Marriage sets a clear boundary for two people to protect each other's feelings and resist temptations from the outside world.
A married woman, when interacting with the opposite sex, will lose her sense of proportion and cross boundaries if she is not careful.
Her heart, along with her words and deeds, will begin to waver, gradually deviate from the original track, and fall into a dangerous situation.
It can be seen whether a woman has boundaries or not.
Your woman has crossed the "line" if she has done the following to a man outside of marriage.
Concerned about the affairs of men outside of marriage, everything is concerned
Nietzsche said, "Marriage is unhappy, not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship." ”
A woman without boundaries will pay too much attention to a man outside of marriage and will be intimate with his affairs.
She has unknowingly fallen into the life of a man outside of marriage, using her care to promote the development of her relationship.
She will do her best to meet the requests and help that men outside of marriage put to her, giving full patience and response.
As long as it is a message from him, the woman will definitely check it as soon as possible, put down the matter in her hand, and give a reply.
For example, if a man says that he is stressed and irritable at work, the woman will listen patiently and give comfort and encouragement.
Another example is that if a man says that he hasn't gone out to relax for a long time, the woman will immediately arrange a trip to let him relax.
Although, there is no substantial development between a woman and a man outside of marriage, her words and deeds have crossed the line, and there is an atmosphere of ambiguity and intimacy everywhere.
Her heart, in fact, has long been lost in her concern and response to men outside of marriage.
When you are with a man outside of marriage, you can talk ambiguously
Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", after divorcing her husband Chen Junsheng, met He Han, the company's project manager.
He Han is a mature and stable man with a successful career, and his appearance made Luo Zijun feel the feeling of being watched and cared for again.
In getting along with He Han, Luo Zijun gradually developed a good impression of him, and began to maintain an ambiguous relationship with him intentionally or unintentionally.
She will deliberately show weakness in front of He Han to win his sympathy and concern; When she chatted with He Han, she would use some ambiguous words and expressions to make He Han misunderstand her intentions.
Luo Zijun's various behaviors show that she has crossed the line. She is no longer the simple and kind housewife, but a woman who craves love and passion.
Ambiguity is the first step to break through the boundaries.
Married women cross the line and will talk ambiguously with men outside of marriage. In the words, there is a deep meaning, which makes men outside of marriage constantly speculate.
When getting along with an extramarital man, she makes no secret of her admiration and desires, and uses words to test his bottom line.
Women and men outside of marriage like to joke without boundaries, and if they speak ambiguously, they are already deviant.
and men outside of marriage, there are no physical boundaries
A reader named Lin Xiao confided in me:
She said that once she was shopping with a friend and saw her husband with a woman. They hold hands and behave intimately, like a couple in love.
Lin Xiao couldn't accept this fact, she rushed up and asked her husband why he did this to her.
The husband said nonchalantly that he was just talking to this woman and had nothing else to do.
Lin Xiao didn't believe his words and began to pay attention to his actions, and finally found evidence of his transgression in his mobile phone.
If a woman has no boundaries in physical contact with a man outside of marriage, she always unconsciously behaves inappropriately, proving that her heart has betrayed the marriage.
Physical contact between people of the opposite sex is often associated with each other.
Women and men outside of marriage have no physical boundaries when they get along, which is equivalent to having no bottom line.
She has long since left her fidelity to her marriage behind her, allowing her desires to control her reason.
It's easy to betray your marriage, and as long as you indulge your heart a little, you will break through the boundaries of marriage and fall into a difficult situation in your marriage.
However, if one is dominated by one's own desires, one must bear the consequences of indulgence.
Crossing the line in a marriage can lead to a broken marriage and a broken relationship.
On the road of life, we must learn to protect our marriage with our hearts, maintain our original intentions, work hard to manage each other's feelings, and firmly grasp our own happiness.