#头条创作挑战赛#
On the stage of life, no matter what glorious peaks you have experienced, or what kind of difficult troughs you have fallen into, in the final analysis, this is nothing more than a long journey of self-cultivation. Everyone is measuring the depth and breadth of life at their own pace.
In the same way, interpersonal communication is like the journey of life, and no matter who we have developed over the course of time, we have developed a deep emotional bond and shared great trust, and we should also follow the principle of respecting other people's life choices and not interfering in their life trajectories.
Everyone's journey through life needs to be walked independently, and no matter who they spend this journey with, only relationships built on a clear sense of boundaries can truly endure and endure.
Interpersonal relationships are undoubtedly a profound and complex science, and it is worth spending our lives to understand and practice. In this journey of exploration, it is especially important to bear in mind that there are some things that we must learn to let go, not to interfere too much, and let the flower of our lives bloom freely.
Don't give people ideas about the affairs of the other party's family
Life is a journey that belongs to an individual and is not directly related to others. Whether as a friend, colleague, or close partner, we should avoid overstepping our bounds in making decisions for others when it comes to major personal matters involving the other person's family.
Some people often wave the banner of "for your own good" and make decisions for others without permission, but ignore the behavior of over-interfering in the lives of others and lacking a sense of proportion, which is actually the biggest damage to trust and friendship.
In the complex life script, if you fail to understand the development of the situation, rashly say inappropriate words, and take inappropriate actions, you will often turn your good intentions into the opposite result, which will have an immeasurable negative impact on others.
For onlookers, if they do not have a deep understanding of the specific situation, they should not easily make choices for others, because your one-sided views may bring irreparable losses to others.
Everyone's life is full of trivial and complicated, we are all ordinary people in the world, there are few dramatic ups and downs and perfect endings, and more trivial details of daily life such as disputes between husband and wife, troubles in children's education, and the delicate balance of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Therefore, as an outsider, no matter who you associate with, it is important to remember not to meddle in other people's family matters. As the old saying goes, "the ugliness of the family should not be publicized", each family has its own unique philosophy of life and etiquette for dealing with others, and the greatest respect for them is to give them the space to deal with housework, which is the most sincere blessing.
Don't make decisions for others about the other party's work
Life is like a never-ending experience, we are always facing the next challenge after crossing a rugged road, but it is in this time and again that we temper ourselves and confirm the saying "although the pass is dangerous, but the pass can be crossed".
In the torrent of the workplace, the taste can only be deeply experienced by those who have experienced it, and others cannot fully empathize. As a friend or family member, listening at the right time is often the warmest and most powerful comfort in the face of their troubles.
It's important to remember that everyone's working life is their own unique journey, so it's not a good idea to make decisions for others, especially when it comes to career success.
Sometimes, all they need is a brief empathizer, someone who understands and accepts their emotions, rather than a pusher who rushes to push their decisions in the face of emotional turmoil.
True friendship is not blindly echoing and supporting, but showing reason and calmness at critical moments. Even when the other person is emotional, he can stick to an objective position and put forward opinions and analyses that may not be pleasant to the ear but are useful. As the old saying goes, "Good medicine is bitter, but it can cure disease; Faithful to the ear, but to help others to move forward".
Those who can stay sober in the difficult situation and provide valuable advice to the confused from an objective perspective are undoubtedly the most worthy partners for in-depth interaction.
However, no matter how strong the friendship is, we should know how to take a good measure. We can provide analysis and advice, but when it comes to work decisions, we must respect individual choices and not overstep the bounds.
The gossip of the other party is the same as others
The ancients said: "Blessing comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth." This statement shows the close relationship between one's words and deeds and one's cultivation.
A person of noble character, no matter who he interacts with, is able to think and judge independently of what others say, rather than blindly following the opinions of others.
Adults know what is appropriate and what is not, and most importantly, they do not spread the private affairs of others.
No matter what situation you are in, in order to gain a foothold in society, you must have the ability to think and judge independently, and avoid blindly following others, and groundless accusations and slander against others are the most unscrupulous behaviors.
Life belongs to oneself, and one should not pay too much attention to the lives of others in order to satisfy curiosity and voyeurism.
If you act too openly and spread rumors, such people cannot be trusted and relied on.
As the saying goes, "if you don't stick a knife in your heart, you won't feel pain", empathy is an indispensable ability. When you encounter a predicament, you will realize the depth of the damage of those gossip.
The way of being a person, sincerity-based; Between words, wisdom comes first. When interacting with others, regardless of their status, avoid blindly following others and spreading gossip.
The most comfortable relationship between people lies precisely in:
Maintain the right distance, be respectful and courteous in your words, act in moderation and appropriately, live your life with sincerity, and at the same time be involved in the trajectory of others' lives.
I strongly agree with this view, believing that the wisdom of interpersonal communication can best reflect a person's emotional intelligence, intelligence and moral cultivation.
Here, we sincerely invite you to click to follow, and hope that we can meet beautiful people for the rest of our lives and embark on a smooth road of life. No matter who you get along with, you should follow this principle, do not interfere with others' affairs, let life be full of love, and let yourself always be bathed in the warmth of love.