If you want to go on for a long time, you must understand the real needs of the other party and know the desire for love of the opposite sex.
Love is not self-righteousness, but putting oneself in the other person's shoes.
Get along with each other in the way that the other party desires, so that you can be right and not take a detour.
The lover relationship that a man's heart desires is like this, and only when he is satisfied can he love you more.
There is a separate space, so you don't have to be sticky all the time
In love, a man's desire for independent space is like a fish's desire for water.
Fish have no water, there is no way to survive, love has no freedom, there is no space, for men, it is torture.
Men are teenagers until they die, and they don't change themselves easily for anyone's sake. If you try to change him, the result will be miserable.
Don't be too clingy, don't spend all your time on men, give him freedom and give yourself space.
Two people are usually busy, and when they are free, they go dating, shopping, and watching movies, and they don't have to be tied up all the time, which is the love that men crave.
It can be ritualistic, but not too deliberate
A friend of the opposite sex complained to me: Why do you women have so many strange festivals?
He is in love, his girlfriend pays great attention to the sense of ceremony, he has been in love for a month, he has been in love for 100 days, 520, 521, and then it is the girl's birthday. Every time the festival is held, the other party has to have a sense of ceremony, so that his head is too big.
Don't talk about him, even if it's my head.
Love does require a sense of ritual, but if it is too deliberate, it will weaken the impact of that sense of ritual.
And it will add a burden to the other party, but the sweetness you want is pressure on the other party, which loses the true nature of love.
Like friends and brothers, they can talk to each other and have a good drink
Why are many men not in a hurry to go home when they get downstairs, and are very keen on the space in the car?
Why are many men silent in front of women, and they are not willing to say a word to you?
It's because you made him want to escape, and you didn't give him a sense of reassurance and peace of mind.
Yang Lan said: Husband and wife not only need love, but also need the righteousness of treating each other, the tacit understanding of never abandoning and the unforgettable kindness.
The best relationship between lovers is like friends and brothers, where they can talk to each other and have a good drink.
Make him feel comfortable like a friend, like a brother, accompany him to do what he wants, instead of tying him down as a lover.
Love each other, each wonderful
When I was working in a certain company, the boss lady often went to the company to give advice, probably because she was not at ease with the boss and went to spy on him, but this did not prevent the boss from having an affair.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", although Gu Jia is a full-time wife, she likes to go to the company to add a kick.
Although Xu Huanshan doesn't have much ability, many things in the company need to rely on Gu Jia.
But Xu Huanshan didn't think so, he would only feel that Gu Jia was too fond of mixing and disrespected him.
Later, Xu Huanshan had a lover outside of marriage, and completely slapped Gu Jia's "perfect wife" in the face.
It is better for men and women not to mix together in official affairs, it is easy to have conflicts, and at the same time, it will weaken the rights of men, so that he cannot display himself, so that he will complain about you.
It is best to love each other, be wonderful in each other, and shine in their own field, which is what men desire the most.
Women, no matter how much they love men, don't be like silk flowers, tightly entwining men.
The more you pester him, the more annoying he will be with you.
Give him space and freedom to do what he wants, so that the flower of love can bloom to the fullest.