip slightly, as if feeling a little guilty. "I know you're not going to understand, and I don't want to burden you."
"But your concealment of this fact only makes me feel more uneasy." I said with some frustration, "I'm not one who can't take responsibility. ”
An apologetic look flashed in her eyes, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hide it. ”
We were silent for a while, and I began to reflect on the marriage and how to deal with it next. At this moment, I felt that my heart was full of contradictions and confusion.
In the face of my wife's confession, I felt a churn in my heart. I began to think about the issue of trust between us and how to deal with this sudden challenge.
"There was a lack of communication between us." I finally spoke, "If we could communicate more openly, maybe there wouldn't be so many misunderstandings." ”
She nodded in agreement. "I also feel like we need more communication."
"But why are you hiding this job?" I continued, "Is it because I expect too much from you that you don't find it satisfying?" ”
She shook her head, "No, I don't think you expect too much from me. It's just that...... I don't want you to worry. ”
I listened quietly to her explanation, and my heart began to feel calm. "I see." I said, "We must communicate more and trust each other in the future." ”
She smiled and nodded, "Okay, I'll try to be as honest with you as possible." ”
Our conversation was over, and while it was still a bit hard to let go, I felt like I had made the right decision. I decided to trust my wife and believe that she was for the good of the family and not for any other purpose.
However, just when I thought everything was going to get better, I found myself in a deeper predicament.
One weekend evening, I was about to watch TV with my wife when I suddenly received a call from an unfamiliar number. I was a little confused, but picked it up anyway.
"Hey, hello, I'm a sales person of a certain company, I have a special discount product here, I want to ask if you are interested?" The voice of a strange man came from the other end of the phone.
I wanted to just hang up, but when I heard the words "preferential product", I was a little curious. "What kind of product is it?" I asked casually.
"This product is an insurance product that can provide you and your family with a full range of protection, and the price is very favorable." The man said enthusiastically.
I was a little hesitant and I hadn't thought about buying insurance, but it did sound a little tempting. "Can you send me a detailed information?" I asked.
The man immediately said yes and told me he would send a message to my phone. "Thank you for your cooperation and have a nice evening." He said a polite goodbye and hung up.
I put my phone aside, feeling a little uneasy. I started to think about why this strange man would find my phone number and how he knew I might be interested in an insurance product. I couldn't help but wonder if my wife's job was some shady deal.
I tried to suppress the doubts in my mind and tell myself not to over-interpret them. However, the uneasiness in my heart grew stronger, and I began to think about whether I should investigate it. All of this left me feeling very conflicted and confused, and I didn't know what to do.
I decided to wait and see if there was more evidence of a problem with my wife's job. I began to secretly keep an eye on her whereabouts and some details, but everything seemed normal, and nothing out of the ordinary was noticed.
However, my doubts did not go away, but grew stronger. I began to wonder if my wife was hiding something important, and I began to wonder if our marriage was really based on honesty and trust.
By chance, I found some clues that made me doubt the authenticity of my wife's work. I found some documents that she had left at home, with some details of her work and some transactions, that looked a little unusual.
I started to put these clues together and try to find the clues. I don't know if I should tell my wife, but I know I can't do nothing anymore.
One weekend afternoon, I decided to have a good talk with my wife. We were sitting in the living room, and I took out those papers and laid them directly on the table.
"Honey, I have something I want to talk to you about." I said, my voice a little heavy.
She looked at the papers on the table with a surprised expression. "These are ......"
"I've found some clues that make me wonder if your work is real." I interrupted her, "I know I might be overly sensitive, but I can't stop pretending that nothing happened. ”
She was silent for a moment, clearly caught off guard. "I ...... I can explain. She tried to come up with a plausible explanation.
"I need you to tell the truth." I said firmly, "There is a lack of communication and trust between us, and I can no longer be kept in the dark." ”
Her expression became complicated, as if she was weighing what to say. "Actually, my job is a bit unusual." She finally spoke, "I'm an insurance salesperson for a private company, but I'm not selling regular insurance products. ”
When I heard this, I was shocked. I began to understand why that strange man called me and why she had to transfer so much money to her parents every month. "Are you doing illegal trading?" I asked, my voice shaky.
She nodded, and in the face of my questioning, she could no longer hide it. "Yes, I admit it." Her voice was deep, "I know I'm not doing it right, but I can't help it. ”
I felt like a knife in my heart, I never thought she would get involved in such a dark industry. "Why?" I was disappointed, "Why did you choose this lifestyle?" ”
Her eyes filled with tears, "Because I don't want to see you and my parents disappointed." "I want them to have a good life, but I don't have enough capacity." ”
Hearing what she said, I began to understand her distress, but I still couldn't accept her behavior. "You shouldn't choose that way." I whispered, "We can face difficulties together instead of choosing to run away." ”
She burst into tears, and I felt like a knife. The trust between us has taken a serious hit, and I don't know what to do. All this made me feel very conflicted and helpless.
In the face of my wife's confession, I felt like a knife. I don't know how to deal with all this, I need time to think calmly.
"We can't go on like this." I ended up saying, "We need to solve the problem, not run away." ”
She looked up, her eyes filled with helplessness. "I know I was wrong, but I don't really know what to do." Her voice trembled, "I'm afraid of losing you and my parents. ”
I sighed deeply, "I'm also afraid of losing you, but we can't escape reality anymore." "I struggled to control my emotions," and we needed to find a solution to the problem. ”
We were silent for a while, each thinking about what to do next. Eventually, I decided to step away for a while and think about it calmly.
"I need some time to be alone and think about our future." I said, "I don't want to make a hasty decision. ”
She nodded, her eyes full of understanding and apology. "I'll wait for you." She whispered, "I'm going to make a change and let's start over." ”
I didn't say anything more, turned around and left the house. I need to be alone to think quietly about all this and find the right solution. I know that this marriage is already facing a serious crisis, but I also believe that as long as we trust each other and work together, there may be hope to save it.
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