Life is just a practice.
A lot of people, after going through something, will become more mature. In relationships, they do the same.
Although it will no longer be the same as before, desperate to love someone. But they also know that no one can guarantee that there will be a result in the matter of feelings.
So they will also become more cautious when choosing feelings.
If one of the two people in love has given sincerity, then the other party must learn to cherish it.
When we give our hearts to someone, we can no longer love desperately as before. Because we need to take responsibility for our own lives, and we also need to be responsible for our future.
- Unsuitable people, don't force it
"We all have our own moons, distant stars, and you won't see me, and I won't see you. But no matter when, there is always such a person who can brighten your life. ”
In love, nothing is supposed and nothing is necessary. There is no point in wasting time and energy on people you don't like.
If there is someone who makes you feel unacceptable, give up as soon as possible. Don't always try to force someone who doesn't love you.
Because love is a happy thing. If this person does not make you feel happy and joyful, then there is no need for the relationship to continue.
If you can't change his personality and behavior, don't force him.
Everyone has the right and freedom to choose their own love. If a person is always forcing himself to love someone he doesn't like, he is wasting his time and energy.
In the end, it is only yourself who can be hurt.
If you love someone, then please love him well; If you don't love him, then please leave him. Stop torturing yourself.
- The love that you can't get is not worth it
Each of us will experience a relationship. In this relationship, some people can manage well and eventually reap love. And some people don't know how to cherish it, and in the end they can only let themselves miss it.
In real life, we may meet all kinds of people, and some of them can go to the end with us. But there are also people who will only let us accompany him for a while. Many people don't understand why some people give up on a relationship so quickly. In fact, it's not that they don't love you enough, it's that they don't know how to cherish it.
Don't force love if you can't get it, because the more you can't get something, the more you'll want to get it. This is the weakness of human nature, and it is the same in love. We all want to be able to get a good relationship, but sometimes the more we want something, the more we often don't get it. So when we face this kind of thing, we have to learn to let go.
- Someone who truly loves you will not make you cry
If a person is sincere in his devotion to you, his love will not make you shed tears.
He may make you happy when you are angry; He may give you a hug when you are sad; He may give you a shoulder when you are sad.
However, he won't let you cry either.
Because when a person is willing to shed tears for a person, it means that the person truly loves the person.
If he doesn't love the person, then he doesn't care how sad the person is.
Therefore, in a relationship, if you really love someone, don't make her sad. Because when a person is sad and sad, she is very vulnerable.
Don't wait until you lose it to know that you regret it, that will only make yourself more miserable.
Whether it is a man or a woman, when they choose someone who loves them, they must learn to cherish each other. Because only when a person truly loves himself, will he know how to feel sorry for you.
Therefore, when we meet such a man who truly loves us, we must learn to cherish him. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it.